20 19 closest circle of friends: the world of middle-aged people is the rest of their lives.

I once read a very popular saying in Weibo:

"Don't scold young people loudly, they will resign immediately, but you can scold those middle-aged people to death, especially those who have cars, houses and babies."

When people reach middle age, life is half slope.

The road ahead is not only long, but also pursuit. It seems that everyone's world is the rest of his life.

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Purgatory on earth, only self-crossing.

Some time ago, Wuxi elevated road suddenly rolled over, and a tricycle driver almost died.

Not long after the incident, the tricycle driver suddenly became a "network red man" of a video software.

Everyone is holding a mobile phone in front of them, trying to get "lucky" or shooting a short video of an explosion.

Looking at the helpless face of this middle-aged man, I felt a inexplicable heartache.

In fact, many people don't know that on the day of the incident, the tricycle driver wanted to cross the road and quickly sent the goods home for dinner.

But the red light suddenly turned on, and he subconsciously stepped on the brakes. At that moment, the viaduct collapsed.

His legs were weak with fear, and his brain went blank. He sat on a tricycle for a long time and never recovered.

Later, until the crowd gradually gathered, people began to shoot live videos.

He just drove a broken tricycle, detoured a long way and continued to deliver goods.

Many people have told him that "you will be blessed if you live", but he is happy and lost.

In the face of various interviews, what he said most was: "Don't think too much, don't think too much! The days still have to pass. "

Zhang Ailing has a famous saying:

"In this bizarre world, no one can live a smooth life."

When people reach middle age, the hardships in life are always hard to say. It seems that life is only forbearance and hard support.

Sometimes not only tears depend on time, but also collapse should have principles.

Before, I saw a news.

A female anchor in India discovered that one of the victims was actually her husband when she was broadcasting the news of the car accident.

In order to ensure the smooth progress of the news, she fought back tears and tried to stay calm until she finally collapsed and cried backstage.

As "Seeing" said: "Behind some faces, there is a soul who grits his teeth."

Halfway through life, there are always some attacks hidden in the dark, which will make us unprepared.

All living beings are suffering, only to cross the river.

I can only hide the unseen grievances and collapses in my heart, and then pack my bags and continue on my way.

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Contrary to expectations is the eternal theme of life.

I once heard a story and felt deeply.

When an old gentleman died, his heart was filled with regret. He begged God to give him a chance to live another life with what he had.

Fortunately, God granted his wish.

When the old man woke up, he was a newborn baby, and his memory was still sealed in his brain.

Therefore, he grew up again, lived and worked ... all his life, and he came to the edge of life again.

God asked him, "Do you understand now?"

The old man replied:

Life is at stake, and thousands of lives are being robbed.

The older you get, the more you understand: the eternal theme of life is to backfire. And we should not only learn to accept, but also learn to bear.

Previously, the couple talked about their daughter who was lost many years ago for the first time in Lu Yu You Yue, which attracted the attention of countless people.

As we all know, Chow Yun Fat has never had children.

But what people don't know is that Chow Yun Fat's wife was pregnant with a daughter more than twenty years ago.

It's just that my daughter was suffocated by the umbilical cord around her neck when she was about to give birth.

The death of my daughter not only brought great harm to the family, but also made my wife unable to get out of this shadow for seven years.

Later, Chow Yun Fat didn't want his wife to suffer any more, so she never wanted children again.

Some people say:

"Chow Yun Fat is not only a good actor, but also a good husband. If he gets what he wants, maybe he can be a good father. "

But unfortunately, life is like a transaction. As for perfection, it is all obsession, and only gain and loss are the normal state of life.

As Xu Zhimo said: "It is lucky to get it and lose your life."

Walking in the world, how much you pick up in the first half of your life, how much you put down in the second half. We will eventually learn to face everything calmly and move on.

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Life must be full of joy.

Liu Yuzeng wrote in "Send You a Bullet":

"How long is a list in everyone's heart and what wonderful things are written on the list. But they are always put on hold and rot in the attic of time. "

Many times, what hurts us most is not the regret itself, but the opportunity we once had.

Two days ago, a video was circulated in a circle of friends, which made countless people cry.

A husband in Dalian arranged a special wedding for his dead wife at the funeral home.

It is understood that his wife was diagnosed with cancer five years ago. Since then, the husband has been with his wife and actively treated.

But contrary to expectations, the wife finally failed to overcome the disease.

Once upon a time, my wife's greatest wish was to hold a wedding, but for various reasons, this matter has been put on hold.

After his wife died, the husband traveled all over the city to choose the most beautiful wedding dress.

But the saddest thing is that this long-awaited wedding was followed by a funeral.

I have seen a very popular question on Zhihu before: "When is the best moment in a person's life?"

A person's life is made up of every moment. Whether we are bitter or laughing, we all have the responsibility to feel well.

I remember seeing a movie before, and one of the clips impressed me deeply.

The hero and a photographer are waiting for the appearance of rare snow leopards in the Himalayas.

After months of waiting, a snow leopard appeared on the ridge. But the photographer didn't raise the camera.

"Sometimes I don't shoot, because the lens will distract me. I like a moment, I just want to immerse myself in that moment, enjoy that moment and enjoy the present. "

I like a passage written by Wang Xiaobo in the Golden Age:

"I just want to live vigorously at this moment. It doesn't matter where I go and who I meet."

Today's happiness is today's happiness, and the troubles of other days are also the troubles of other days. Only by learning to live in the present can we continue our journey without regrets.

Suffix

Writer Liu Tong once said:

"Everything is in the past, look back at yourself. It turns out that everything has cracks, and this is where the light comes in. "

Life is a training ground, and life becomes full and rich in the constant interweaving of sadness and joy.

The rest of my life is not easy. May you and I both learn to live gently and kindly.

I also hope that every passer-by on the road of life will have stories in his eyes and no vicissitudes in his face.