Biologically speaking, why do women like rich people? Thank you.

1. Sperm and eggs

Let's talk about the most essential physiological differences between men and women: women's eggs are large, far less than sperm, so the number of offspring that women can reproduce is far less than that of men.

According to reliable statistics, a woman can have up to 69 children in her lifetime, which was set by the wife of Russian farmer fyodor Vashirnavi in the18th century. Including 16 pairs of twins, 7 sets of triplets and 4 sets of quadruplets, 67 of 69 children were successfully raised.

Compared with the record of 69 women, the number of children of a man is 1024, which was created by the bloodthirsty king Mu Ying Ismail. The harem beauty 3000 should be said to be this king.

Judging from the number of offspring, the value of female eggs is much higher than that of sperm.

Everyone has the need to pass on their own genes, so it is particularly important for women who have far less reproductive opportunities than men to choose men.

2. The contribution of men in reproduction

In nature, the most important contribution of men to fertility is the quality of sperm. Only good quality sperm can guarantee the viability of offspring, but human males are the exception. Although the genetic quality of human males is of great significance to reproduction, it is unlikely that human babies will survive only by their mothers and their own genes, so the most important contribution of human males is the ability to accumulate material resources predicted by genetic quality.

So this directly leads men to attract women by showing their potential wealth and the wealth they have already gained. Women, on the other hand, are more inclined to find men who can provide a stable life.

This also explains why women are more likely to marry older men, because in human society, older men have much higher resources and status than younger men.

3. Why send flowers on Valentine's Day?

Exchange rings are indispensable at weddings, and a diamond ring is often valuable. In my hometown of Wenzhou, Zhejiang, the older generation have to "alchemy" when they get married, and order two gold rings and necklaces. The proposition of buying flowers and sending flowers is inevitable in couples' daily life. Why do you need a diamond ring to propose marriage? Do women really like flowers?

What I have to mention here is the similarity between flowers and diamond rings. Flowers and diamond rings have an important similarity that others ignore: they are expensive and lack intrinsic value.

Diamond rings are expensive, but unlike cars, houses can be used.

Although flowers are very fragrant, they are not edible like potato chips and can be worn on the body like H&M.

Diamond rings and flowers are often expensive, but they lack intrinsic value (excluding some women who like flowers from the heart). Then why use a diamond ring when proposing marriage and send roses on holidays?

As mentioned above, women need to choose their male partners carefully. A good man in a woman's mind needs two excellent qualities: the ability to acquire and increase resources and the willingness to invest in her and her descendants. Generally speaking, men need the ability to earn money and the willingness to spend money for their partners and children. Flowers and diamonds meet these two requirements.

"Expensive" requires this man to have a certain material foundation or a strong ability to acquire material. Expensive and lacking in intrinsic value shows that men are willing to invest energy in women and their descendants (even if I bought you this useless thing, do you think I won't buy those useful things? )

Women don't necessarily like diamond rings and flowers, but their subconscious is eager to see them.

But that doesn't mean that women like rich men. As mentioned above, women value men's ability to accumulate materials and men's willingness to devote energy to her and her descendants. What rich men have, they can get it through hard work (women who are abused by men but don't want to leave are not under discussion).

Second, women's mate selection strategies

Our subconscious mind plays a vital role in our life. In fact, it can be said that it has been making decisions for us to continue our lives with its own set of selection criteria.

Just like when facing a roast chicken, we will subconsciously swallow saliva, but when facing a dead chicken covered with maggots, we will only feel sick.

Subconscious choice is called "evolutionary stability strategy". Bad strategies are naturally eliminated, good strategies survive, and these strategies will also be written into the subconscious of the next generation.

Men and women also have this strategy in choosing a spouse, but we seldom realize it ourselves, just as I don't know why I have a strange affection for girls with beautiful legs.

Here, let's talk about women's mate selection strategies. The way women choose their spouses is much clearer than we thought.

In our daily life, we have noticed that the criteria for choosing a spouse put forward by women always seem a bit high, such as the famous Xifeng (of course, hers is an exaggeration and a dramatic expression).

The criteria for a woman to choose a spouse are indeed higher than her actual needs, which has two advantages:

Directly screened out those men who want to take advantage.

If a woman is an excellent woman, this standard will make her many suitors compete automatically, eliminating the complicated and time-consuming process of screening out the best candidates one by one (it is so cruel that the most important thing for a man is to make himself excellent).

Some men who have been screened out naturally think that women prefer rich men because they are persistent in material things, not because they are not good enough.

If a man wants to develop a long-term relationship with a woman, then he will stay with her for life, and he also needs to be screened by women. This process is divided into four stages.

"Stage 1 attention threshold": Men at this stage, like passers-by around women, will not attract too much attention from women unless you are particularly excellent. Only when a man crosses this stage can he formally enter a woman's field of vision.

"The second stage: comfort stage": After crossing the attention threshold, men enter the comfort stage. At this stage, women will get along with you like friends. You can amuse her with jokes, and she will be relatively comfortable in front of you. If you behave well enough, you can still have a chance to date her, listen to her express her inner value, and also express your value orientation. It should be noted that women will be at this stage at the same time as many men. After a period of time, if it's not appropriate, we will retreat as friends, and if it's appropriate, we will enter the communication stage. The free stage is very important. If you spend too little time at this stage, it means that you don't know enough, and there will be cracks in the future and you will stay too long, so hello, male girlfriend ~

"Stage 3 Communication Stage": At this stage, women enter the relationship with the right man. At this stage, as long as men give women enough sense of security and comfort, women will be happy to enter the next stage of long-term relationship.

"The fourth stage of long-term relationship": As long as men do not degenerate, do not greatly reduce their love for women, and do not make life boring, this stage can last for a long time.

Women's mate selection requirements are of great significance, both in the comfort stage and in self-protection. I met some women who wanted more, and they were always hurt by love rat. After spending some time with them, I can clearly feel that they really don't protect themselves enough. Most of them don't have high standards in choosing a spouse (some really hate getting married, some think that having no boyfriend will make them unattractive), which makes men who talk nonsense take advantage. In The King of Repetition, men's "fuck off, break up and leave" is the code of conduct for such men. Part of it is because the time in the comfort stage is too short and the commitment is too early. This often leads to men not knowing enough about you and you not knowing enough about men. Personally, I think there is a reason for this, because men don't know your intrinsic value so well, so they often give you some unwanted responses.

For those women who have loved and been hurt once and then said that they no longer believe in love, I think you can seriously consider your choice of spouse and get along with each other. It's not love rat who comes to you, but you are attracting love rat.

What a man needs to get a woman's heart is energy input and ability improvement. If he just thinks that women like rich men, it's really superficial.

Think of a joke I saw on the Internet the other day:

A man complained on the internet: I have no money, so I can only stay in the rented room to play games on weekends, but I can't go out with my girlfriend and eat delicious but expensive things with her. So last week she broke up with me and found a rich boyfriend.

Someone replied to him: Your girlfriend left you not because you had no money, but because you knew that your income was very small, but you still didn't make progress and only stayed in the rented house to play games on weekends. Not because you can't take her out, but because you would rather play games than sit with her, go out for a walk, or prepare an inexpensive dinner for her.

Now you still think that women leave you because you have no money?

I work hard and hope that the landlord will adopt it.