If you want to control a man, you have to play dumb.

We all know this truth: the more you hold a person tightly, the more he wants to get rid of you, because he feels too tired. Only when you give him enough freedom and space will he care about your goodness and truly love you from the heart.

Therefore, women should understand that a good husband is by no means "managed". Everyone has a rebellious attitude. The more you hold him tightly and fear that he will betray your feelings, the easier it is for his heart to be attracted to other women.

Dickens said, "Never break four things in your life: trust, relationship, promise and heart.". Because when they are broken, they don't make any noise, but they are extremely painful. "

If you want to live a good life and maintain a good relationship with your husband, you must work hard.

Give a man enough trust and space, and he will feel that being with you is right.

When a man feels that being around you is a free thing, he won't change his mind.

-02-

Many women understand the truth, but she can never be free and easy. Because I care too much, I always want to control all men, but I don't know, it's just crowding out men.

Women should understand that a good man is not in charge, and there are some things that women should learn to be stupid. My best friend and her husband have been married for seven years. There is an old saying that the relationship between husband and wife is "three years of pain and seven years of itching." Not many couples have been in love for three years and can become husband and wife after three years.

The seven-year itch is the seventh year of marriage for couples, and they are familiar with each other. Romance has long gone with the pressure of life. Maybe both of them know each other's shortcomings and lose interest in each other.

However, why can my best friend and her husband always maintain such a good relationship?

My best friend is a woman with high emotional intelligence. She knows how to "play dumb" in some things.

She and her husband seldom quarrel, but I remember that for a while, they had a little emotional crisis, but it was finally solved.

Her husband attended a class reunion, and after the reunion with former classmates, the relationship became close, especially with one of the women named "Wang Xue".

My best friend once ran into them having dinner together. A woman who is not smart enough will definitely walk up to her husband and give him a scolding, but my best friend didn't do that.

She used to greet Wang Xue warmly, and her husband introduced this to Wang Xue as his wife. Isn't this the best of both worlds? This not only left a face for men, but also made Wang Xue understand his position.

My best friend knows that at some point, generosity can make men feel guilty.

In fact, girlfriends are not stupid at all. Does she have no sense of crisis when she sees her husband close to another woman? Of course, but she knows that if she is angry and confronts on the spot, it will be harmful to her marriage.

Therefore, she chose to trust her husband and play dumb in this matter.

-03-

Women should understand that a good husband is never a pipe, just like you want to hold a handful of sand, but the tighter you hold it, the more the sand wants to slip away.

So is your husband. If you always want to take care of him everywhere, you should ask him closely about his work details, you should limit his communication with friends, and even you should control him every minute, which will only make him farther and farther away from you.

Women still have to learn to "play dumb" in some things. If you are too smart, it will only make men want to leave more and more.