Unconsciously, I was calculated, my experience was too shallow, and it was too difficult to be a man.

1. humiliated-it is better to turn over than to be angry. 2. Face objections-listen and think. 3. Make mistakes-it is not surprising that you are young and frivolous. 4. Mistakes can make a real hero. 4. Worrying things-you can't just talk about them. 5. Rumors-you can't ignore them or pester them. 6. Other people's faces-don't pay too much attention. Go to the right. 9. Enter the business-men are afraid of entering the wrong business. Women are afraid of marrying the wrong husband 10. Make friends-friends can be "many" but not 1 1. Cooperate with acquaintances-friends are mostly sharp knives 12. Rejected job search-start from a low place and prove yourself with your ability 13. Ask for a raise-think twice before you act 15. Discover other people's privacy-treat other people's private affairs as fleeting clouds 16. Arguing with others-you can't win for a while 17. There is a small contradiction-let the three points be calm and take a step back 18. Being misunderstood-feel at ease. When it is time to go out, you should go out. 20. When you meet a villain, you must be careful and keep a moderate distance. 2 1. Don't blindfold yourself for fame and fortune. 22. Do you eat grass? A good horse should eat grass, be flexible and stretch people. 23. stop the fight. Learn to make peace. Be smart. 26. Expose shortcomings-no face, no exposure. 27. "Changing face" is a skill and a necessity. 28. Business competition-don't take advantage of yourself, but share a piece of it. 29. Face the person you hate-learn to get along with the person you don't like. 30. Complain-talk about your dissatisfaction. You are a gentleman if you don't report grievances. 3 1. Others make mistakes-forgive yourself with forgiveness. 33. Losing money-losing money sometimes means taking advantage. 34. Politeness is the best human investment. 35. People are under the eaves-you have to bow your head when it is time to bow your head. 36. At the crossroads of life-I will go my own way without regrets. When you need help, you must ask for it. 38. Laughter-as an opportunity to recognize shortcomings and correct them. 39. Frustrated-look at the flowers in front of the court and look at the clouds in the sky. 40. Face the setbacks of others-don't say your own pride. 4 1. frustration-the ups and downs of life can make great achievements. 42. Being despised-with action, without action. Change can be changed. 44. If you don't meet your talents-try to polish yourself, gold will always shine. 45. An affair-unbearable weight in life and unbearable pain in marriage. 46. Break up-Being together is better than breaking up. 47. Premarital property notarization-what is the measure of love? 48. Try marriage-try marriage carefully. 49. Husband's sad quarrel-quarreling hurts, not many successes are also a mouth, and failure is also a mouth. Always close the door at ordinary times, or you will bring yourself a lot of trouble. Don't just talk nonsense for a while, thinking that people give you a smiling face as appreciation, and talk endlessly about what you have said, so that people can thoroughly understand their family background. I have to laugh at you secretly. Don't jump to conclusions when things happen. Even if you have the answer, you have to wait. Maybe there is a better solution. Different angles have different answers. You should learn to put yourself in the other's shoes, especially when you encounter difficulties, and learn to wait, look and wait. Many times, not only the trouble is solved, but also good luck comes. 3. Learn to roll with the punches, roll with the punches. Keep the complicated things as simple as possible, and never complicate the simple things. Mastering work efficiency is a science, and controlling the rhythm is very important. 4. There is no love for no reason, and there is no hate for no reason. Don't judge anyone, just be aware. The so-called conclusion is simple, that is, someone is too hasty. No one has a theoretical basis to define good people and bad people. To put it bluntly, it is a matter of interest. Deng Xiaoping opened Mao Zedong on March 7th, indicating that great men are not perfect. Everything is according to the rules of the game, and thieves also know that some things must not be stolen. Therefore, you must never do anything, never do anything when you are depressed. Giving others a way out is tantamount to clearing the way for yourself. 6. Be patient with those who often find trouble with you or even bully you. There is no need to always have a hard time with your wayward husband, but you must know what you are doing, save for him, accumulate new and old hatred, and justice and truth belong to you. When you see an opportunity, you must teach him a lesson once and for all. Within the scope of authority given by law, you should beat him to death and kill him, so that he will always remember that no one will get used to your bad habits except his own father. 7. Some people are used to taking advantage of you, being petty and being measured by adults, and have the opportunity to cheat him a lot and let him bleed once. Also let him remember: there is no free lunch in the world, and there is no cheap one for you to earn. 8. Open guns are easier to hide than open enemies, but open enemies are more difficult to guard against. The villain behind you will never disappear. This is the characteristic of China. It is an unchangeable truth that villains cannot be offended and villains cannot be forgiven. Be patient with the little people and take a step back. To provoke a villain is to provoke trouble, and the top few villains in the world are not to be taunted. In the final analysis, villains also have villains' hearts. You must be slow and steady and show no mercy to such people. You can pretend that nothing has happened, the world is at peace and everything is fine, and then you can create a clear road, sneak in, fight poison with poison, and let him know that not everyone can do it. Being a good person is as difficult as being a mean person. However, throughout the ages, there have been villains in every dynasty, and there is really no dealing with villains. 9. Money, only the part that is spent is your real wealth. You are rich, and you are reluctant to eat and wear when you are born. When you close your eyes, do you know who spent the remaining money? Is it unfair? As the sketch said, the most painful thing in this world is that people die and the money is not spent. This is more painful than living without money. As long as you live without money, you can still make money. There are also corrupt officials who scrimp and save, and good senior officials don't do it. As a result, they returned to poverty because of greed and spent nothing. They will also confiscate all personal property and lose their reputation. Is it miserable? 10, respect those who love you. Love you for a reason, don't ask why, accept it and repay it with double love. But don't cheat others' feelings, even if you are not interested in him, even if he has shortcomings, this is wealth that you can't buy with money. Remember: to despise others' feelings is to despise yourself. It is immoral to play with things and others. Love is a virtue. 1 1. Anyone who praises you behind your back knows that you should cherish it in your heart, and there is no water in it. Flattery to your face is even worse. You can laugh it off and pretend that nothing happened. Maybe I'll ask you soon. You shouldn't ignore those who praise you in public. Maybe he will poke you with his finger as soon as you turn around. Master a principle: belittle yourself more and praise others less when you meet people, unless you choose the best. 12, don't be too greedy. Small favors, saving too much is a big hole. As long as you accept it, you must find opportunities to return, look forward to the spring rain and pay for the harvest. In fact, it is a simple relationship between seeds and fruits. Don't let innocence hurt you. Remember: life is like a play. Everyone is looking for a balance of interests. Only balanced games can be played. 13, mental patients are not legally responsible. Can bite you for no reason, so stay away from people like mad dogs, stay away from each other and communicate more. To say the least, believing madness is also a kind of personality. Although it is not worthy of respect, it has its own reasons for existence and is an indispensable link in the biological chain. 14, be a living tourist. In the final analysis, as long as you treat others well, serve others with virtue, stay away from right and wrong, and be close to your family, you will have peace of mind and comfort. Optimism comes from tolerance, from generosity, from understanding, from being at peace with the world. We should have a peaceful mind. Being in a bad mood is when you can't relax. In fact, the reality is not as bad as you think. There are peaks and valleys in life, and there is no plain sailing life at all. It is a kind of courage to pick it up. Putting it down, picking it up and putting it down requires a kind of mind. What about Deng Xiaoping? He has three ups and downs, and in the end he is not in charge of everything. 16, the so-called fate is nothing more than good and evil. Cherish the good and don't absolutely reject the bad. I believe that passing by is also fate. With a population of nearly 6 billion, it is not easy to meet anyone. Therefore, if you encounter bad karma, try to be tolerant and give each other a chance. If you can't get on, you can totally deny it. 17, don't let career setbacks affect your family, let alone family disputes affect your career. It's not cost-effective, and family and career will be affected or even lost. Men, in particular, should be good at carrying things. Men should swallow their tears, not flick them off. 18, treat people in a correct position, don't always think of yourself as a character, a leader, a rich man, a lover, and always feel good about yourself ... Even if you really make small achievements and make great achievements, you should be cautious, open-minded and stupid. In fact, the final outcome of people is the same, but you see yourself as complicated. As the saying goes: never take yourself seriously ... 19. People who cheat you once will never give up the opportunity to cheat you again, and don't have any illusions about liars. Improving one's status by belittling others will expose one's ignorance and poverty. This requires good quality and profound knowledge, so that scammers are afraid to approach you.