How to find a confidant who doesn't disturb each other at ordinary times and is around when he wants to talk?

To make intimate friends, we must first open our hearts (and many people who have no friends may have been living in their own closed small world)! When we meet friends we feel we can talk to, we should try to share our feelings with them. Only when we are willing to share can we really open our hearts to each other. Not everyone deserves your heart.

But if you don't try once, you will never have a heart-to-heart friend! Only by doing this can we hope to "get a life confidant". In fact, maybe we should try to find people who can talk to ourselves consciously.

In today's online world, you can find the same topic group in qq. You can pay attention to the topics you are interested in and join in the post bar. Here, we pay attention to and answer those topics of interest, express our opinions, and when we encounter speculation, we will have in-depth exchanges on this topic in private. Over time, we can always find one or two friends who share the same interests with us in many ways.

Isn't this a confidant? The rest is nothing more than moving from online to offline, from online communication to daily activities, from netizens to intimate friends.

There are three levels of intimate friends: the first level is that you have the same three views, so that even if you are a gangster, a rich and handsome man, a well-known fifty cents, a Jew and a Muslim. You can get along very harmoniously and naturally. Although your lives and interests are very different, you will always reach a wonderful tacit understanding at some point when chatting.

The second level is the same life experience, "one is Xianpa, Yuen Long, and the other is flawless jade". Proper collocation is actually the basis of most friendships, because you two may just have experienced similar lives. You two will naturally feel sad when you talk about the comfortable hotels in Bali or the ground floor in front of the train station in the cold wind.

The third floor has the same hobby, and I have to admit that this is the easiest way to get friendship. When we * * * experience the ultimate thrill of making a comeback, when we regret our helpless failure. * * * The same hobby makes us one. There seems to be countless words to say, countless ways to play. On the same platform, we can forget each other's identities and only have sex with good prisoners.