Should we fight back against those who say cruel words?

Don't try to understand everything, sometimes we don't need to understand, just accept it. If it's useless, it's a waste of time to talk too much; If you hurt others maliciously, you will talk too much and harm others and yourself; If you make trouble behind your back, you will talk too much and betray your family. When you are alone, look at the past and never forget the initial intention of starting on the road of life; When talking to people, be sincere and don't talk about others' right and wrong. Judging whether a sentence hurts people is not decided by the speaker, but by the listener. As long as the obedient person feels hurt, what you say is hurtful. So when you say something, you should consider the listener's feelings, which is why you think what you say is harmless and why the other person is angry. The scale of this is also determined by the distance between you. The other party is angry because of your words. Don't simply feel wronged. It is possible that you really hurt each other. I hope that girl can understand that I am talking about her. Our relationship is not in place yet, so don't make jokes that turn your face. Wanting to be superman is the kind of person who will not be influenced by a hurtful remark, a malicious tone and a hypocritical look for no reason. Yes, that's the superman. What are those so-called hurtful words? Is it malicious vitriol or seemingly plain remarks? Maybe I have a bad temper, but these years of life have taught me patience. Most of the time, I don't go too far, but I don't want to argue, and I don't think it's necessary to quarrel. A second of grievances will be repaired by themselves, and everything will be forgiven. What you have, you don't know. All the concealment is not malicious. But if I had a choice, I'd rather hear a hundred hurtful words.