Zhong dui Shuo

There is a saying in Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice, "If I love you less, I can say more."

Maybe at first sight, many people will wonder, shouldn't the deeper you love, the more you want to express it?

Yes, when men start to pursue women, people who are usually taciturn will try to become talkative in front of the women they like.

Because men need to communicate and hint at the connection between two people, they need to get enough information to understand women. Only by understanding can we walk into a woman's heart.

But, you know, not every man can express his views and ideas as calmly as in front of his friends who are familiar with him.

The more men care about a woman, the more nervous they will be when expressing themselves. Just like when Darcy first met Elizabeth, he was obviously interested in Elizabeth, but because he was not good at dealing with strangers, he left an impression of indifference and arrogance on Elizabeth.

Why do men talk less when they love more?

Because I am too eager for what I say to make women feel happy and happy. So, you will think every word carefully before you say it.

Women always like to ask men, "Do you love me?" "Who is your favorite person?" In fact, women don't have to write their uneasiness on their faces every day. When a man loves you to the extreme, even more than himself, he will have the following three instinctive reactions.

If you are happy, he will be happy. When Elizabeth learned that Darcy had done many things for her silently, she apologized for her prejudice again. Darcy said, "Don't be so polite. I just want you to know that everything I do is for you. "

When a man has been rejected by a woman and his courtship is hopeless, he still loves a woman and silently pays for her. What is not true love?

Of course, Darcy is not unrequited love. He longed for Elizabeth to let go of her misunderstanding. Even if Elizabeth can't accept his love, he hopes that he is a good man in Elizabeth's heart.

Men love women to the extreme and can't help it.

A man can't hide his beloved woman's sadness. If a woman is sad, he will be sad. As long as a woman is happy, he will feel happy and happy.

I have heard the saying, "If I can't give you happiness, I hope others can give it to you."

Love to the extreme is not possession, but fulfillment. He's happy when you're happy.

I waited for this opportunity for 5 1 year, 9 months and 4 days. All this time, I have been in love with you. From the first time I saw you, I confessed to you for the first time. I will always love you and be loyal to you. "

This sentence was said by florentino to Fermine in Love during the cholera period.

This love spans half a century, and florentino has been waiting for this day. He changed from a poor boy to a rich man. He didn't dare to confess again until Fermine's husband died.

In the past 50 years, he has had countless women, but those women are just "prey" for him to pass the time.

After florentino fell in love with Fermine, he could never fall in love with anyone. He can have an affair with other women and even have intimate behavior, but deep down he is against these women.

Florentino made people believe that men can separate the body from the soul.

Men love women to the extreme, and there will only be each other in their eyes and hearts. Just as Zhen Xuan has always been the shadow of Pure Yuan in Yongzheng's mind. The love she got should belong to another woman.

A man may have many women in his life, but he only loves one.

When there is danger, instinctively push you away "selfish love" means "I jump, you have to jump"; "tender love" means "nothing, I am with you." And "ultimate love" means "I'm not here, you should be fine."

When watching Nothing But Thirty, many people are looking forward to Zhong and divorce every day, because this man is not only straight, but also a particularly male chauvinist.

It was not until two people really wanted to divorce and divide their property that they discovered that this man really loved the clock. He bought the house before marriage and gave it to the clock when he divorced. With this, he is better than many men.

Working on an inch of land, even a two-bedroom apartment costs millions. Without hesitation, he handed it to the clock. Some people say that this is the compensation that men should give women.

After all, after five years of marriage, women spend their youth here. But in my opinion, I just want Zhong to continue living in this family. As long as people are there, home is still there.

In the face of interests and dangers, the vast majority of people are selfish, which is human instinct.

But when a man loves a woman as a habit, his instinctive reaction will change. In the face of interests, men will first consider the interests of women. When in danger, men will instinctively push away women.

As long as she is good, she doesn't care about herself.

There is a saying in fate: in life, you will meet someone, that unique person. Everything is beautiful and the stars shine.

Not surprisingly, there will be someone in everyone's life who will love him to the extreme. Whether we can be together or not, because of each other's existence, our lives have different meanings.

When a man loves a woman to the extreme, he will become humble and emotional. He doesn't care what others think of him, but only cares whether women love him or not and how much they love him.