If you use two words to describe the years you have experienced in your life, which word would you use?

Personally, I think vicissitudes of life are the best adjectives for past memories and years. They change people and the environment. Whether you accept them or not, whether you are mature enough now, the years have passed quietly, the past will eventually pass, everything is changing, and vicissitudes are the best interpretation of the experience.

The second is dull.

Plain is the best description of ordinary people's lives. Isn't the unchanging life what everyone is experiencing? No matter how brilliant the past is, no matter how unforgettable it is, life will always be dull. Whether it is people, things, feelings or scenery, it has always been bland, just different opinions. Even if it is as precious as love, it will become eternal in a dull time.

Third, growth.

Whether it is pain or happiness before, whether it is good or bad, it will make people grow up. Experience and years are synonymous with growth. People always have to learn to grow up, and only gradually mature. Whether it is psychological or physical maturity, it is a good feedback to the years they have experienced.

Fourth, precious.

Human life is precious, time is life, and everything experienced in the past is the most precious memory now. Life can't be repeated, and time can't go back. I think every time in life is precious. No matter what happened in the past, we have never forgotten that fresh memories are the best reward for the years we have experienced in the past.

Cherish, nothing carries more weight than these two words. In this life, people are most satisfied with living to death without regrets and maximizing their own value, but who can live their own lives like this can only be said to be the vision of all of us, and we try our best to do it.

I have lived for more than 30 years, and now my biggest regret is that I didn't read the book well. My reading career can be described as ups and downs, and it is better to use "mixed feelings". Since primary school, I have been the kind of person who is neither the bottom nor the top. After 60 points, I will be satisfied. It's not entirely silly to say that. After all, I am accomplished in other aspects. For example, I like calligraphy, and the teacher gives me a thumbs up. If you can calm down and write, you should also be able to calm down while studying, but I really don't want to sleep when I look at my writing homework. Finally admitted to junior high school and graduated. I'm not going to study. I have been working outside for a month. But it was this month that I deeply realized that learning is really cool. Don't stay up late and don't work hard. Then I packed my bags and went back to high school. But I'm still like that Can't get in or can't get in after all I barely got into junior college that year. But my dad quit and forced me to repeat, so I had no choice but to bite the bullet. It is also quite strange that the repeat school is a key high school in our county. Since I went to repeat school, I found that my enthusiasm for learning has increased. I can't wait to burn the midnight oil to read my writing homework. Maybe it's really the influence of a good learning atmosphere. In the second year of college entrance examination, I was admitted to two books. But I still have some regrets. If I can enter this school earlier and drive my enthusiasm for learning earlier, it will probably not be the result. I know that a diploma is not the most important thing, but I also know that with a diploma, you can at least enter a big company with a high threshold. If you give me a second chance, I will cherish every minute at school. Even when I sleep, I will think about whether there are three solutions to the last big problem. This is just my personal opinion, not everyone's.

In fact, what I said above is only part of our regret. That's what people do. Only when you lose it, do you know what treasure is. I don't know if everyone is in the same state as me. They didn't study hard, they didn't stay with the people they liked, and they didn't look like they were alive and liked. Everyone has been fighting for their dreams all their lives, and there are bound to be gains and losses. Cherish what you get, remember what you lose, and don't let yourself make the same mistake again.

The first half of my life, if summed up in one word, is only "wasted". Idle away one's time, idle away one's time, and beat the good hand of life to pieces.

At that time, I was a cowardly and willful romantic. I have never done anything rationally, I just follow my heart.

Academically, I wasted my time and neglected my studies. In high school, Qiong Yao's novels are very popular. On the eve of the college entrance examination, she peeks at novels every day. She didn't study hard, but filled in her volunteers and took an undergraduate course. In college, I didn't study my major seriously, and I didn't participate in any clubs and social activities. I often skip classes and go to the library to read all kinds of novels at home and abroad. Although I graduated smoothly, I actually found that I didn't have any special skills and self-confidence.

At work, there is no career planning, no development goals and a waste of time. After graduation, I found a secretarial job casually, and later I worked as a human resource. When my husband said "no work, go home", I easily gave up my job and now go home to be a full-time mother.

Emotionally, weakness, procrastination. First of all, I met a male colleague who was very kind to me after work. He had never been in love at that time and didn't like him at all. But because he is very kind to me and has been pursuing me, he speaks in a fog. Although the conversation became more and more inappropriate, he was soft-hearted and felt sorry to break up with him, so he dragged on for six years and wasted each other's best years.

In a word, the first half of my life was like a dream, so I passed in a daze. I didn't do anything meaningful in my life, but Huayou was going to die. Sanmao said, "I don't have time to be serious and young. When I understand, I can only choose to grow old seriously. "

I will grow old seriously and let the rest of my life be less wasted.

Rebirth!

Why did you choose these two words? What did you go through? Let me tell you something that has been hidden in my heart for more than twenty years.

For more than 90 years, I went to the south, worked in a company for five years, and then had a little savings. I resolutely chose to start my own business and open a restaurant. Because of the good address, I have hundreds of thousands of savings in a few years. At this time, one of my stronger brothers came to me and asked me to help him. He lost all his savings and real estate in the casino and asked me to help him win it back. My previous savings have all gone in, and we also have usury. I lost everything overnight and my hair turned white. I was thirty-six years old that year, but my wife always accompanied me. So we fled the city.

Then we worked two jobs during the day, sold night markets at night, slept at night 12, and lost 20 pounds a month from 4 am. In this way, after a few years, we reopened the restaurant with capital. Now our store has a monthly net profit of about 400,000, which is very happy, and there are two children. I told myself that I would never gamble again. Thank you, I was born again!

I also told my friends who are in the same predicament as me to believe in themselves. No matter what the past is like, I hope my experience will make you stand up again. As long as you work hard, everything will be fine!

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When I was very young, my family was poor because I was in the countryside. My mother often goes out on business, although my father says he is at home, taking care of the elderly and me. But there are also early days and late days. In a year, there are few opportunities for a family to eat together.

Although, my parents have little chance to accompany me. But it also reflects the love of parents. Extremely precious and rare.

However, at the end of my sixth grade. Something happened to mom. Mother accidentally fell down while making a tricycle. Because it was found late, it led to pulmonary hemorrhage and death. This is also unacceptable to me. So uncomfortable for a long time!

Later, I grew up gradually. More experience! Naturally, you will grow up and understand. Although my mother is gone! But I still have my father by my side! I hope dad is healthy!

The invitation to question and answer also reminds me of the past. Let me cherish my present family more! thank you

I will use "Huang Lian" to describe it! I was sent away as a child and sent back when I was sensible. My parents don't like it. Because of the persecution of my parents during the Cultural Revolution, I was burdened with the shackles of black five children, and I couldn't even get into middle school. I only had a little yellow dog with me, and then I lost it. Eight years in a small mountain village! After returning to the city, when I was old, it was very difficult to go to school and work, and I married a poor family. My husband's aunt is as evil as a tiger. I finally left my husband's house to start a new stove. I struggled with my children and work. My husband can't point it out. Traveling abroad all the year round, it is good to have half a son at home a year. Children go to college, work, and their wings are hard, so they spread their wings and fly abroad to start a new life and career. I missed my family happiness again! By this time, my parents were old, and I began to serve the elderly again. My mother finally had a stroke and became a vegetable who needed to take care of Lazarus. My father with cerebellar atrophy was finally sent to heaven at the age of 95 last year. And I was sick and admitted to the hospital this year! The doctor said that when I was a child, the old chronic bronchitis that barefoot doctors couldn't cure recurred. I will often be harassed by it in the future! Looking at my deadpan and unresponsive mother who still needs my care, clutching her panting chest, I think my life is really more bitter than Huanglian! Of course, I still want to thank my child's filial piety and her husband's thoughtfulness, otherwise, I really can't live in this life!

Pinzi, I was born five or three years ago. My mother gave birth to me at forty-one. My mother is bleeding. It was only seven months when she gave birth to me for the third time, and I was in a coma. My third mother cried her eyes out, but more than two hours later, my mother woke up. But my mother doesn't have milk, and my brothers and sisters don't eat milk. My mother has an idea. She sewed a small piece of cloth with two stitches left. She soaked rice bubbles, ground rice noodles and put them in a cloth belt. She took it and put it in my mouth to feed me. I was born less than two kilograms, and my vitality is too strong. I have grown up. 1958 Great Leap Forward, when I was seven years old, my father died, my mother, two brothers and me, and those days were not easy to compare. My family is poor and can't compare with others. Other people's children can go to school, but my family has no money and can't go to school. Every year, the family is more difficult than anyone else, and there is no strength to walk at an early age. My third mother went to Ningbo to ask her daughter to bring two yuan and a pair of rubber shoes, begging her to let me go to school, or I will hate her when I grow up. I went to school at the age of thirteen, which made me happy beyond description.

Just one sentence is enough to explain the problem:

He who suffers hardships is a master.

I was born in a remote rural area in northwest China after 90s, and I was born in a cave. At that time, my family background was quite special and my family had a large population. My grandparents and great-grandparents both go out to work and make a living by themselves. When I was born, my grandmother didn't like being a girl and never came into my parents' house again. When I was three years old, I went home and gave my parents only a cave and three points of land. Father goes out to work during the day and works in the fields at night. My mother worked as hard as men, my father was adopted by them, and our family became slaves of my grandparents. Even their six daughters come to my door to spit every time they go back to their parents' house. Chamber pot splashes on our doorstep every day.

At the age of six, I finally built a rough house with the help of my family. At noon, I got rid of their clutches. When I was poor, my mother brought all the daily necessities back from my grandmother's house.

Later, when I graduated, I also faced many choices and some small twists and turns, and then I came here like this. Now that I have graduated for three years, I can start a business. With your own company, the scale is not large, but hard work is inevitable. Now, I am grateful for all the hardships. I have fought for myself. Feeling is a necessary topic arranged by God. "If the sky is going to send people to Sri Lanka, they must first suffer their will and sharpen their bones and muscles." Although they are ordinary people in the world, their efforts may change the status quo to some extent. Thank you for listening.

Regret. I grew up in a happy family and my parents love me very much. However, I didn't live up to my expectations. I have a thin face and strong self-esteem. When I was studying, I chose to drop out of school because my grades were not the best. In fact, my grades at that time were above average, so I could continue my studies. But I was so strong that I decided to quit school and work.

Two years ago, I went to Qingdao to work with my aunt who opened a clothing factory, and worked as a lathe worker in their clothing factory to make clothes. This job doesn't need any culture. Later, my aunt didn't open a clothing factory there, so I went back to work in my hometown in Hubei.

Because I was in contact with people who were already familiar with my aunt's clothing factory before I really set foot on the society. I went to the drugstore to sell medicine, went to the bookstore to sell books, and started my own business, but I didn't save any money. I feel the importance of reading more and more. When I was young, my ridiculous self-esteem changed my life track.

Later, the blind date got married and met an irresponsible man. Although I had children, I still ignored me and my children, so I chose a divorce.

I didn't continue studying at that time and married the wrong person, which was the worst decision I made so far in my life.

Fortunately, I have passed the most painful period now, I can support myself and my children, and I still have some savings. I am grateful and satisfied to have time to read books, take care of children and spend time with my family. Especially for my family, besides gratitude, they owe me too much.

I believe that the road ahead will be beautiful. I hope my future self can think twice before acting.

"Poor", I have been living in poverty for more than 30 years.

/kloc-born in 0/988, when I was a child, my family was very poor, and even eating was a problem. So my mother sent me to my aunt's house. She used to be the landlord. Because my cousin just got married, there are many delicious foods at home. I lived in menstruation for more than two years. Later, when my family was a little better, my parents took me back.

Childhood memories, still poor, not enough to eat and not warm, laughed at by other children.

Going to junior high school, high school and college is also poor. Because my family is rural and my parents are farmers, I eat and wear poorly, which leads to malnutrition, anemia, frequent dizziness and hypoglycemia.

Now I have grown up and worked, or because I have no background, poverty and no rich father to fight for. I have to live slowly by myself. Looking for a decent job, it doesn't matter, there is no way, and finally I was admitted to the civil service. I passed the written test and the interview was brushed down!

To sum up, I have spent my whole life in poverty, and the word poverty suits me best!