A good friend is too arrogant and self-righteous. He won't listen to me. He always thinks he is right.

There are many stories about Zhuangzi, among which Dream Butterfly is well known. The following story is more "unpopular" for your reference:

Is there any happiness in the world? Is there anyone who can live? Today's ridicule is based on it? Avoid it? Why don't you go? Xi le Xi evil?

A man who is respected in the world will live a long and prosperous life (1); Those who are happy, the body is safe, the taste is beautiful, and the sound is lascivious; Those who go down (2) are poor and evil; Those who suffer should not be comfortable in body, thick in mouth, beautiful in appearance, lustful in eyes, or audible in ears; If you don't, you will be afraid of it. Its shape is also stupid.

if a man is rich, he will work hard, accumulate more money and not use it all, which is also superficial (3). Those who are rich, day and night, think about whether they are good or not, and their form is also sparse. People are born with worries, and those who live long are worried (4). If you are worried for a long time, why bother! Its shape is also far away. Martyrs see good for the world (5), not enough to live. I don't know whether good is honest, good is evil, and good is not evil? If you think that it is good, it is not enough to live; I thought it was not good enough for the living. Therefore, the saying goes, "Do not listen to loyal admonition, squat down and follow, and do not argue (6)." Therefore, the master's dispute is based on the residual shape (7), and the name will not be achieved without dispute. Is there any goodness?

I don't know what the customs do and what they like, but whether the fruits of happiness are evil or not. I look at what my husband enjoys, and those who are interested in the group (8), if they are forced to do so (9), and all those who are happy, I am not happy (1), and I am not unhappy. Is it fun without fun? I am sincere and happy with inaction, but I am also suffering from vulgarity. Therefore, it is said, "Happiness without happiness is the best, and reputation without reputation."

it's uncertain whether the world is right or wrong. Although, inaction can determine right and wrong. Live a happy life, only do nothing and save a few (11). Please try to say it. Heaven's inaction is clear (12), and earth's inaction is peaceful, so the two inaction are combined and everything is transformed (13). Manshu fluorene almost (14), but not beyond (15)! Fluorene is almost brilliant, but nothing is like it (16)! All things (17) are from nothing (18). Therefore, it is said that heaven and earth do nothing, and no one can do nothing!

Is there the greatest happiness in the world or not? Is there anything that can survive or not? Now, what should be done and on what basis? What's to avoid and what's to feel at ease? Close to what and give up what? What do you like and hate?

What people in the world respect and value is wealth, nobility, longevity and good name; What I like is physical comfort, rich food, beautiful clothes, gorgeous colors and beautiful music; What is considered low is poverty, humbleness, short life and notoriety; What is painful and troublesome is that the body can't get comfortable and comfortable, the mouth can't get delicious food, the appearance can't get beautiful clothes, the eyes can't see gorgeous colors, and the ears can't hear sweet music; If you can't get these things, you will be greatly sad and worried. The above-mentioned methods of treating your body shape are really stupid!

Rich people, tired and diligent, have accumulated a lot of wealth but can't enjoy it all, so it's too unimportant to treat their health like that. Noble people think hard day and night about how to preserve their power and wealth, and it is too neglected to treat their bodies like that. People live in the world, and sorrow will follow. People who live long are smeared all day long and stay in trouble for a long time without dying. How painful it is! It would be too distant to treat your body like that. A brave man shows the behavior of sacrificing his life for the world, but it is not enough to survive himself. I don't know whether such behavior is really good or not. If it is considered a good behavior, it is not enough to survive itself; If you think it is not a good behavior, it is enough to make others survive. Therefore, it is said: "If the loyal advice is not accepted, then step aside and stop arguing." Wu Zixu was so loyal that he was tortured. If he didn't strive to remonstrate, his reputation as a loyal minister would not be achieved. So is it really good or not?

I don't know if what the world is doing and enjoying now is really happiness, or is it not? I observed what the world rejoiced in, and everyone tried their best to pursue it. It really seemed that they would never give up until they reached their goal. Everyone says that this is the happiest thing, but I don't think it is happiness, and of course I don't think it is not happiness. So, is there really happiness or not? I think inaction is true happiness, but it is also the most painful and annoying thing for secular people. Therefore, "the greatest happiness is no happiness, and the greatest honor is no honor."

the right and wrong in the world is really uncertain. Even so, the viewpoint and attitude of inaction can determine right and wrong. The greatest happiness is to keep yourself alive, and only inaction is the closest to keeping yourself alive. Please let me talk about this. Heaven's inaction makes Ming Che empty, and the earth's inaction makes it turbid and quiet. When the two inaction of heaven and earth are combined with each other, everything can change and grow. In a trance, I don't know where it came from! Vaguely, without a trace! There are many things, all of which reproduce from inaction. Therefore, heaven and earth are self-cleaning and self-calming, but they are omnipresent and do everything, and who can do nothing!

When Zhuangzi's wife dies, Keiko hangs her, while Zhuangzi sings while sitting in a drum basin (1). Keiko said, "Living in harmony (2), the eldest son getting old (3), it's enough to die without crying, and it's not bad to sing with drums!"

Zhuangzi said, "Otherwise. Is its beginning and end, I can't be alone (4)! Examining its beginning is lifeless, non-apprentice is lifeless and intangible, and non-apprentice is intangible and lifeless (5). Miscellaneous between mans and fluorenes, it changes into qi, qi changes into shape, it changes into life, and now it changes into death, which is the same as spring, autumn, winter and summer. People are sleeping in the giant room (6), and I cry with it (7), thinking that I can't live (8), so I stop. "

Zhuangzi's wife died, and Keiko went to express her condolences, but Zhuangzi was sitting like a dustpan with his legs apart, banging on the tile while singing. Keiko said, "You have lived with your dead wife all your life, having children until you die of old age. It's not too much to cry when you die, and it's too much to knock on the tile and sing again!"

Zhuangzi said, "That's not right. How can I not feel sad when this person died at the beginning? However, after careful investigation, she was never born at first, not only never born but also never had a body, not only never had a body and never formed vitality. Mixed in the realm of trance, it changes and has vitality, vitality changes and has shape, shape changes and has life, and now change is back to death, just like running in spring, summer, autumn and winter. The dead man will lie peacefully between heaven and earth, but I sobbed around her, thinking that it was impossible to understand destiny, so I stopped crying. "

Zhuangzi's funeral passed Keiko's tomb, and Gu said to his followers, "The chalk on the nose is slow (1), and if it is a fly's wing, it will make the craftsman stone it (2). A craftsman's luck makes a wind (3), and if you listen to it, you will lose it (4). If you do your best, your nose will not be hurt, and if you stand upright, you will not lose your capacity (5). When Song Yuanjun heard of it, he called the craftsman Shi and said,' Try to do it for me.' The craftsman said:' I can taste it. Although, the quality of the minister has been dead for a long time (6). " Since the death of the master (7), I have no idea! I have nothing to say.

Zhuangzi's funeral passed Keiko's cemetery and turned to the people who followed him and said, "There was a man in the field who smeared his nose with chalk, which was as big as the wings of mosquitoes and flies, and asked the craftsman to cut off this small white spot with an axe. The stonemason waved his axe and cut the white spots carelessly. The white mud on the tip of his nose was completely removed but his nose was not injured at all. People standing there as if nothing had happened did not lose their normal state. When Song Yuanjun learned about this, he summoned the craftsman and said,' You try this for me'. The craftsman said, "I was able to cut off the small white spots on the tip of my nose." Even so, the partner I can match has been dead for a long time. " Since Keiko passed away, I have no rival! I have no one to argue with! "

Zhuang travels around the fan of the Diaoling (1). A strange magpie came from the south, with a wing seven feet wide and a large eye (2), and gathered in the chestnut forest (3) because of the feeling of the week. Zhuang Zhou said, "What a bird it is, its wings will never die (4). Is it big? ？” Step (5), hold the bullet and leave it (6). ? A cicada can gain a beautiful shadow and forget its body, while a mantis can grasp it (7) and forget its shape when it sees it; Different magpies benefit from it (8), and forget the truth when they see the benefit (9). Zhuang Zhou suddenly said (1): "Hey! Things and solids are tired (11), and the second kind is also called! " Donate the bomb and go away, and the people who are in danger will ask for it one by one (12).

Zhuang Zhou rebelled and was not in court in March (13), so Lin asked him (14): "What is the difference between Qing and Qing (15)?" Zhuang Zhou said, "I keep my shape and forget my body, but I am fascinated by the turbid water and the Qingyuan." And I heard the masters say,' Do as the Romans do, and obey their orders (16)'. Today, I swam in the Mausoleum and forgot my body, while other magpies felt that I was alive, while I swam in the chestnut forest and forgot the truth. The people in chestnut forest took me as a slaughter (17), so I didn't go to court. "

Zhuangzi was playing in the chestnut forest of Diaoling, and saw a strange magpie flying from the south, with wings as wide as seven feet and eyes as big as an inch, touching Zhuangzi's forehead and stopping in the fruit tree forest. Zhuangzi said, "What kind of bird is this? It has big wings but can't fly far, but big eyes and poor eyesight?" So I lifted my clothes and stepped forward quickly, holding a slingshot and quietly waiting for the opportunity. At this time, I suddenly saw a cicada, resting beautifully in the dense shade and forgetting its own safety; A mantis uses leaves as a cover to pounce on cicadas by chance, and forgets the existence of his body when he sees that he is about to succeed; The strange magpie followed closely and thought it was an excellent opportunity. It was about to catch mantis and lost its authenticity. Zhuangzi said with alarm and vigilance: "Ah, the things in the world are originally so entangled and competing with each other, and the two things always attract each other with benefits!" Zhuangzi then threw away the slingshot and turned quickly away, and the keeper of the chestnut garden was puzzled and chased after him.

Zhuangzi returned home and was in a bad mood for three days. Disciple Lin followed him and asked, "Why have you been so unhappy these days?" Zhuangzi said: "I pay attention to the shape of foreign objects but forget my own safety. I admire the turbid running water but am puzzled by the clear pool. And I heard from teacher Lao Dan:' Wherever you go, you must follow the customs and taboos there.' Now I have forgotten my own safety when I came to Diaoling Chestnut Garden. The strange magpie met my forehead and lost its authenticity when I was playing in the fruit forest. The people in charge of the garden didn't understand me and insulted me, so I felt very unhappy. "

the song of Yoko (1), staying in the reverse journey (2). A traveler has two concubines, one is beautiful, the other is evil, and the evil one is expensive and the beautiful one is cheap (3). Yoko asked him why, and the kid on the contrary said to him, "I don't know the beauty of its beauty;" I don't know if the evil person is evil. " Yangzi said, "Remember it, disciple! Go to the sage and go to the sage, be safe and not love! "

Yang Zhu went to Song State and stayed in a hotel. The innkeeper has two concubines, one is beautiful and the other is ugly, but the ugly one is favored while the beautiful one is ignored. Yang Zhu asked him why, and the young shopkeeper replied, "The beautiful one thinks she is beautiful, but I don't think she is beautiful; The ugly one thinks he is ugly, but I don't think he is ugly. " Yoko turned to his disciples and said, "Remember, disciples! Good character, but I don't think I have good character. I won't be respected and loved wherever I go! "