How do you say that part about "I asked you what you said it was, but I didn't ask you what it was"?

I asked and you said, this is trust. If you don’t tell, I don’t ask, this is tacit understanding.

This sentence is an Internet joke. The original sentence is: I don’t ask, you don’t tell, this is the distance. I asked, you don’t tell, this is the barrier. I asked, you said it. , this is trust, you don’t say it, I don’t ask, this is tacit understanding, I don’t ask, you say it, this is dependence.

Shows the friendly relationship between the two.