Who bows his head first after a couple quarrels?

Whether you are a lover or a husband and wife, it is normal to quarrel after being together for a long time. However, when facing a dispute, everyone becomes angry. Not only do they feel that they are right, but they also feel that they are wronged. How can we face such a confrontation? status, how to break the ice in a relationship, and who should bow down and apologize first when a man and a woman quarrel? There are different opinions. Some people say that it is a man. Because you are a man, you should accommodate weak women. Some people say it should be a woman, because a woman can only win back a man through weakness.

If you observe carefully, it is not difficult to find that in the early stages of love, one person wants and the other wants to give, and giving becomes an extremely happy thing. In order to get the other person to have this relationship as soon as possible, they will instinctively give up, habitually cater to suppress their emotions, and then whitewash the peace, but as time goes by, there are many times, there is never a saint in a relationship, no one He will continue to suffer from the cowardice in the retreating role for the rest of his life. He will feel so humble that he even despises himself.

For too many women, their men have changed in the end. In the past, they coaxed them instantly, but after they got them, they ignored them, and even when they were angry, they ignored them. Countless men say that women have changed and become no longer gentle and caring. Women feel that men have changed, and have become unwilling to give in, and have become unwilling to bow their heads and say that they are wrong. No matter how hard they try, they can never hear the word "I'm sorry." They have become increasingly hurt and have suffered a lot of grievances. unpleasant experience. Men feel that women have changed because she no longer caters to him, has become no longer a coward, and has become less admiring of him. In fact, to put it bluntly, she has become less easy to control. In fact, maybe for men, it's not that things have changed, but that there's no need to act anymore.

When the passionate hormones gradually recede, he becomes less respectful and friendly in life, and even a ferocious face begins to appear in the relationship. He wants to develop a relationship with the other person in a state where he feels comfortable. , because marriage is a lifelong matter, and you will eventually have to face the reality of life in daily necessities, and you cannot wear a mask and act all your life.

When men and women quarrel, it must be said that perhaps it is more conducive for the relationship to be successful if the man apologizes first. At this time, the man will definitely refute the injustice, and say that women tend to be arrogant and arrogant. Even if they list themselves, they will not be wrong even if they apologize. I have personal experience of how helpful relationships can be. Even if I try to apologize countless times, I will still be attacked and hurt in an intensified manner. It is the nature of women to be endless. They are also best at protracted battles and cannot solve the problem quickly. In fact, it is not difficult for a man to apologize, but it is not easy for him to understand the key core of his mistake. Countless quarrels follow the important concept of "harmony", and the phrase "I'm wrong, okay" will immediately make the other party Emotions are at their highest.

Why men should bow their heads and apologize first is not a distinction between right and wrong, but the core point of the quarrel itself. There are huge differences between people of different genders. Women argue about attitude, while men argue about right and wrong. What women are dissatisfied about is that men are so disdainful at the moment and are still talking about this life and the future. The reason why men are not happy and do not give in is that on the one hand they feel wronged, and on the other hand they are worried that once they bow their heads, it will be difficult to straighten up their lives. When apologizing becomes a habit, it will be difficult to change it in a lifetime.

People’s instinct is to resist a typo. Bowing also means tolerance and cowardice. But in fact, the whole life between a couple is just a process of you pamper me and I coax you. Too much emphasis is placed on who is taller. It is difficult to get a happy relationship if you are low. Men should admit their mistakes first. It expresses a tolerant mind rather than right and wrong itself. In a woman's world, if the attitude is right, right and wrong are no longer important, even if she insists on it. Principles will be forgotten, and only in this way can such a relationship be harmonious for a long time. Up to the point, entangled with the argument of equality between men and women, it can only become a debate match with no ending, until everyone is tired and everyone goes away. Some endings are more likely to be tragic. Not a surprise.

It doesn’t matter if you bow your head when you love her. Don’t waste your short life on fighting for judgment of right or wrong. When you love him, it’s enough. Even if he bows his head, it doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a mistake. He just cares more about the other person’s feelings. Cherishing each other, supporting each other, and living boring days together is the most pragmatic principle.