Deal with a man as he deals with you.

When someone makes trouble without reason, a wise man might as well deal with him as he deals with you, and make a strong but not rude counterattack to capture his opponent in one fell swoop.

"Deal with a man as he deals with you" refers to the logical understanding or inference of the other party, which leads to the return of things to their original owners and makes them shoot themselves in the foot and suffer the consequences.

Using this method of humor regression, we should be good at grasping each other's words, metaphors and conclusions, and then take them to each other, that is, give him back absurd words or behaviors and conclusions that he doesn't want to accept after logical deduction, and deal with him as he deals with you.

This method is the most effective in dealing with people who cheat, and it often makes the other party unreasonable and puts the other party in trouble.

A lazy man visited a friend's house. After getting up in the morning, he not only didn't make the bed, but when his friend folded the quilt for him, he also plausibly said, "Anyway, I have to sleep at night, so why do I fold it now!" After dinner, the lazy man threw away his chopsticks and sat motionless on the sofa and closed his eyes. My friend has to clear the table and wash the dishes. The lazy man said, "I have to eat the next meal anyway." Why wash it now? " In the evening, friends advised him to wash his feet, which was hygienic and healthy. The lazy man retorted, "It will be dirty anyway. Why wash it now?" So my friend decided to punish him. At dinner the next day, friends only care about themselves and ignore lazy people. The lazy man came to the table and saw that he didn't have a bowl or chopsticks. He shouted, "Where's my meal?" The friend asked, "You are still hungry after eating. Why do you want to eat?" When sleeping, friends only care about themselves and ignore lazy people. The lazy man looked at it and asked anxiously, "Where shall I sleep?" The friend retorted, "You have to wake up sooner or later anyway. Why do you want to sleep?" The lazy man was anxious and cried, "Don't eat or sleep, don't you want me to die?" The friend calmly replied, "Yes, you will die anyway. Why do you have to live? " Lazy people are speechless.

The friend in the story firmly grasped the absurd logic of the lazy man, climbed up the tree along the pole, and dealt with him as he deals with you, leaving the lazy man speechless.

When using the humorous technique of "deal with a man as he deals with you", the key is to grasp the other person's linguistic logic and draw absurd conclusions accordingly, so that the other person's cross-examination will be self-defeating.

Be honest and tell the truth, but if you are too honest and generous, you will condone other people's improper words and deeds. Therefore, in the face of rude attacks and sarcasm from others, we must learn to deal with a man as he deals with you and safeguard the dignity of our own interests.

Once upon a time, there was a greedy rich man. Every time he asked someone to do something, he wanted to wipe some oil from others. One day, the rich man sent a long-term worker to buy wine, but he didn't give it to the long-term worker Obviously, he wants to ask the long-term workers to buy him wine. The long-term worker felt puzzled and asked, "Sir, how can I buy wine without money?" The rich man said angrily, who won't spend money on wine? What if I can buy wine for free? The rich man said angrily, "Who won't spend money on wine?" You have to buy back the wine with money first, that's the ability! "Long-term workers are resourceful. Knowing that rich people are petty, he took the bottle and went out without saying a word.

After a while, the long-term worker came back with an empty bottle. He went to the rich man and said, "I bought the old man's wine." Take your time! " The rich man took the bottle and saw that it was empty. He flew into a rage: "How dare you work for me?" ? The bottle is empty. What can I drink? I'll deduct your salary for half a year! "

The long-term worker said slowly, "sir, who can't drink bottled wine?" It would be great if you could drink the wine in an empty bottle! " "Rich popularity roll their eyes, couldn't say a word.

Obviously, the rich man just wants to take advantage of the long-term workers. If the long-term worker can't effectively refute his absurd argument, he may be severely reprimanded by the rich man or buy wine himself. In any case, he will suffer.

In life, when you meet unreasonable people, you must argue with them and refute them appropriately, and you can't just let them push you around. So how should we counter this unreasonable behavior and let the other party admit their mistakes? First of all, workers control their emotions with men's self-restraint and generosity, and control each other in temperament. Then we should calmly consider the countermeasures and choose the best scheme from them so as not to act rashly. Finally, we must choose the right hit point and fight back hard to make the other side speechless.

In short, for those who deliberately pick things up and sneer, we must learn to fight back, and we must not blindly tolerate and accommodate to make each other proud.