Some people say that people need to be kind, but they also need to show their edge. What do you think about this?

Be kind, but you must also show your edge. This is not wrong at all.

Kindness is very precious, but if kindness does not grow teeth, it is weakness.

We all know that kindness is a virtue. We must be harmonious to others and be open-minded in dealing with things.

But in today’s society, the more kind you are, the more you will become the target of oppression.

When a person is hungry and cold, if you give him a bowl of rice, it solves his big problem, and he will be grateful.

However, if you keep giving alms, he will take it for granted.

Human nature has a greedy side. Over time, one bowl of rice is not enough, two bowls are not enough, three bowls or four bowls are not enough, and even your best efforts are of no avail.

You have to know that in this world, if you are so good that you have no reservations, the other person will dare to be so bad that they will be unscrupulous.

If you are too soft-hearted, you will easily be misunderstood; if you are too kind-hearted, you will be easily misunderstood. The initial well-intentioned help will turn into malicious consequences in the end.

Perhaps you do good deeds and collect good deeds, and the small things you do with a little effort will not cause any big losses. However, a gentleman is magnanimous and magnanimous, while a villain is always concerned.

When his demands are not met and he bites back, you are most likely to become the innocent victim.

Kindness without edges not only fails to convey your goodwill to the world, but also conveys your cowardice; kindness without principles chills the hearts of true friends and makes unworthy people never understand that "you can't." "Infringement" in four big words.

"You are so kind, you must help me."

"You are so kind, you must not refuse me."

Many times we will Hear something like this. Some people are embarrassed to refuse out of dignity.

But if you think about it carefully, do I have to help you? Besides, just because I'm good is not the reason why I help you.

Be a kind person with edges and edges, know how to use wisdom to punish evil and promote good, remain a good person among good people, and show your edge and fierceness to bad people.

There is nothing wrong with people needing to maintain a kind heart, but there is no bottom line for being nice to everyone. If you don’t have a bottom line, they will have no principles. When kindness loses its principles, it encourages evil.