Think about something before going to bed

1.1 Life is short, there is no need to care too much about life. If you don’t understand some things, don’t understand them; if you can’t guess some people, don’t guess; if you can’t figure out some ideas, don’t understand them. think. Fold and store the unpleasant past in a deserted corner. Tell yourself: You don’t have to be perfect, but you have to be real; you don’t have to be rich, but you have to be happy. Don’t embarrass yourself. Life is only a few decades, whether you work hard or have fun, it’s all in an instant. Give yourself some optimism, give yourself some peace, maintain your truest feelings, and maintain the best mood.

2. Life is a process of cultivation. Half of the happiness in life must be fought for and half must be followed. Fight, not with others, but with hardship. There is no happiness that is easy to come by. Only by working hard and actively striving for happiness can you get closer to happiness step by step. Following doesn’t mean going with the flow, but knowing where to stop and then settle down. Due to limitations of abilities and conditions, many people can only take things as they come. If you fight, you will have fewer regrets in life; if you follow suit, those who are content will always be happy. What I'm most afraid of is not fighting when it's time to fight, not stopping when it's time to fight, and always suffering from the entanglement.

3. Put away your complaints and collect all the negative energy. Exercise, draw, cook, go for an outing, read, anything is good to keep yourself busy. People are too decadent because they are used to it, and they are used to it because they moan for no reason every day. Stop all those so-called inner thoughts and get used to a new, sunny, positive self. The sun loves sunflowers, and people will love you because you love to laugh. Get used to yourself and everything will be fine.

4. Thinking before going to bed: After walking a long way, you can always gain insights; after experiencing some things, you can see some people clearly. Those who never see each other are true friends; those who never leave are true feelings. In fact, sometimes what people need is just: a voice, a little understanding, a comfort, a companionship, and a word of distress, that's enough. The so-called happiness means that there are people who can understand and have feelings that can be respected.

5. A person who never looks back may not be because of bravery, but may be because he is afraid of being seen through the tears on his face. A person who smiles all the time may not necessarily be because of happiness, but may be afraid of being seen through the sigh in his heart. Truth is a difficult thing. People are always afraid of being looked down upon by life, so they try their best to live a tough life. As time goes by, it becomes farther and farther away from itself. How strong do you have to be to finally learn not to hide it? The most important word in life turns out to be - truth.

6. The two most important things in life: one is health. If life is like a tree, health is the root of the tree. Only when the roots are deep can the leaves be luxuriant. Without a healthy body, all prosperity and wealth are in vain. The second is mentality. The success or failure of life depends only on one thought. With different mentality, the situation in life will be very different. Only by cultivating an indifferent and peaceful heart can life be clear and clear. Health requires exercise, mentality requires cultivation, and your destiny is only up to you.

7. A fish asked the turtle: Why do you hide in your shell when something happens? The turtle slowly stretched its limbs and said: Are other people's comments important? That's not escaping, it's just seeking a calm environment. Fish: But, don’t you care if you are scolded? The turtle glanced at the fish and turned around slowly: This is why I live longer than you! It is important to be ourselves in life, and let others say whatever they want! For people who like you, whatever you do is right! People who don’t like you will look down on you the better you do! May you understand the deep malice and hypocrisy of this world as soon as possible, and then start a happy life of loving whoever you want without losing face.

8. Some roads will be painful and tiring if you go on them, but you will regret it if you don’t go on them. You have to be strong even if no one cares about you; you have to fly even if no one applauds you, and remember that the harder you work, the luckier you will be. People are valued in action, and dreams can only come true if you work hard. There is no need to regret moving forward. If it is good, it is called wonderful; if it is bad, it is called experience. Love well and live well, the sun is new every day, don’t let down the good times. If you bloom, butterflies will come; if you are wonderful, God will arrange it.

9. Thoughts before going to bed: Life is like a cup of tea. It will not be bitter for a lifetime, but it will always be bitter for a while. Without the bitterness at the beginning, there will be no sweetness later. Bitterness, sweetness and bitterness are like a symphony that merges into our life. Rejecting "bitterness" is equivalent to closing the door to "sweetness". It should be noted that the higher you climb, the more thorns you have to walk through. In this case, it is better to welcome it happily than to accept it sadly.

Two postures, two lives, your own life is your own decision.

10. People with dreams don’t do multiple-choice questions, only proof questions. Therefore, when you are young, you can make mistakes and fall, but never doubt yourself and don’t give up on your dreams. Go where you want to go and do what you need to do without hesitation or hesitation. In 2018, make a promise to yourself: From now on, every choice you make will make you happier and more fulfilling than you are now.