What kind of experience is middle-aged naked resignation?

For example 1, 4 1 year-old lady, just call her Ms. M.

Ms. M's job is a good job in the eyes of many people. Large state-owned enterprises and central enterprises are absolutely stable, with easy time and simple content. Ms. M said the salary was too low, but she didn't tell me directly. I estimate that she earns more than 3,000 yuan a month, but not more than 4,000 yuan, excluding the year-end bonus and various benefits.

Ms. M wants to resign voluntarily because she can't stand some colleagues around her. For example, the big sister who is particularly nosy and the big brother who is particularly greasy. Ms. M is a person who likes reading when she has time. What she read was not a magazine pictorial or an advertising book, but a serious book with a little difficulty. She is mediocre and unhappy in the circle of colleagues.

But Ms. M never really gave up. Because I don't know what to do to get myself back to my youth. In fact, Ms. M has no pressure, and her husband is also a middle-level large-scale central enterprise with a good income.

Example 2, a 46-year-old man, let's call him Mr. L.

Mr. L's job is also a good job in the eyes of others, a middle-level bank. When Mr. L was in college, he went to the University of Finance and Economics according to his family's wishes. After graduation, his family worked in a bank. First, I worked as an assistant to the president of a branch in a provincial capital city, and later in a prefecture-level city. I don't know his income. Not a friend who can talk about income.

L the man's family is in the provincial capital, and the daughter-in-law is a key high school teacher. Mr. L has worked in a prefecture-level city for seven years, and he really wants to go home. When chatting with me, he said that many years abroad was a great test of human nature. He especially likes to look at my fat circle, saying that it is completely different from his life. He thinks his life is too monotonous and depressing.

I guess he wants to resign, that is to say.

Example 3, a 43-year-old man, let's call him Mr. G.

Mr. g is a middle-level private enterprise. It seems to be the kind of person that the boss wants to fire most. His company seems to be a large foundry. I don't know his salary. Mainly because I'm not the kind of person who likes to pry into other people's private affairs. All the information I know is what others are willing to tell me. I never ask or tell, and I'm not interested in knowing.

Mr. g really wants to quit. He feels that his future is very unstable. He always wants to do something for himself after resigning and take the future into his own hands. Who says not? Don't everyone want to control their own destiny? I know several people like Mr. G, all middle-level private enterprises. Wages should be good for others, but at the same time they spend a lot, and the future is really not so absolute. I want to quit my job and do something by myself. This kind really doesn't regard the company as their home. Mr. g is a man of few words in the eyes of others. Even when some acquaintances want to go the other way, Mr. G can keep silent all the way, which makes others feel particularly embarrassed. Mr. G likes chatting with me very much. If you run into each other, you can chat happily for a long time. Generally speaking, I will talk about the Internet, social topics, education and what books I have read.

Although Mr. G has a strong desire to resign, he has never really resigned. One is that his entrepreneurship has always been an ideal framework, which is difficult to implement except for various inputs and countless details. Second, Mr. G's family is typical. He works to support his family, and his daughter-in-law takes care of the children full-time.

It is not impossible for people to quit in middle age. The key is not to wait until middle age to think about it. You can think ahead and plan ahead