In life, how do Ma Bao men treat what their mothers and girlfriends say?

About "Ma Baonan", you can be friends, but if you want to get along for a lifetime, girls need to be cautious again. How to distinguish Ma Baonan is particularly important.

Someone asked: What kind of man is the most unacceptable to women? The top three are: cheating, violence and baby boy.

Whether it is cheating, violence or Ma Baonan, in fact, these three issues have become commonplace topics in today's society, but they are still topics of concern to society and women. I think, even a topic that has been repeatedly mentioned, it has always existed around us.

Cheating is still a common state in today's society. Of course, it's not just men who cheat, but also women. Whether there are such examples around us, stars, men and women stared at by the media, and people who eat melons, there are always some restless people.

Domestic violence is usually divided into behavioral violence and verbal violence. As far as behavioral violence is concerned, although there are countless articles about domestic violence in major media, they actually happen around us, and they are still a few, so girls don't have to panic too much. The probability of verbal violence is much greater than that of behavioral violence. I hope girls can get to know each other better before marriage, and men can get to know each other better before marriage.

In this article, we will focus on "Mambo Nan".

Many men, when you first come into contact, will find that this man is warm, filial, obedient, obedient, or good at taking care of others. In short, you will find that he has no image of love rat at all, and he is still a very good man.

However, when you get in touch with them slowly, you will find that they are sometimes as smart as they didn't grow up. Their filial piety can be called foolish filial piety. They are really obedient but listen to their mother most … and so on.

So, what are the characteristics of Ma Bao men, and how can girls distinguish Ma Baonan?

The first trick to distinguish Ma Baonan: He always talks about what his mother said.

In real life, most horse-haired men are not fools. They don't say "My mother said ..." because they know that it will cause resentment among friends around them, whether heterosexual or homosexual or even irrelevant. A big man always says "My mother said …", which is really disgusting.

However, in Ma Baonan's mind, mother is like a god, but what her mother said must be right and true.

So when they encounter big problems or difficulties, or need to choose one thing, they will always remember what their mother once said to themselves. At this time, they will easily say, "This is no good, my mother told me before." "You can do this. My mother taught me. " "My mother said ..." And so on.

The second trick to distinguish Ma Baonan: I have no opinion when I meet something.

This is a common phenomenon. In most cases, Ma Baonan has no opinion. When they encounter problems, they will ask their mother for advice. If their mother is not around and their daughter-in-law or girlfriend is around, they will listen to their girlfriend or daughter-in-law more.

That's why some people say that marrying a baby boy feels like marrying a son.

If his mother is here, he is his mother's good baby. Listen to her. If his mother is not here, then he is your good husband and will listen to you.

On the problem that Ma Baonan has no opinion on things, the bigger things are, the more they seem to have no opinion. For example, what major should the university study, which unit should the work go to, what does the mother like when looking for a girlfriend and so on.

When a woman unfortunately marries Ma Baonan, she will find a very amazing phenomenon. The young couple's problems are always decided by their mother-in-law!

The third trick to distinguish a horse-haired man: whenever, I just want to live with my mother.

Ma Baonan was spoiled and cared for by his mother since childhood, and it is easy to form the habit of "being with his mother will get more love and care". Therefore, even if I step into the society after graduation, get a job or even get married, I still want to live with my mother.

Ma Baonan, who lacks independent mentality, is very dependent on his mother. Even if he is married, he will give the property rights to his mother for safekeeping, because her mother is the most trustworthy person in the world.

The fourth measure to distinguish Ma Baonan: When a mother has a conflict with his wife or girlfriend, stand on her side first.

Women who accidentally marry Ma Baonan probably have this experience. No matter whether he lives with his in-laws, no matter what the situation, as long as there is a little contradiction between himself and his mother-in-law, then this man is undoubtedly on his mother's side.

If it's mom's fault, they won't blame her, but they will find various excuses for her, "My mom was careless", "You have to let the old man go" and "How can you say that about mom". If it is the fault of the wife, it is probably that all kinds of wives will ask their mothers to do more, or even be scolded and blamed more.

To sum up, as long as the wife and mother have contradictions, it doesn't matter who is right or wrong. The important thing is that this man will hardly stand on his wife's side and say a few words for her.

The fifth trick to distinguish your mother: as long as you are with your mother, you will be like a child.

I've heard of two mamao men:

The first situation is that boys bring their girlfriends and go shopping with their mothers to buy clothes.

Generally speaking, it is very normal and even necessary for boys and girls not to show their love in front of their parents, but it is somewhat abnormal to only care about their mothers and not their girlfriends.

At that time, the boy and his mother were holding hands, and his girlfriend walked behind alone; The boy accompanied his mother to the clothing store, tried on the clothes, and asked her if this one looked good, if she liked that one, and if she wanted to try it on. That shirt matched her mother's bottoming shirt that day ... but her girlfriend became transparent body.

In the second case, the mother came to her son's daughter-in-law's house for a few days. She originally wanted to help the young couple with their children.

But the result of the fact is: apart from asking his mother to cook for him, his son is unwilling to let his mother take care of his children or bring them to his wife. When eating, the son will give his mother food, regardless of his wife who is embarrassed to take the children to eat very hard; When watching TV, my son wanted to lie on his mother's lap, but he didn't say to make room for his wife. Even, I want to sleep with my mother at night ...

The sixth trick to distinguish Ma Baonan: find a girlfriend similar to your mother.

Ma Bao-Nan doesn't mean that she has high demands on women, but that she will find a partner according to her mother's personality.

For example, Ma Bao-Nan's mother is gentle and virtuous. They will ask her partner to be gentle and virtuous, get the kitchen under the hall, keep the house well, be sensible and take good care of the whole family.

If Ma Baonan's mother can stay at home as well as outside, then they will ask her partner to do the same. She can work to earn money, and she can manage the whole family, not only outside, but also at home.

The seventh trick to distinguish Ma Baonan: girlfriends can be changed, but mothers can't help but listen.

"girlfriends can be changed, and mothers can't help but listen." This situation can hardly be changed. Some girls didn't find out that their boyfriend was Ma Baonan when they were in contact with such boys, but one day, the boy's mother knew about the existence of girls, but she didn't like you and asked her son to break up with you. Then no matter how sweet you were before, the boy will eventually choose to listen to his mother and give up on you.

In Ma Baonan's mind, mom is always right. If mom has any requirements, she must meet them. Even if you sacrifice your feelings with your girlfriend, you should listen to her, because mom is right, because she can't be unhappy, because she can't be wronged.

There is no doubt that the man with the above characteristics is Ma Baonan.

When you meet Ma Baonan, you can be friends, but if you are a lifelong partner, please think carefully. If you have married a woman named Ma Baonan, if you want to live a better life, it is recommended to find ways to put the leading power on yourself, such as trying not to live with your in-laws; For example, let a man without a husband take the responsibility of being a father, and so on. Then I will write an article about what to do if I marry Ma Baonan.

I only hope that unmarried girls will keep their eyes open and know more when they are in contact with their partners, and don't miss life.