Talk about it in a hidden corner

How to judge whether a person is good or evil?

When I was a child, I felt that good people seemed to be always good people, bad people were always bad people, and it was very simple to like someone and hate someone.

Chai Jing's Seeing tells us that what we see is not really good, and what we see is not necessarily really evil. People are multifaceted, and human nature and morality are intertwined and separated. Simple black-and-white judgment is just a cover for ignorance and prejudice.

When I grow up, I don't like the pale kindness in movies more and more, just like the heroine Hua Furong in the TV series "Together". Her characterization is one-sided and incomplete. Her kindness is like a mirage floating in the air, which looks beautiful but not real. Verbally speaking, I regard my sister most seriously and threaten to pull her out of the mire, but what I say is always action. What we actually saw was that she put Song, Yao Biying, Yuan and others in front of her sister. What we see is just a light figure under the aura of Marisu.

Compared with the kindness of Lotus, the good and evil of the characters in Hidden Corner are more real. Through the details of the story, the good and evil of the story characters can be seen everywhere.

Chaoyang mother Zhou Chunhong loves her son very much, but her love is mixed with too much control and possessiveness. Centered on his son, he even fell in love secretly. In her opinion, you can't consider your marriage until your son comes of age. Giving everything is bound to be afraid of losing.

It can be seen from the small matter of forcing Chaoyang to drink milk that Zhou Chunhong could not accept his son's refusal. Cooking milk for my son every day was originally an act of loving children, but Zhou Chunhong's hysteria turned it into persecution and harm.

Zhang Dongsheng loves his wife very much and puts his wife first in everything. But after a few years of marriage, facing his wife who didn't love him and wanted to divorce him, Zhang Dongsheng ignored him and put it off. Afraid of losing, he killed his parents-in-law who agreed to their divorce. Later, he further killed his wife who insisted on divorce. One wrong step, one wrong step.

Many people are talking about love, but there are also many people who don't love it, and intentional or unintentional injuries are everywhere. The way Zhou Chunhong loves his son is coercion and control. Zhang Dongsheng loves his wife by killing people.

The evil described in The Hidden Corner is a kind of evil behavior that is intentionally or unintentionally hidden in the deep heart and can't be suppressed.

Inner trauma affects our daily behavior and choices. The more severe the trauma, the greater the impact.

Zhou Chunhong forced her husband to divorce because of an affair, and then put all her thoughts on her son. She used strength to cover up her vulnerability and control to cover up her fear of loss.

Zhu Jingjing fell, and Chaoyang, one of the parties, concealed the truth about the fall. It can also be seen from this incident that Chaoyang is extremely afraid of losing his father. After deception and concealment exist, more deception will be used to cover up the truth.

The more I am afraid of losing, the more I want to hold on.

When Chaoyang and Pupu asked Zhang Dongsheng why he wanted to kill people, Zhang Dongsheng said, "Is there anything you are particularly afraid of losing, and you will do something you don't want to do for these things?"

The more you are afraid of losing, the more you will lose.

Zhang Dongsheng was afraid of losing his wife, but he finally killed her. Zhu Chaoyang is afraid of losing his father. He finally lost his father after things got worse.

Evil deeds in the name of "love" can't fill the lack of heart. It will only be the reason for the wrong step.

The morning sun of inner depression and lack of love, the encounter with Yan Liang and Pupu, made his life track turn. At the end of the TV program, Chaoyang said to Yan Liang, "What I regret most is that I opened the door for you." In fact, this is not the beginning of the tragedy of Yan Liang and Pupu.

At the beginning of the summer vacation, Chaoyang, Yan Liang and Pupu met. They played together, accidentally recorded a murder video, sent a warning letter to the murderer, and extorted 300,000 life-saving money from Zhang Dongsheng. Things are getting worse, and more and more people are dying.

Tragedy is the accumulation of small things that happen one by one. Life is also the sum of your choices. The choice between good and evil is where you step at the moment when you keep taking steps.

Everyone's inner trauma is brought by personal growth environment and family background. The great similarity in thinking and behavior between the next generation and the previous generation has always existed, and it is difficult to change. Your parents have a far greater influence on you than you think.

Zhou Chunhong, who forced Chaoyang to drink milk, passed on her depression, stubbornness and strength to her son. Chaoyang, who was forced to drink milk, endured the pain. From his stubborn, stubborn, staring at his mother's eyes, we can see that he is rebellious.

At the beginning, the divorce of parents also turned Chaoyang from a talkative child into a silent child. Chaoyang loves his mother, but he also bears a grudge against her. Judging from what he said to his mother in the hospital, "you forced dad to sign the divorce papers." You can see.

The wounds caused by these experiences can only be healed if they are seen.

I think of a friend who is a primary school teacher. She told me one thing. She went to hypnosis.

Her forgotten childhood experience still affects her until now. Being scolded by her father in public when she was a child made her feel ashamed. Up to now, whenever she wants to speak on stage, she has no courage to speak. The feeling of being stared at by countless pairs of eyes made her inner shame and fear reappear.

Sometimes, it's hard to predict the inner harm that a little thing can do to bystanders. This friend, aware of the inner trauma, has begun to heal.

Our previous experience has become a thing of the past, leaving only our original feelings, ways of thinking and ways of doing things.

Lao Tan, 37, said that her mother has a strong desire for control and a serious obsessive-compulsive disorder. In his house, no one wants to turn off the lights and the dishwashing water can't be turned on. The table should be cleaned in her way. When the net is enough, say he spends money indiscriminately. ......

Until one day, Lao Tan suddenly realized a problem. He found that he often forced others to do what he wanted, and his desire for control was as strong as his mother's. At this moment, the feeling of hair standing upright welled up from the back bone until the scalp was numb. I don't like being pushed by others, but I am also pushing others. I became a person with the same personality as my mother.

After realizing this problem, Lao Tan will ask himself more in his future behavior whether he imposed his desire for control on others.

Problems will only be corrected if they appear. I don't know what I don't know, but something that really controls your destiny is really terrible.

Active healing, so that the inner shadow is illuminated.

Previous experiences have shaped us now, but how to deal with what has happened is our active choice. Some people cling to one person in order to make up the deficit, regardless of good or evil, by hook or by crook. Some people choose to use love to fulfill themselves and others.

Liz was once called "the ugliest woman in the world" on the Internet. Because of her ugliness, people laugh at her, fear her and point fingers at her appearance. At first, she was disgusted with this ridicule, but her father said to her, "Who are you? These negative words can't define you." She suddenly woke up and thought of treating the world in a "revenge" way-becoming a better self. She began to speak and share her experiences and writing. She said: "I exist because God wants more hope in this discriminatory society." She became an influential speaker and writer.

Good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil.

In a hidden corner, Zhu Chaoyang asked Zhang Dongsheng, "Do you believe in fairy tales or the reality at the end of Descartes' story? "In fairy tales, the princess and Descartes fall in love. This is a story about true love. In reality, the princess doesn't love Descartes. This is a story about betrayal.

Believe in fairy tales or reality?

And my answer is that no matter what happens, whether it is fairy tale or reality, it has become the past. Just like your childhood, whether it is pain or warmth, it is gone forever. What you can do now is not to package reality into fairy tales, but to have good ideas and turn fairy tales into reality, thus saving yourself and others.

Be kind to yourself and others. May all good deeds comfort every wandering and injured heart.