Talking about the mood of joy in suffering

Life is like a cup of tea. It will not be bitter for a lifetime, but it will always be bitter for a while. Without the bitterness at the beginning, there will be no sweetness later. Bitterness, sweetness and bitterness are like a symphony that merges into our life. Rejecting "bitterness" is equivalent to closing the door to "sweetness". It should be noted that the higher you climb, the more thorns you have to walk through. In this case, it is better to welcome it happily than to accept it sadly. Two postures, two lives, your own life is your own decision.

Happiness is a taste, a state of mind, and a positive attitude. Happy people are positive, optimistic, enthusiastic, and confident. Regardless of setbacks or failures, happy people smile and are confident. The heart is bright because of happiness, and the emotions are happy because of joy. Life is inevitably sad and painful. Happiness is not about being worry-free and pain-free, but about being able to think clearly and treat the unhappiness in life with a positive and optimistic attitude!

In this world, happiness and suffering are found by oneself, and laughter and laughter are left to others. If you want to be happy, it is not the absence of suffering, but to take pleasure in suffering, and happiness comes from suffering; if you want to smile brightly, do not be afraid of the sound of sadness, sometimes you should laugh when you cry, and sometimes cry when you laugh. If you feel bitter, it is called experience. If you endure it without saying anything, happiness will eventually come. Knowing the way of happiness is wisdom. Look at the prosperity indifferently and enjoy living in it. If you laugh in front of everyone, you may be wearing a mask; if you cry in solitude, you may just be unable to let go. Suffering, joy, crying and laughter are actually the grass or flowers that grow in the heart.

As we walk along the road of life, we realize that the helplessness of the gathering and separation of favors makes us know how to be grateful. People who love life are often outstanding, and outstanding people are often the simplest. Be a person who loves life, welcome the morning sun with a frank heart, and bid farewell to the halo of the sunset with a grateful heart. Life is an endless collection of colorful tones, a combination of bitter, spicy, sour and salty.

The more a person cares, the more tiring life will be. Don't change your lifestyle for what others think, and don't blindly obey what others think. Your happiness is not because you have more, but because you care less. Worrying all day long about what others think of you can only cause trouble in the world. Life, vegetation and autumn are all passing by, so why worry too much.

I don’t know that I am here, and this is the greatest joy.

——"Drinking Alone under the Moon" Part 3

Life is intertwined with misfortunes and blessings, with laughter and tears intertwined. Don't be too happy when you get something. If you have some, you will inevitably give up others; there is no need to lose something. Too sad, nothing can stay forever. Don't define happiness in life by the success or failure of your career or the amount of income. They are just attachments and have no necessary connection with the connotation of happiness. As long as you keep a normal mind in everything, don't complain, don't be jealous, don't slack off, and don't be indifferent, happiness can only depend on it.

——Anonymous

Life is short and things are unpredictable. Why care so much about everything, let alone worry about everything. A person's life only lasts a hundred years. There is no need to be too demanding or extravagant about anything. Do what you want to do, love what you want to love. Try to live a good life every day, leisurely watch the flowers blooming and falling in front of the court, and look at the clouds rolling in the sky in the distance. Too many demands will lead to more troubles; too many extravagant expectations will lead to even greater pain.

Life creates different experiences, and growth creates moods. The journey is hurried, criss-crossed and complicated, and a blend of ups and downs. Time keeps slipping away in the hourglass of time, and we have to steady our steps and adjust our mood. There is no room for hesitation in life. The glory is fleeting and we cannot afford to live up to it. The journey of the years is engraved with joy, anger, sorrow and joy. Today, we say goodbye to the scenery we have passed. Experience shapes the stability of life. The overlapping of gains and losses makes us understand gratitude and tolerance. As the years pass by, we no longer feel the mixture of sorrow and joy, but instead embrace the heritage of life, carving exquisite layers into the annual rings.

The twists and turns, the smoothness and happiness on the road of life are destiny. Don't be afraid of its impermanence, although sometimes it comes and goes without a trace, and don't surrender to its orders just because it's weird. Half of it is in our hands, and the other half is in God's hands. The harder we work, the stronger the half we hold will be, and the richer our material and spiritual gains will be. When you are in despair, don’t forget that you own half of your destiny; when you are proud, don’t forget that God still holds the other half.

Truth is the highest realm of life. What is reality? It means not lying, not being pretentious, not violating conscience, and acting purely out of your heart.

If you don’t cheat, your strengths and weaknesses will be clear at a glance, so you won’t be conceited or inferior. Don't think too much, so you can live in poverty and be content and happy. It doesn't violate your conscience, so you have no worries and will be fine every day. Act according to the nature of your mind, do what you should do, and stop when you shouldn't do it; therefore, there are no delusions and worries.

There is no such thing as "mutual restraint" in Buddhism. If there is either good or bad karma between people, no matter what kind of karma it is, we should treat each other kindly in this life: good karma will make it grow. The bad karma is eliminated, and even further, it is transformed into a dharma bond for practicing together. Feng shui is the environment. Buddhism says that "according to the right is not dual". What kind of person you are can have what kind of environment you have. A blessed place and a blessed place for people to live in, not the other way around.

Don’t be too narrow-minded when doing things. A ruler is short, an inch is long; gold is not pure, and no man is perfect. Appreciating others' strengths and tolerating others' shortcomings depends on loving others and being tolerant. Burning with anger for your enemies will only hurt you. If you can't stand the success of others, you will be jealous and frame them, and your life path will become narrower and narrower; if you relax your mind and accept the good and evil of the world, your life path will become wider and wider.

There is always a road ahead. When you encounter a dilemma on the road of life, if you think about it from another angle, you may understand: there is still a road beside the road. Only by settling yourself can you settle your life. Once you have yourself straightened out, the whole world will be flat. Life is a long confrontation, some people laugh at the beginning, and some people win at the end. Destiny will not favor anyone, it depends on how long you can chase and how long you persist.

Don’t stand at the crossroads of life and hesitate. Life is such an unknown journey, what matters is the scenery along the way and the mood of travel. The beautiful scenery will not end because of your stay. The road you have traveled has become the scenery behind you. Keep a peaceful heart, enjoy every moment of feeling, and appreciate every moment of scenery. This is a life without regrets.

People with high moral character are like water, nourishing all things without striving for fame and wealth, and following the trend without worries. The highest level of good deeds is to live like water and not strive for fame and wealth, to live like water and be humble like water, to be calm like water, to treat others sincerely and selflessly like water, to speak like water and to keep your word, and to govern like water In such an orderly manner, you should use your talents like water to do things, and seize opportunities like water in your actions.

If someone is obedient to me, think about their kindness and become more grateful; if someone is disobedient to me, think about cause and effect, and repent sincerely. Make people happy, give and receive gifts, everyone will be happy; change yourself, be kind-hearted, and the world will be at peace. If we cherish all things, all things will cherish me, and this is longevity; if we cherish all things, all things will belong to me, and this is wealth; if we are kind to all things, all things will be kind to me, and this is happiness. .

The process of growing up is like holding a bunch of keys in your hand to open the door. Some people open it all at once, but some people can't open it after trying several times. What's even more tragic is that Some people tried it all but the door was still locked because they got the wrong key. Growth cannot be rushed. You have to believe that everything is the best arrangement now. What you are experiencing now may be what others are looking forward to.

——Anonymous

Inspirational·Growth

All suffering in the world is rooted in this "I"; the reason why Buddhism helps people to escape from suffering is , is to help people get rid of this "I". There are many skillful ways to get rid of "I", step by step, such as revealing the principle of cause and effect: giving to the poor can make you feel rich; being patient and peaceful can make you feel solemn; respecting others can make you feel noble... The more you are a human being, The more self-interested you are, the more truthful you are.

When you experience suffering, you think about the happiness; when you experience happiness, you think about the suffering.

——Anonymous