Sentence describing mother-in-law's excessive behavior (what if mother-in-law has mild pedophilia)

I've been chasing dramas recently, and I feel the happiness of the bad king.

The mountains and rivers here make the handsome pot continue to make sugar, and the queen's bracket there is sweet and fresh. This is really the spring of Yan Gou.

On August 8th last year, 10, I noticed that Jing Tian's double eyelid repair and arch eyebrows painting were particularly successful. At that time, many people said in their messages that they were not used to the new look.

As a result, as soon as the play went online last night, there weren't many posts calling it really delicious! Look, I'm not lying to you, am I? Please poke comments: sweet and lovely.

Shanhe did Happy Amway in the morning. Please poke to see: the small drama counterattack plan.

While chasing drama, I can't help but think: So now boys don't chase drama when playing games? Popular dramas are all aimed at women's needs and are used to make female audiences realize their dreams.

What elements fascinate the female audience in the dream? In addition to the handsome guy with thin waist and long legs, there is also the queen who makes men kneel and tie their shoelaces. It is also very important that the protagonist cannot have parents.

Can you imagine Lao Wen and Xu saying while enjoying the moon: My mother is coming tomorrow. Do you remember to help her wash the dishes?

In order to bring girls back to reality from their dreams, the recent reality show is also very hard.

Mango is broadcasting the second season of "Mother-in-law", and the introduction "Family Intergenerational Harmony Promotes Reality Show" makes people laugh.

Because on this program, you will see a 40-year-old giant baby husband, the best mistress's mother-in-law, and a drama mother-in-law fighting daughter-in-law .....

Netizen: The Eva Huang family in Andy is the most normal.

Come on, friends, we share weal and woe.

I have enjoyed the happiness of a bad king together before, so let's taste the cruelty of reality now!

I'm the dividing line between mother-in-law and daughter-

Think about mango is also well-intentioned, through the selection of the best, to give women the pits that may be encountered after marriage, all-round vaccination.

The so-called married personality, many women don't know whether their lifelong teammates are reliable until the rice, oil and salt bottles are not wet. See Du Chun's writing about the shopkeeper of cutting.

In another case, you only found the right person after a premarital test. But even if you are lucky enough to meet 100% love, it is still different before and after marriage-because you have to face his family.

The example mentioned today is Chen Songling.

Chen Songling, remembered by tvb children, is the "God Harvester" in "Heaven and Earth Man" and "Laughing at the Wind and Cloud", with pretty short hair and pure smile, which is very beautiful.

Last year, when she appeared on the stage of Braving the Wind and Waves, many people didn't know her.

In fact, compared with other sisters who ate preservatives, Chen Songling is just a "normal" middle-aged woman: slightly fat and wrinkled.

Although the figure management standard of artists is higher than that of ordinary people, it is not easy for Chen Songling to be in a healthy and happy state due to repeated fate and illness.

God gave her many tests, but also gave her an unexpected reward: Zhang Duo, who helped her out of the trough and appreciated the inner beauty of women.

Last August, I wrote about Chen Songling's bumpy experience and happy love, so I'm going to review it here.

The reality show of the old woman being broadcast shows the other side of her happy life.

88 wrote about the marriages of many stars. If the man has a big problem, many people will decisively think that the best solution is to kick him out and stop the loss in time.

But the difficulty in life is that not every problem can be solved neatly.

Chen Songling is like this: her other half is definitely a good companion worthy of life. But his mother is difficult to get along with. Can this be broken? Of course not.

Objectively speaking, our mother, Ms. Xing, is not a bad person, nor is she the kind of evil mother-in-law who deliberately makes things difficult for her daughter-in-law.

The 70-year-old man is hardworking and thrifty, and loves his children. But her love for her son is too strong.

Although mothers are very enthusiastic about their long-lost sons, they rarely see their mothers hanging on their sons like koalas.

This brings two problems:

Such a mother must regard her son's home as her own territory and have no sense of boundary; Daughter-in-law can't do well, because her mother-in-law is obviously an outsider even if she doesn't treat her as an enemy.

Therefore, when Zhang Duo's mother called the young couple before her arrival, she stressed: I'm not here as a guest, but I'm going home.

From the first minute she entered the door, she only had her son in her eyes and regarded her daughter-in-law as an invisible person.

Although children have repeatedly stressed that they still have to transform their homes in their own way and leave their own "marks".

I brought my son a lot of things he likes to eat and a bag of garlic for my daughter-in-law.

When eating together, the table used to be a turntable, and the mother-in-law could put all the dishes on her son's side and force her daughter-in-law to eat garlic and bread that she didn't like.

See Chen Songling refused to triple, mother-in-law said: I know you don't want to eat things in the northeast.

The online, Chen Songling had to hurriedly said I have a meal.

What's even more suffocating is that when she was going to wash the dishes after dinner, her mother-in-law suddenly had a seizure and said that she remembered the last time her daughter-in-law wouldn't let her wash the dishes. It turned out that she didn't feel bad for her, but because she refused to use detergent but washed it with flour.

She cried and said, why didn't the daughter-in-law just say that she was afraid of washing it?

Chen Songling was dumbfounded: I made it very clear last time!

Zhang Duo stood up and testified: I heard it, too.

My mother-in-law just gave up.

Mother-in-law's performance schedule has expired, and Chen Songling's practice has also caused some controversy.

She pasted scattered characters on the bedroom door, kitchen, refrigerator, etc. And made rules for her mother-in-law. She is not allowed to move where the text is posted.

She even spoke ill of Zhang Duo, half joking and half serious that this is also a forbidden area for her mother-in-law.

My mother-in-law opens the window in the morning and climbs outside to clean the glass. Chen Songling, who was awakened, came to stop her, and her tone was very unhappy.

She didn't care that the old man was so unsafe, just saying that you froze me to death and scared me to death.

In the interview of the program, she directly used the word Qiqi to describe her mother-in-law. All of the above have caused different repercussions.

Some people think that since the mother-in-law is only visiting for a few days, even if there is excessive behavior, the daughter-in-law will avoid it, and such a challenging gesture will only intensify contradictions;

Some people think that there is nothing wrong with why a daughter-in-law should be petty, and her mother-in-law should be extreme first, and Chen Songling should be strong in confrontation.

Although both sides are controversial, they still feel different in nature.

The mother-in-law's problem lies in herself. If the daughter-in-law is not Chen Songling but someone else, her performance will not change;

Chen Songling is not. If the mother-in-law is not so extreme, she should not adopt the strategy of needle-to-needle confrontation, but be able to live in harmony.

-I'm the dividing line of the border struggle-

Why do you say that the problem lies more with my mother-in-law, because even my father-in-law is keen on Chen Songling.

At the beginning of the program, Zhang Duo's mother introduced herself to the camera. After saying his name and identity, he began to talk about his son.

Dad Zhang interrupted her and said that you exaggerated Tudor, and he was looking for Song. Why don't you praise him? Songsong has many advantages, but I have never heard you say a good word about her.

When Zhang Duo went to Quiet Distance, he once said that his father had a heart stent operation, and Chen Songling took the old man to a Hong Kong hospital. He doesn't care about filming in the crew for a day.

Many people think that my mother-in-law has a problem with Chen Songling because she can't have children, but this is just a guess.

My father-in-law has no problem with this problem of carrying on the family line, but does my mother-in-law have different opinions?

In addition, when he was ill, his father-in-law always remembered his daughter-in-law's handling and service, and was also very positive to her. But my mother-in-law still treats her daughter-in-law as an outsider, and I have to say that there is a subtle psychology in it.

A mother-in-law holding her son like a koala, no matter who her daughter-in-law is, will inevitably have a kind of rejection psychology of "she competes with me for her son's love"

If Zhang Duo is a mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law's rejection of her daughter-in-law is affirmed or acquiesced by her son, it will be out of control.

However, because Zhang Duo drew a clear line with reason and stood firmly on the side of her daughter-in-law, although her mother-in-law had a subtle Oedipus complex, it was only slight, not further aggravated.

Zhang Duo said that after years of hard struggle with her mother, she found a way.

It can be guessed that mother Zhang had interfered with the couple's family before, and she didn't keep the border.

So, on the show, she said that her son and daughter-in-law would "go home", and Zhang Duo immediately said, I'll buy a train ticket to send you back.

Before Chen Songling tried to make rules with her mother-in-law, it was Zhang Duo who spoke first and told her mother half jokingly that she should observe discipline and understand the rules.

When the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is on the verge, Zhang Duo often mediates the atmosphere by joking and euphemistically expresses her position to her mother.

Under the guidance of her son, mother Zhang also learned to exercise restraint. Chen Songling joked and said, Welcome to your home. She replied, This is our home.

Chen Songling half-jokingly listed Zhang Duo as a "forbidden zone". At first, my mother-in-law tore off the label unhappily. Later, she hugged her son and said very reasonably that the rest of your life would be for you two to live together and take care of each other.

But her understanding is entirely out of love for her son. Her courtesy to her daughter-in-law is only to embarrass her son.

Daughter-in-law labels and draws a clear line. In front of her son, she does not conflict. But when her son was not in front of her, she tore it off and went into the room where the young couple were still sleeping.

When she tore the label, she told herself to the camera that it was my son's anyway. In her mind, the owner of this family is a son, not a son's daughter-in-law.

Because of this psychology, although Chen Songling has a good attitude towards her mother-in-law, such as buying clothes and shoes for her, she has repeatedly knelt down to tie her shoelaces;

I also diligently take pictures of my mother-in-law, and I can't change her good feelings.

It can be seen that in the early stage of the program, Zhang Duo often took an attitude of not directly intervening in the contradiction between her mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law, hoping that Chen Songling could establish the authority of the young mistress and draw a clear line with her mother-in-law;

But deterrence and fear come from love. And mother Zhang only has love for her son.

Therefore, Zhang Duo sometimes has to take a clear and tough stance to show that he is on his wife's side.

At this time, you can see that the mother-in-law immediately softened and the son said everything.

But in this way, she will be very wronged and hurt, and feel that she is considerate of her children but not understood.

The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in Chen Songling reminds me of a psychological book, Why Family Hurts People.

Because the boundary line of China family is not clear, the love of the older generation for the next generation is often mixed with problems such as control desire, and intimate relationship is never easy.

After watching the program, many people will say: it turns out that female stars can't escape the problem of their mother-in-law. This constantly confusing family relationship has a suffocating side, but it also has a comforting side.

After all, the times are progressing, and a new generation of men like Zhang Duo who try to guide, adjust and promote the establishment of a healthier relationship within the family give people hope.

More importantly, more and more women have independent space and independent life by virtue of their own economic ability. Even though the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still a difficult problem, it is no longer a problem that dominates their lives.

I hope that when this generation of women become mothers-in-law, more and more elders will no longer turn around their children and have their own interests and worlds.

I hope that at that time, no one watched the reality show of my mother-in-law, only the mother-in-law who braved the wind and waves. How cool.