Everyone will die and everyone needs to be served.

How to face disease and death?

I brushed the group information this morning. Among the courses shared by Shu Ge, the title of one course attracted me. How to face birth, illness and death?

Valla mogu Lis (Valar Doheris). )-the game of thrones

This is our attitude towards death. Everyone will die. Before the death of our loved ones, we should try our best to help them alleviate their pain and accept death. This is also to ease our sadness.

These are Xiong Taixing's views in the course.

Game of Thrones, I haven't seen this play. Let me talk about my understanding of the classic line Game of Thrones.

Everyone will die. Obviously, there is no need to explain. Good, evil, beauty and ugliness will all die.

Everyone needs services, services:

1. Services and support (elderly or dignitaries)

Wait, serve

3. Devote oneself to

Step 4 trust

The above is my Baidu, about the meaning of service.

Living is a service in itself, and everyone needs to be served, regardless of his status.

I understand that service is full of awe. I have the impression that when I first heard this word, it was a Christian friend who spoke it and served the Lord Jesus, which made me feel that this word was sacred and filled me with awe.

Teacher Xiong Taixing mentioned in this class, where should people leave?

1. Hospital

This is the mainstream way now.

2. At home

This is a way of death that seriously ill patients like.

3. Hospice care

Hospice care (English: hospice care) is not a cure, but a medical care that focuses on alleviating symptoms and delaying the development of the disease in the weeks or even months before the patient dies.

The fundamental core is to help people who are about to leave repent of their sins, repent, and finally save their souls. Therefore, apart from religious belief, other forms of care only stay in physical and psychological care. This stage refers to mental care for patients with limited survival time (less than 6 months), supplemented by appropriate hospital or family medical care, in order to alleviate their disease symptoms and delay the development of the disease.

Hospice care does not pursue violent, painful or meaningless treatment, but requires medical staff to control patients' symptoms with skilled business and good service. Because hospice care inevitably involves palliative care of various symptoms, it is often synonymous with palliative care in the field of oncology.

Hospice care allows life to "walk" warmly and walk with dignity.

Nursing content:

(1) body care: relieve pain through the care of medical staff and their families, and enhance physical fitness with a natural healthy diet.

(2) Caring: Through the establishment of concepts, the psychology of fear, uneasiness, anxiety, complaint and caring can be alleviated, so that they can feel at ease, relieved, full of hope and confidence in the future world (after death).

(3) Spiritual care: looking back at life, seeking the meaning of life, or establishing life values through religion and methods, such as eternal life, going to heaven, going to the western paradise, etc.

"Hospice care": a problem that needs the attention of the whole society

1. Hospice care is the inevitable product of the development of social civilization to a certain stage. Usually, it refers to a team composed of doctors, nurses, psychologists, social workers and volunteers, which provides special palliative medical services for terminally ill patients who have no hope of treatment and have a survival time of less than 3 to 6 months, including providing physical and mental comfort and support for their families.

Patients who are unable to return to heaven do not have to rely on medical technology and a lot of financial resources to passively prolong their lives, but can rely on basic treatment to alleviate discomfort as a guarantee and spend the rest of their lives according to their own wishes.

The above are Baidu's professional explanations about hospice care, and some of my own understandings.

Hospice care, as a palliative therapy, not only alleviated the pain of patients, but also cured their families. However, in Xiong Taixing's speech, more money was mentioned, and I think he may be biased on this matter.

If people's well-being is improved, then this kind of hospice care is the closest kind of humanistic care.

Since birth can be treated kindly and sincerely, there are flowers and applause everywhere; When the curtain call is over, you should also treat it sincerely, with flowers and applause, and a little awe.

Looking back now, when my mother was ill, I didn't know the concept of hospice care.

I went back to my hometown first and lived with my mother for half a year. I share a bed with my mother and stay with her during the day.

Mom likes beauty, so I play with her, buy her beautiful clothes, make a mask and massage her every day. ...

Now that I think about it, I haven't done enough. I don't know what she is thinking. At least she gave me material and moral support, but I don't know what my mother is after. This makes me feel remorse and regret so far.

I always thought that I was like my dad, and all my relatives and friends at home said so, but at the moment my mother died, I suddenly found out that I was a miniature version of my mother.

After returning to Ningbo, I was once depressed. Later, by chance, I joined a volunteer organization in Ningbo. The most common hospice care is to go to a nursing home. I am mainly responsible for haircuts, and I look for my mother's shadow through contact with the elderly.

Sometimes I really meet people who are similar in appearance or temperament or figure to my mother. I just look at them a few more times and stay for a while. That kind of satisfaction was a cure for me during that time.

My idea is that you, me and him will all die one day, maybe acute diseases will soon end their lives, maybe chronic diseases will drag on for a while, but anyway, from now on, we should be kind to our closest relatives and don't leave regrets for ourselves.

Life, at the moment of life, is treated well and applauded, and in the end, it should be treated well and applauded.

At that moment, it was others who were treated well. It was you and me who were treated well in the end.