My boyfriend knows that I have given all my money to buy a house for my brother, and often says that I am a helper. Should I dump him?

Although I don't know exactly how much money I gave my brother, I "gave it to my brother", which can be seen from here.

This generous elder sister gave all her boyfriend's savings to her younger brother. I think as any man, no one will be happy about such a thing.

I have to say that this boyfriend is really generous and loves his girlfriend. Otherwise, he wouldn't give his money to his girlfriend for management, and he's not married, just in love.

No matter what the down payment is, there should be a lot of money, at least more than 10 thousand.

Without saying a word, or even consulting, such a big decision was made.

I think this woman should not want to fall in love and get married, but only value other people's money.

This money can't be wasted, because the man's property is his own when he is still in love.

If the woman uses the man's property without authorization, she will bear legal responsibility, and the money can be recovered if she sues.

After you get the money back, you'll never see each other again. Find a woman who lives at home. It is best not to find a brother-in-law. It's almost the same to have a sister-in-law

He should dump you! You need to know the situation! First, do you have your boyfriend's share of the money? If so, why give it to your brother? Secondly, if you earned it yourself, you have the right to decide how to use it! But in either case, you should talk to your boyfriend. In the first case, you are not qualified to decide for yourself. Even if your boyfriend is generous, you should discuss with him. You can only give it if your brother agrees. If you don't agree, you have no right to deal with it. In the second case, even if you earn it yourself, you are in love. As a kind of respect, you should talk to your boyfriend and let him know. After all, it's not a trivial matter unless you don't treat him.

I just watched a video yesterday: in the video, the woman's mother and her brother sued the woman for not giving her brother 200 thousand.

The younger brother of the hostess is getting married, and the bride price is 200,000. If she doesn't have it at home, let her sister pay.

My sister said she had no money, but my brother actually said, don't you have a boyfriend? You ask him for a bride price, just bring it to me!

Listen, what a wonderful logic.

The girl's mother also plausibly said that raising her daughter so big and sending her to college should help her family.

Girls told reporters that universities are basically part-time jobs. At the beginning, the tuition was given by my aunt, and the family basically didn't give her money. However, after work, girls basically send money home, giving 20,000 to 30,000 a year. My brother has been fooling around and refuses to find a job. This time I asked her for 200 thousand, but she really couldn't come up with it.

Because there is no 200 thousand, my brother and mother have turned against her. I cann't believe I went to the TV station and forced her to take 0.2 million/200 thousand

The girl's mother and brother said in unison: they are both family members. She should give money to her brother and ask her for money in the future, because she has a job and can earn money!

What else can I say?

With such a mother and brother, you can only blame your own life!

As a sister, you should help your younger brother, but there is a limit and a bottom line.

If you are willing to help your brother blindly and unprincipled, you can only say that you harm others and yourself.

If my brother can't get up, his family will make a fuss and be restless!

You gave all your money to your brother to buy a house, and your boyfriend just said you were a helper, so you're going to dump him? If I were your boyfriend, I would leave you before you said anything.

I don't know how long you have been in love with your boyfriend, and I don't know if the money you gave your brother included your boyfriend's part, but I know that a woman like you can't get married!

You gave all your money to your brother. Have you considered the future with your boyfriend? Maybe you will feel that money is earned by yourself and you have the right to control it! Maybe you think you're not married and your boyfriend has no right to interfere! If that's what you think, then I don't think you are suitable for dating and getting married! Because whether it is love or marriage, there will be money crossing! You can't be alone! When you fall in love, you have to consider each other's feelings. Ask yourself, did you do it? You can give all your money to your brother before marriage, but after marriage! Do you continue to pay for your brother regardless of your husband's feelings? Will you still insist on being the savior of your mother's family and ignore her husband's thoughts?

Put yourself in others' shoes. What would you think if your boyfriend gave all his money to his brother or younger brother to buy a house? Try it yourself! Brothers and sisters are in trouble, so we can't just stand by and give them appropriate help when conditions permit! But everything must be measured!

If you want something, you have to dump him. This kind of man has to be responsible, courageous and stingy. Do you have a new year?

I'm not married, so I'm stingy, and besides, it's not his money. Why can't I save money to buy a house for my brother? To talk about the joint property of husband and wife after marriage, the two sides will discuss it. This is not married, of course they can control their own money. And even if I get married, my brother is your brother. Shouldn't I buy a house for my brother?

What Voldemort? It's ugly. Only straight men would say such things. As a sister, who doesn't love my brother? He can't understand that he doesn't have brothers and sisters, and he can't understand the feeling of being a brother and sister. Do you expect such a man to share joys and sorrows with you in the future? Dream on, just a selfish ghost with 100% straight male cancer. Get rid of it as soon as possible, or you will delay your youth.

However, after you break up, my suggestion is that you'd better find a boyfriend who can accept blocking the door, and then go to your brother's house to live with your boyfriend, so that everything will be natural for everyone, and it will save those straight men from saying that you are Voldemort, and you have paid for your brother's house, so naturally you have a certain right to use the house. Find a boyfriend who can plug in the door, do whatever you want, and he won't say anything if you give your brother money. You have an absolute say.

From now on, living with your little boyfriend, your brother and your sister-in-law, my brother must be very grateful to you for not struggling for many years, even though my sister-in-law may not want to, it doesn't matter, it's no big deal to let your brother break up with his girlfriend. Anyway, this way, you will each get your place, and you will never be accused of being a demon by those straight men again. What do you think of my idea? Haven't all the problems been solved?

As for those straight men with cancer, let them find selfish women who won't buy a house for their younger brother.

Beauty, your boyfriend says you are the devil who caresses your brother. You can dump him and find someone richer than him to buy a car or a private jet for your brother to fly! Because you are the unique goddess of goodness in the world.

Your brother's buying a house has nothing to do with your boyfriend. He is hitting Uncle Lang in the face. If conditions permit, he will give thousands of dollars or lend tens of thousands to your brother for urgent needs, which proves that your boyfriend has a stand, measures and principles in dealing with people. No one gives him a penny, and no one finds reasons to scold him, let alone a brother-in-law, even a brother-in-law ...

Even if the money is earned by you and your boyfriend, you have no right to handle it alone without your boyfriend's consent! At most, it's your personal reasons to deal with!

It's polite for your boyfriend to say that you are a demon who caresses your brother! If it were me, I would give up my book earlier! That's enough. You want to dump him. What's the purpose of an arbitrary, respected and miserable loser like you? Buy an old cow to feed and make money. ...

The world is big, the reason is big, and the fat is like rain. If you do something wrong, you must be a man with your tail between your legs. Please forgive me! It won't happen again, but you'll be fine. Cows don't know their horns, horses don't know their faces. If you dump your boyfriend in high spirits, no one will stop you, but you should remember that the economy belonging to your boyfriend depends on your conscience to repay, and you can be regarded as a good woman with blood and principles.

As a woman, you should know more about caring for your husband, benefiting your son, daily necessities, the theory of the beginning of life, human nature is good, learning from each other and being close to each other. Otherwise, you must untie the bell and tie the bell. Think for yourself!

You are right, but let's break up.

Not married, that is to say, in the legal sense, both parties do not have the same property. It is obviously very wrong for a boyfriend to interfere with your decision on this premise. At the same time, it also shows that he has a desire to dominate you and wants to intervene in your finances. This man who can't tell his identity is obviously not the best spouse. Don't be sorry. Throw it away.

You have your own problems. There is nothing wrong with subsidizing the family, but once this habit is formed, it means that even if you leave home in the future, you will handle your financial problems according to your own habits. But when it comes to marriage, this habit will obviously hurt the disposal of property and the feelings of both parties. When you can't tell what is an outsider and what is an insider, you don't have the psychological quality to start a family. So it's fair for everyone to play fifty boards.

As the saying goes, girls are extroverted, and it makes sense to say that they are married. In-laws are not the same as parents. If you always deal with things habitually, getting married is not a good choice for you. Of course, this sentence is also about men. Is it a bit embarrassing to interfere in other people's own affairs without entering the door? This kind of man is obviously stingy and selfish. You are uncomfortable to find such a man as a husband.

So the suggestion is to break up, re-plan your financial behavior, think about what you want, and then decide what to do next. Above.

First of all, I want to ask you, are you married? Or is it just a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship at present!

If you get married, it will be good for you to buy a house for your brother with all your money. But if you are married and have a family, this is not desirable. You should ask your husband's opinion. After all, this belongs to the same property. Secondly, you have your own family, and you need to spend money. You need to make plans for your future. Let's talk frankly about your brother's future, his marriage and his house.

Of course, if you are just boyfriend and girlfriend, then you have control over your own money and can buy a house for your brother, which shows that your earning ability is still excellent and you can save money. Now most girls tell the truth and spend a penny! If nothing else, your boyfriend is uncomfortable. Maybe he has a plan for your money, in layman's terms, he thinks about your money!

A man should struggle, compete, struggle and create by himself!

You can dump him!

Are you married? Do you want to get married? Let's not get married. Everyone has a selfish side, including children. You can buy a house for your brother. No, it depends on your own economic conditions. If you have 1 million in your hand to buy a house for your brother, it's fine, but if you do things in moderation, the excess is two. You have to do things with other people's money. What do people think? Use your own judgment to think. Your boyfriend said you were a brother's helper. You can spend other people's money. Move it.