People, don't be too gregarious. What do you think of this sentence?

There are always all kinds of people in this world. They have different ideas and opinions. When we were young, we always pursued "gregarious". Afraid that our "unsociable" will be particularly different. So we are all trying to cater to other people's preferences and want to integrate into other people's circles. We try our best to attend various parties and make ourselves physically and mentally exhausted. We cried and were tired. It is not until people reach middle age that we realize that those who are unsociable are the most beautiful gestures in life.

People who live a very advanced life often enjoy loneliness. When people reach middle age, many people like loneliness more and more. Eating alone, sleeping alone, walking alone, shopping alone, staring blankly at the corner. I no longer want to try to integrate into other people's lives, and I don't want my life to be disturbed by others. They always know that life is too short to force themselves to "fit in".

The writer Bai Luomei wrote such a passage, which made me like it very much. Now I will share it with you. She said: "The world of mortals is a stranger. When we walk alone, the green radish blows her skirt, and Qingyun wets her promise. Mountains and water can be forgotten in pairs, and days and months can be nothing. At that time, there was only one person's floating world, and one person's fine water flowed forever. " Solitude is an exercise. There's nothing wrong with being alone. Different circles don't need to be strong.

There is a saying that "low-quality socialization is not as good as high-quality solitude". People's life is actually very short, and we have a lot to do. Don't let the word "gregarious" trap you. When we learn to get rid of unnecessary circles and become less gregarious, it is the beginning of our growth, and we can achieve better ourselves. Especially in middle age, people should learn to live for themselves and be kind to themselves. We should live a high life, be happy and be ourselves seriously. It really doesn't matter that we are gregarious.