During the Spring Festival, the family played cards. My brother-in-law lost 200 yuan, but my mother-in-law insisted on returning it to him. what do you think?

I gradually began to understand that some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a bad relationship, which is really made.

What we say is that we care about each other and understand each other, and understand that we have not seen our mother-in-law for ten years and our daughter-in-law for ten years. These are really just the most ideal states.

There is a kind of mother-in-law who is stubborn and unreasonable. She doesn't listen to reason at all, only believes in her own logic.

When you meet this kind of mother-in-law, there are only two words: accept your fate.

An aunt next door, her mother-in-law is such a person. Every time she talks about her mother-in-law, she sighs and doesn't know which sentence to start with.

What she said most was her mother-in-law's strange deeds, and almost all of them went to the Pacific Ocean.

The mother-in-law and her youngest son have not been separated and have been living together. She and her husband separated the day after they got married, and they became two families from then on.

Mother-in-law clearly defined the boundaries of this family.

Mother-in-law always adds the word "my home" in front of her when she talks about her little daughter-in-law, indicating that they are a family.

If you say her, you just say your first name and last name.

Regarding the reason why her mother-in-law is eccentric, she can't explain clearly, and there is no special reason. Her husband's temper is rather dull, and he has never been favored at home since he was a child. Mother-in-law has always preferred her youngest son.

Therefore, after the two sons got married, the mother-in-law also favored kannika nimtragol.

In those years, my mother-in-law was eccentric. She said that if we really talk about it, we can't finish it for ten days and ten nights. Many of them are realities that make her extremely sad.

When she was in the countryside in the past, she suffered a lot because of this. She did a lot of things at home and abroad, brought up two children, and did not delay her work in the field at all.

My husband has been working outside, but my mother-in-law didn't help before, and she secretly compared with her.

She said that one autumn harvest season, in order to catch up with her work, she took the rice to the ground in the morning and ate it all day. It was too dark to see the road at night, and she came home. It was Yue.

Because the progress is faster than her mother-in-law's house, her mother-in-law dare not look at it, satirizing her like an ox. They almost had a fight.

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So the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be said to have been solved long ago.

Because of her husband's face, she doesn't get along with her mother-in-law, and she is neither dead nor alive. On birthdays and Spring Festival, two families usually have dinner together.

And every time she makes trouble, her mother-in-law always makes her laugh and cry with new tricks every year.

She was angry at first, but later she was too lazy to give birth. Her mood is so open-minded, probably because her husband is on her side.

Sometimes I spit on my mother, which is sharper than her words.

In this way, the grievances in her heart are much less, and sometimes the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is said to be a joke.

The year before last, my mother-in-law said that she had lived in her youngest son's house for so many years. Now that she is old, it is reasonable to say that as sons, they also have the obligation to support.

However, my mother-in-law once again said that she didn't want to come to their home.

The meaning is obvious. Give her the money.

After consulting with her husband, she agreed to take the money. She said that she also had children and wanted to set a good example for them, so as not to be caught by others, thus saying that they were unfilial.

Later, her family gave her mother-in-law 200 yuan a month and 2400 yuan at a time during the Chinese New Year. She thought it was not much, so she agreed.

And her sister-in-law's family, also more reasonable, repeatedly stressed that, in fact, didn't take the money, they don't have any opinions.

Because to tell the truth, when my mother-in-law was young, she almost propped up her youngest son's home, helped them wash clothes, cook and take care of their children, and made many contributions, but their family never ate a grain of rice.

My mother-in-law was very satisfied with this and even praised them for their filial piety.

She didn't think so, saying that she didn't want such a compliment, and she would be quiet and leave the children alone.

However, her mother-in-law's comparison has not been completely eliminated.

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She said that there are so many rich people in the world, and her mother-in-law doesn't compare with others. She just wants to compare with her family.

Her mother-in-law's mantra is: no money.

When talking outside, my mother-in-law always said that her youngest son didn't make money, her daughter-in-law didn't make money, and her grandchildren didn't have any money. Together, this is a poor word.

She does not like her mother-in-law. In her eyes, she thinks she knows about her family, and it's no use crying with others all the time.

In the final analysis, you still have to earn your own money.

Her family's economic conditions are never as good as her sister-in-law's. Although her mother-in-law said that her family was poor, she had no obvious jealousy.

Until her two children grow up, they are much more promising than their sister-in-law's two children.

She is two daughters, her sister-in-law is a son and a daughter, and her mother-in-law is also patriarchal. She used to say that her grandson was the only child in the family, so she was used to endless.

The usual consequences are: children don't study hard when they are studying, skip classes all day, and go out to work without graduating from junior high school. Now they have been working for many years, and their monthly salary is still three or four thousand yuan.

Moreover, her two daughters got good grades and both went to college, especially her youngest daughter, who was very independent and bought her own house less than three years after graduating from college.

Now my mother-in-law can't sit still. First, she said that she should be given more money every month. After she refused, she said that they should get more money as a birthday present.

My daughter bought a house at the end of last year, so when her mother-in-law came home this year, she asked her daughter where she worked and what she did. Can you introduce your grandson?

After her daughter repeatedly said that her cousin's basic education was not enough, her mother-in-law gave up and began to cry again.

After dinner, the family played cards together. Her brother-in-law was unlucky and finally lost 200 yuan. In fact, he often lost before, and her mother-in-law just asked who won and lost, and would not say much.

But this time, her mother-in-law has a firm attitude. After knowing that her husband won the lottery, she kept saying that her family was poor, how much it would cost, and life was hard.

Finally, I even began to cry.

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The end result is that when her husband saw this, he took out the money and prepared to return it. The mother-in-law said to her eldest son, "You should pay it back quickly."

"Lose 200 yuan. Anyway, she cried and cried to go back before giving up. " But then my sister-in-law quietly took the money and insisted on returning it to her, saying that it was all family members. If they lose, they will lose. What is this loss?

Mother-in-law thought the money was back and stopped crying.

She was very angry and wanted to argue with her mother-in-law, but her husband stopped her: "Mom is so old, what can I do?" She is an antique. If she doesn't listen, it will only get worse and worse, and she will wronged you. "

Every time she is angry with her mother-in-law, her husband can always enlighten her in time. For this reason, she can ignore her mother-in-law.

But the knot between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can no longer be untied.

All she can do is treat her mother-in-law as an elder. For example, once her mother-in-law was ill, her husband always took care of her, and she never even went to the hospital once.

She said she didn't want to go, so as not to listen to what her mother-in-law said to make her unhappy.

As the old saying goes, every family has its own problems. In the trivial matters of marriage, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been complicated and difficult to understand. Those years of hatred, she said, will only end when her mother-in-law takes them to the coffin.