I am quite hesitant about doing things, which makes me very confused. I hope my friends will tell me how you can make yourself act decisively without hesitation when faced with something. Thanks

1. Hesitation in doing things is not a problem in itself. People should think twice before acting;

2. It is always difficult to make decisions. Wouldn’t it be like Comrade Yuan Shao of the Three Kingdoms? Doubtful and indecisive, failure in Hebei;

3. The consequences of doing things are unclear and you dare not make decisions; the cost of doing things is too high and you are unwilling to make decisions; if you don’t want to do the thing itself, then naturally you don’t want to do it either. Chosen;

4. But there are two principles that should be grasped in life:

First, people should do something and something not to do!

Some things have no cost, no will, no consequences, only responsibility and responsibility! Must do it! For example, honoring parents, responsibilities to the family, and so on.

2. For other things, follow the principle that people plan things and God makes things happen

For what you want to do, you should try your best to do it. As for the result, , that’s God’s will, don’t be ecstatic if you succeed, don’t be discouraged if you fail. For example: promotion, promotion, salary increase, upgrading of food, clothing, housing and transportation, etc.

5. If you understand what you have to do, you won’t hesitate! If you don't worry about gains and losses, you won't hesitate! If you realize that your abilities and resources are limited, you will not blame yourself for perfection, and you will make brave decisions!

If you talk about the outcome in life, who wouldn’t be in trouble?

If life is about harvest, who wouldn’t come naked and leave naked? What can you take away?

If there are traces in life, there may be a difference between being famous for eternity and being infamous for thousands of years. Ordinary people like you and me, maybe only future generations will care about our footprints. Therefore, it is natural to think about everything about us with family as the center. , homeless, where is the country? It's enough to have feelings for family and country, because with it, you are a Chinese who stands upright!