How to solve the embarrassment after being rejected?

A boy met a girl, liked her very much, and wanted to know her very much, so he went forward to strike up a conversation. But for various reasons, such as appearance, conversation and so on. The boy was rejected. At this time, the conversation will be in an awkward position. If boys don't take the initiative to solve it, it will not only embarrass both sides, but also affect their relationship.

So, how to resolve this embarrassment?

1. When a boy's dialogue is rejected, the boy must first manage his expression. Don't be expressionless just because the other person refuses. Your whole face is so embarrassed that it is uglier to laugh than to cry. This kind of expression management is out of control, which will make you look stingy and have poor tolerance.

2. After a boy's accosting is rejected, he must not lose his manners. Even if the other person refuses you coldly, you should be polite, smile and say sorry to disturb her, or tell her that it doesn't matter, and then find yourself a step down.

3, don't entangle. When you are rejected by girls, remember never to pester them. You should know that in the face of the entanglement of strange men, girls usually fall into a state of alert and defense, and automatically label you as "bad guy" and "dangerous". The more you pester her, the more determined she is. When the other person has told you the answer "Sorry, I can't give you the contact information" or "I already have a boyfriend", it is wrong for you to follow the other person. Now that the other party has clearly refused, all you have to do is leave politely. You know, you're here to strike up a conversation, not force it. It's really importune. Attitude is very important.

4. Find a reason to leave the scene quickly. Thirty-six, you'd better go. If you really don't have the courage and ability to deal with it, the best choice is to leave the scene as soon as possible when the embarrassment appears. But you must find a suitable reason for yourself, otherwise, it will only make the other person feel sorry.

For example, after courtship is rejected, you can find an excuse to say, "I have something to do today." Talk to you later, you should be busy! "This is a common tactic in love skills, which not only eliminates each other's inner embarrassment, but also wins more opportunities for themselves.