Only a stupid woman would say these five words to a man.

Introduction: As we all know, men also have exclusive language taboos like women, and saying these words will make men particularly disgusted. So what is the last thing a man wants to hear from a woman?

As we all know, for a woman, there are some words that you should never step on. For example, if you say that she has gained weight again, you are telling her that you are not as good as you think, and sprinkling salt on the wound is bound to arouse disgust.

But for men, they actually have their own language taboos.

Most men have a lot of face, whether in public, in front of his friends or parents, or even in their own homes, try not to say anything casually. Although some words you say are unintentional, they will deeply hurt men and even lead to changes in their feelings.

And the next five points I want to say are basically the last thing most men want to hear. Talking too much will really hurt their feelings.

"Why are you always like this!" In life, most girls are actually a little wordy. I will complain about the triviality of life and some men's minor faults.

I often hear women complain about their husbands.

He always does. He threw his clothes casually, left his shoes at home and lay on the sofa. Everything stinks!

Men are actually afraid of women who talk all day.

You read it because you are bored, but it sounds unbearable to him, but he is useless. This actually hurts self-esteem, and men actually care about face.

When you find something you don't like about a man, a woman should learn to communicate with him well.

After all, effective communication is the correct way to solve problems, and complaining will only make them more upset.

A girl I know has a way with her boyfriend.

She doesn't like her boyfriend smoking, so she made an agreement with him. I don't ask you to give up smoking, but you can't smoke in front of me. Try to smoke less. After all, smoking is harmful to health. So his boyfriend always goes to the balcony when he wants to smoke, trying not to be in front of her.

"I think a girl should learn to make you hungry and not make him sad." The girl has always thought so.

Many girls have strong personalities, which makes men feel depressed while they are afraid. It's so uncomfortable to stay at home that I feel comfortable even when I go out.

As time went on, my feelings for both of them became bad.

"How do I compare with your ex-girlfriend?" Speaking of ex-girlfriends, in fact, most girls will care more.

And they will unconsciously compare themselves with their boyfriend's ex-girlfriend in their hearts. What? She is more beautiful than me, taller than me and so on.

As long as you think about it, you will naturally start to struggle. What would your boyfriend think? Will he also think that I am not as good as his ex-girlfriend? As soon as the doubts in my heart appear, I can't contain them, so I have to ask my boyfriend.

In the eyes of boys, things about ex-girlfriends are a thing of the past, so don't mention them again.

You really don't need to confirm with him again and again. You know, since he chose you, it proves that he loves you, and his ex-girlfriend is a thing of the past.

If he doesn't care, why bother you? And you are unique, you don't need to compare with anyone.

"You are such a loser!" Some women, whether before or after marriage, can't help complaining that their boyfriends or husbands are worthless because their partners earn less money or don't earn as much as their heterosexual friends.

I met a similar example before. A friend got married and went to her wedding. The people who eat at the same table are strangers of similar age, and one of them seems to have just quarreled and didn't communicate much.

Halfway through, the bride and groom came to propose a toast. I don't know why, the girl suddenly scolded the boy in a low voice, "You are so worthless. Look at XXX (groom's name). You have a stable job and earn tens of thousands of dollars. What about you? You have found several jobs after graduation, and now your monthly salary is less than 5 thousand! "

The boy didn't speak, but turned to talk to the groom. Although he ignored his girlfriend, he could see that his face was very poor.

The bride smiled and said to the girl, "Don't talk about him like that. Xiao Wu is still quite good. You are always so generous. Be careful Xiao Wu doesn't want you. "

The girl glared at her boyfriend, smiled and said, "Nothing. Men just need to put more pressure on him, otherwise there will be no progress. "

Although pressure can make a person progress, the premise is based on respect, understanding and tolerance. It is very hurtful to put pressure on each other by belittling them blindly.

"Your parents are so annoying!" Many men and women will inevitably have some frictions and contradictions after marriage, especially after the woman and her in-laws get along for a period of time.

A sensible girl will bring up her dissatisfaction with her husband and let him mediate. But some girls lose their temper every time they encounter a little problem, yell at their husbands and even scold their parents.

In any case, cursing each other's parents is probably unacceptable to most normal men.

In fact, women can put themselves in others' shoes. If your husband has problems with your parents, he will abuse your parents in various ways. Can you accept it?

Our parents brought us up and turned our daughter-in-law or son-in-law from a stranger into a family because of the love between two young people, and there is no blood or other relationship. It's normal to have friction and contradiction, but it's too much to scold your elders or even call names.

"Look at other people's boyfriends!"

I believe that any man probably hates his woman and compares him with other men.

Women always like to compare other people's boyfriends or husbands with their own. While lamenting the big gap, their hearts are getting worse and worse.

A girlfriend once complained to me. On Valentine's Day, she saw the "520" or "13 14" red envelopes sent by her boyfriend and husband in the circle of friends, and said to her boyfriend, "You see other people's boyfriends are so romantic, why didn't you know to send me one?"

In all fairness, the reason why my girlfriend said this is nothing more than to let her boyfriend create more romantic moments for her in a dull life. There is no woman who doesn't like small surprises and doesn't like the feeling of being spoiled.

But her male ticket can't understand her thoughts.

He said, "Am I bad to you? I pay you every month, and my pockets are empty. What cosmetics, clothes, shoes and bags do you think I care about? I don't want to be apart from you? Besides, the conditions of others are better. No, everyone has different financial strength. Why do you have to compete? "

In the face of these words from her boyfriend, her girlfriend is noncommittal. In her opinion, love should be a series. If you are willing to let me spend money, it is not generous to send a red envelope. The figure of 88.88 just seems perfunctory.

They had a quarrel about it, and both of them were uncomfortable. Later, I broke up because of some other problems.

In fact, I think a man really doesn't need to compare him with others as long as he loves and cherishes you.

And men have actually suffered a lot, maybe he can't give you what you want yet. But as long as he is willing to spend time trying to fulfill his promise to you, it is worthy of recognition.

I once saw such a sentence on the internet, which was quite touching. It says, "Any man would like to be someone who loves a woman."

On the other hand, happiness cannot be compared.

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