It's better to say a good word a thousand times than to do one good thing.

as the saying goes, it is better to do one good thing than to say it a thousand times. It means that it is more important to say that you didn't do it, and doing it is more important than saying it. In this era of testing emotional intelligence, it is very important to speak, and it is more important to say good things. However, it is better to do one good thing than to say it a thousand times. In the face of real people, good words can be said, but more importantly, good things. Really comparable ability is greater than language. Maybe I am not a person with high emotional intelligence, so I pay more attention to practical actions than verbal actions.

Maybe many times most of us will envy those people who can talk with high emotional intelligence. They walk in the workplace, from the leader to the colleague, and they all handle the relationship in an orderly way, which is very harmonious and friendly. And those of us who are not high enough in emotional intelligence are often trapped in it, and are often blocked by some things, which will bring us a lot of troubles. But what I want to say is that EQ is important and essential, but what is more important is often ability. When your ability is strong enough, EQ will naturally rise. It's like a subtle influence

in fact, the two complement each other. Emotional intelligence is inseparable from ability, and ability is inseparable from emotional intelligence. Only when the two are combined and complement each other can they rise to a higher level. Therefore, we don't have to worry about those so-called relationships. Compared with these, it is more important to improve our ability. As people often say, if you are good enough, your circle, your words and your emotional intelligence will also be enhanced. Or to put it another way, emotional intelligence can also be cultivated. If you can improve your ability in such a difficult way, why not? That's my opinion.