Indulge yourself.

Indulge yourself is to give up yourself.

If a person wants to succeed, he can't let himself drift and indulge himself. Instead, we should restrain our actions and words and be careful of our words and deeds. Instead of getting into trouble because of your indulgence and giving people a handle, it is better to be cautious and manage yourself.

If a person indulges himself, even in very relaxed and casual occasions, he will be rejected by others. As you can imagine, if a person holds the attitude of eating, drinking and having fun in time and fails to grasp his own self-role under any circumstances, he will be criticized by people.

Xiao Wang's company held a reception. He usually likes to drink. Once he drinks, he can't stop until he is drunk. He is always full of gaffes. This time, Xiao Wang also held the attitude of not drinking liquor, showing a greedy face and not being drunk endlessly, thinking that this would take advantage and be satisfied. In fact, this is all wet.

Because at such a reception, although everyone is amiable and looks very comfortable, Xiao Wang may not care. In fact, many bosses are using this cocktail party to make unannounced visits to their employees, because the more relaxed a person is, the easier it is to reveal his true nature, which Xiao Wang needs.

Think about it. Xiao Wang was so drunk that he turned his "old school" upside down and showed his boss all the small problems he tried to hide in his daily work. What kind of evaluation will he get?

Not only that, in life, if a person can't manage himself well, the probability of indulging himself will be great. Your life will go through many changes, such as losing relatives, lovers, friends and good career ... when these blows hit, it is time to test a person's fighting spirit. If you flinch and indulge yourself, you will never recover and lose more. Emotional things always make us unable to control easily and will suffer various blows. Often some people will be at a loss, like headless flies, and feel that society is dark and unfair. These people will hate society and feelings, let themselves go from one extreme to the other, and choose to indulge themselves.

Once you choose to indulge yourself, this person will take the most retarded behavior, which is equivalent to embarking on the channel of depravity. If you go to dance school, life will repay you with horrible results. Life is only a few decades, so why bother?

If a student indulges himself, does not study with peace of mind, spends all day in Internet cafes, is obsessed with computer games, and spends a lot of energy on games, then his grades will inevitably plummet until his studies are in a mess. ...

If you indulge yourself at work, don't try to improve your work ability, indulge in something unrelated to work all day, and take up most of your energy, so that your work is getting worse and worse, and you frequently receive warnings and criticisms from your boss. When the boss is not willing to put up with you any longer, it's time for you to leave.