I hacked my favorite boyfriend. Why is a betrayal enough to break up an adult?

San Mao: "promises and vows are unintentional."

We will make promises and vows in love, but these may also be our duplicity.

When we are in love, we always have an expectation of commitment, which is the belief given by the power of love, which makes our hearts extremely firm and love extremely calm.

However, no matter how beautiful the oath is, it is just talk. If you take it to heart, then you will fail in this love.

A friend said that she broke up with her boyfriend because she found out that he had betrayed her.

She has been in love with her boyfriend for almost three years. During this period, they often quarrel, but sometimes they will make up immediately after quarreling, and sometimes they will be angry with each other for many days. However, after the reconciliation, the two will analyze the causes of the cold war a few days ago in time, and strive not to repeat the same mistakes next time.

Now her boyfriend doesn't quarrel with her. In fact, it is not how good the feelings between them are, and there is no contradiction. Just because of all the contradictions, her boyfriend would rather put them aside and ignore them than try his best to analyze the root causes and solve them.

Her boyfriend has been very busy at work. In the past, he would send messages to tell her what he was busy with, and even find time to have dinner with her when he was too busy. But now she is always busy with work. The point is that she doesn't know if her boyfriend is really busy.

Every time she sends a message, it sinks to the bottom of the sea. When she called, the receiver kept ringing until the last minute, and no one answered.

When a person begins to betray you, he becomes very busy and has no time to answer your phone calls or even watch the news. However, where you can't see it, he can take time out of his busy schedule to send a message to another person.

My friend told me the meaning of chatting with her boyfriend with a wry smile. Boyfriend's so-called "busy" means that he doesn't like you anymore, so don't bother him anymore. Occasionally, he would say to her, "I'll contact you later." In fact, he will not contact her, just want to tell her that their relationship is over.

A friend said that when she was first together, her boyfriend promised her many things to do together after marriage. She always remembers her boyfriend's oath and looks forward to entering a sacred marriage with him.

She said: "When you see how sincere and attentive this man is to you, at that time, every three years, you vaguely remember that wherever you go, he will pass by and know everything. How much he hates his indifferent and perfunctory attitude towards himself."

I don't hate that his attitude towards himself has changed, but because he doesn't love himself and treats himself like a fool. He always feels that you can't see through his indifference. Maybe he doesn't care what you think. Even if you see through it, he doesn't care. This is the chilling place in this relationship.

When your favorite man is perfunctory to you, doesn't care about your thoughts, but tries his best to coax other women every day, you can't wait to scold him.

For a woman, not loving is not loving. You can tell me, even if you like another person, you can tell me generously. Hanging out with his girlfriend while falling in love with others, such behavior, advise men: no need.

A friend said that when she found out that her boyfriend had betrayed her, they had not contacted each other for more than a week. She really can't figure out how busy her boyfriend is, too busy to answer the phone or return messages.

When she went to her boyfriend's house to find him, the key couldn't open the door. When she knocked at the door, a more beautiful woman opened the door, and she immediately understood the truth.

She said, "I hacked my favorite boyfriend. Although I still love him, he doesn't love me anymore. What I can't accept is not that he doesn't love, but betrayal. " It only takes one betrayal for an adult to break up.

If the concealment in love makes people feel desperate, then don't take that person to heart. The best way to forget the pain is to give it time to solve it.

In the world of love, don't take all the vows too seriously. Once you expect your boyfriend's commitment as your goal, it's hard to go back when you break up.

Maybe when you are in love, you think what he said is true. Of course, maybe he's telling the truth. However, he may have thought of it at that moment and said it smoothly.

When you share this sweetness with your friends happily, you can't guess what your boyfriend is thinking. When you are waiting for him to fulfill his promise, sometimes the other person just responds to you in a few words.

Don't blame love rat for being too scum, blame yourself for being naive. You think he will care about everything about you, all your emotions, but sometimes you really think too much.

When you carefully prepare a surprise in advance, wait for him to get off work, but in the end the other party just accepts it indifferently. Maybe when you turn around, you will say something to yourself: It's really annoying.

And the love you gave with joy, originally expecting the other person's happy eyes, ended up like the feeling of being poured with a pot of cold water, infiltrating into your heart from head to toe.

The beautiful love we think will not make you feel cold, let alone let you down.

The boyfriend who really loves you will take a taxi across half the city in his clothes when you are unhappy, and come to your side to accompany you until dawn. No matter what unreasonable demands you have, he will try his best to satisfy you.

Even if I am too busy to eat, I will call you at the first time in my spare time to report what I have been busy with, and I will send you a loving midnight snack when I get off work at night.

He has been silently loving you and giving everything for you, but he has never asked you to do anything for him. When you give him a little surprise on a whim, you will find that he will be as happy as a child.

Good love is to know each other, be honest and loyal to each other, pay without complaint, and support you silently behind your back.

Every love is the same at the beginning, like an unknown adventure. You don't know when you will fall in love with each other, and you don't know whether they will be dead set on you. It seems that you love each other deeply, but it is also possible that at the next moment, one of you will fall into the arms of others.

In fact, love is sometimes unreal. Once it's gone, you can't even see any residue. When dealing with love, don't forget to be ready to quit at any time. There is no need to trust those who are unfaithful to you.

Two people in a love relationship should trust each other, but also have a certain degree of loyalty. The lie of betrayal will be exposed sooner or later, and only two people who really love each other can last long.