It's like talking to a roommate. Every time I say something, she talks to you in a didactic way, such as you are in a bad mood.

Maybe they all hate each other. There are too many differences in ideas and personalities. To tell the truth, judging from your subjective description, I don't think the person you are talking about is bad. On the contrary, I think she is a straightforward person, and I think you are not happy. I'd rather talk to you than speak ill of you behind your back. You also deliberately asked what she said and pretended not to hear it. This is a disgusting behavior. Generally speaking, subjective description will be strengthened by spitting out your own things. Don't always think that others are wrong, think about what's wrong with yourself. If she really despises you, she won't help you. Sometimes liking or not doesn't hinder the existence of feelings. If it were me, I would have an intersection with her, so I think it would be much better if we always put our cards on the table and speak our hearts out. And I will also reflect on whether I am wrong or not.