How to do subtraction in life, and how to manage problems by the way.

Nine times out of ten, it is unpleasant, which is almost brought to us by others. For example, some people ignore us, alienate us, hurt us, belittle us, humiliate us, even deceive our honesty, deceive our kindness, sell us fake goods, steal our property, and so on. Aren't they all from others? What should we do in the face of all these unpleasant things? I remember two old sayings commonly used in previous years, one is "Deal with a man as he deals with you" and the other is "Do the opposite".

"Deal with a man as he deals with you" means that you are unkind and I am unjust. If you dare to humiliate me, I will dare to stretch out my old fist and start work; You sell us fake products today, and we will pay you back tomorrow. Even, you stole one of our bikes, and tomorrow we will steal someone else's motorcycle. There is such an example in the newspaper. Someone lost his bike and became a motorcycle thief in a rage. In this way, an eye for an eye will be rewarded, and there are more and more unsatisfactory things in life, just like addition.

"Doing the opposite" means that you are negative to me, and I will not be negative to you. "Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you." When faced with unpleasant things, we will feel uncomfortable and painful, so we can't let others feel sad and painful for such things. If you hurt us, if it's not a big deal, we will tolerate you as a warning, and don't take it out on others and hurt innocent people when things happen.

There are many examples of subtraction in life. In Beijing, there is a 76-year-old man named Xie Liang. Four years ago, he asked someone for directions, but he was given a cold shoulder. The man ignored him and looked indifferent. He naturally felt angry, but he didn't take it out on anyone, but thought that after others asked me for directions, I would show them the way with the highest enthusiasm and patience. Since then, he has given directions to the whole city. More than 4,700 places such as Beijing have compiled a 200,000-word guidebook, which provides "voluntary directions" for hundreds of people every day, rain or shine, and is known as the "king of directions" in Beijing.

When encountering unpleasant things, setting an example by subtraction naturally reflects a person's mind, morality and tolerance, and also marks a person's standing height and vision. They will think that someone snubbed you and strengthened your self-reliance; Someone hurt you and honed your mind; Someone lied to you and improved your knowledge; Someone tripped you, but also tempered your ability and filled your life with sunshine. Is it cheap to be narrow-minded, petty and like to embellish things? No, absolutely not.

A dialogue between Han Shan, a monk in Tang Dynasty, and pickup truck is worth pondering. Hanshan asked, "How can I be slandered, bullied, humiliated, laughed at, despised, despised and deceived on earth?" Pick up the answer: "just bear with him, let him, let him, avoid him, bear with him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few years, goodbye."

It seems that subtraction in life is indeed a kind of wisdom, which will not only improve one's personality, but also reduce unsatisfactory things and enhance social harmony. Why not?

30. The title of this article is The Subtraction of Life. Why start with "addition in life"? (3 points)

3 1. Combined with the relevant contents in paragraph 2 1-33, explain why "deal with a man as he deals with you" is the addition of life, while "doing the opposite" is the subtraction of life. (2 points)

32. The dialogue between Han Shan, a monk in the Tang Dynasty, and Pickup is intriguing. Can you taste the wisdom of being a man in it? (3 points)

Read the links below and write some comments for Xie Liang, the "king of the road". (2 points)

Link material: There is a 76-year-old man named Xie Liang in Beijing. Four years ago, he asked someone for directions, but he was given a cold shoulder. The man ignored him with a cold face. Naturally, he felt angry, but he didn't vent it on anyone. But he thinks that after others ask me the way, I will show them the way with the highest enthusiasm and patience. After that, he will sit all over the city's bus stations, universities and colleges.

30. The function is to introduce "life subtraction" and make a comparison with it (2 points) to highlight the importance and necessity of "life subtraction". (1 min)

3 1. Because "deal with a man as he deals with you" means a tooth for a tooth. You are unkind and I am unjust, thus increasing the number of disappointments in life. (1) "Do the opposite" means that even if you are negative to me, I will not fail you, thus reducing the number of disappointments in life. ( 1)

32. You should be more patient and tolerant, and even return good for evil, which will eventually affect each other. (3 points)

33. With their enthusiasm, patience and tolerance, the elderly have improved the society and shelter and perfected their personality. His ideological and moral qualities mark his height and foresight. (2 points)