After analyzing the reasons, let's talk about what to do. now

First of all, you should have your own job, even if the salary is not high, you should stick to it, because only in this way can you have your own independent personality and your own circle of friends, and your thinking will not keep up with the times. Then someone will say, if I go to work, who will take care of the children? This is easy, let the mother-in-law take care of the children, or ask the nanny to take care of them. Anyway, you can't take them, even if the money you earn at work is lower than the salary of the nanny you hired.

(4) After I have a job, I can discuss housework with my husband. 1, do housework on 3 and 5, change shifts on 2, 4 and 6, and rest on Sunday. In my family, I cook and my husband cleans. Because as long as you have an independent personality, you have bargaining capital, otherwise, your husband will ignore you and do housework. After a long time, you never want to stay at home, leave the children and bring mistress back. Don't laugh, this is a realistic thing, not to make everyone happy.