How to treat the phenomenon of middle-aged and elderly people raising children and grandchildren?

Old people nowadays are really hard. They finally raised their son, then got married and had children, and then they had grandchildren. So why is this happening?

Young people are now under greater social pressure. For women, if they get pregnant after marriage, they will have maternity leave. However, after giving birth to a baby, maternity leave is over and I have to go out to work. In this case, there is no one to take care of the baby, and the old man can only help to take care of the child.

Some people may say, why can't you take care of the children yourself! Actually, it is caused by social pressure. You want to create better living conditions for your children. But if you stop moving forward, prices keep soaring and others are running on the road, you will feel guilty about your child, because you may make him fall behind in material life from an early age.

Every parent doesn't want to miss the growth of their children, but life is really helpless. Someone once said, why do young people always say they want to take care of their children, but in the end they leave them to their parents? But all this is also their pain point!

Let's talk about the old man again! They have reached retirement age, and it is time for them to enjoy their old age. But watching the birth of a little grandson, if you really love him, why do you want to miss his growth! Even if children want them to have their own lives, the life of these old people is to watch their grandchildren grow up happily day by day!

Besides loving grandchildren, I also feel sorry for my children. After all, it is very painful to watch your children work every day. If you can help children do one or two things, they are also very happy and feel that their lives are more valuable.

I don't think it's wrong for the old man to help with the children. Of course, I also hope that young people will not feel the need for the elderly to help with their children. Everyone has everyone's ideas. If the old man doesn't want to take care of the children, don't be forced. If the child doesn't want the old man to help take care of the child, the old man is not angry. Only by respecting each other can a more harmonious family be achieved.