The first and last time.

The first opportunity is far less precious than the last; The first class is far less memorable than the last class; People who love for the first time are far less worried than those who love for the last time.

When was the first time? It is a blank experience, but it is wrong to think that the first time is everything.

Xiaorou's first job after graduation was as a salesman in a foreign company. She attached great importance to her first job. She works hard and never arrives late or leaves early. She gave everything to her colleagues and even promised to buy coffee to deliver meals. No one really thanked her for her sneaking around, saying that she was a takeaway from the company. Xiaorou felt that her first job should be endured no matter what.

One day, Xiaorou had a fever. She was prone on the table, but no one cared. No one was interested when she came to lunch. Xiaorou lay on the table and cried silently for a long time. She spent too much time doing housework for others, and she vowed never to give in as before.

? Colleagues let the coffee they bought give way to the rice they brought with them, but she refused to do excle decisively. Colleagues all say that her first impression is false, and she can't let go and show her true colors.

Xiaorou is very sad. She just wants to be as good as possible for the first time, but her colleagues complain and ridicule endlessly. She decided to work hard and concentrate on herself.

Within a few months, Xiaorou had excellent sales and was promoted to sales manager by the leader, but the people who laughed at her still didn't make progress, and her performance was average.

The leader said to her, "I didn't expect that you just entered the company and are rather cowardly, so you can't see such courage."

Small soft smile, her heart. Yes, just entering the company, how much she cherishes her first job opportunity and cares about her colleagues' first impressions, but she ignores the most important thing in the company is the work itself, not her feelings.

Later, Xiaorou's ability has exceeded the business scope of this small foreign company. This time, Xiaorou is supercilious to her new job and her colleagues in the company. The first chance made her suffer, and the first impression made her want to be perfect. She thinks she can only seize the first chance. As a result, she knew that the first time was just the beginning.

It is better to face everything bravely and accept everything. As long as you want, the initial quality will not determine success or failure. Success or failure is never so casual, the days are still long, and there is still a chance. Be brave and be yourself every time.

Linlin is lovelorn, and she and I both want to die. I said it was just lovelorn. People in this world are lovelorn every day.

She said, "You don't know, I'm finished. I gave it to him for the first time. He said he would marry me, but now he has left with a cruel heart. " As she spoke, her tears flowed uncontrollably.

"You don't know, in fact, I've always wanted to leave my first time for my wedding. But I really love him. He said he would marry me. "

Looking at Linlin's wronged tears, she must have been deeply hurt. "Linlin, did you love him?"

"I really love him. When we are together, I really love him wholeheartedly, and I can give my life for him. However, he actually stepped on two boats. I have been kept in the dark. I can't face my family and friends now. I feel dirty. I feel that I have no face to live in this world. "

Linlin said this sentence well, and I suddenly felt very scared. As a college graduate, she received higher education. This idea is so stupid and pedantic that there is no respect and piety for life.

"Ling ling, first of all, girls should respect themselves. But the first time it's gone, it doesn't mean you're dirty! Because you love him, you think it will last forever. He lied to you. Of course, you have to reflect on yourself. Next time, you should learn to see a person clearly and don't trust others. Secondly, you just don't know the difference between true love. People who love you will accept everything about you. You are a good girl. You will meet someone who is sincere to you, not just saying that you want to marry you, but actually marrying you. Have you ever thought about your parents? "

? "But if my parents know me like this, they will never forgive me. I especially regret it now. If I insisted on refusing at that time, if ... "

"The world has never been if. The first time doesn't mean everything. You gave it seriously out of love. Now that it has happened, we should look forward bravely. Remember, people who really love you don't always pay lip service. If he wants to marry you, buy a ring and kneel down on one knee. "

"If I do this, will someone really like me and love me?"

"Of course. For the first time, you just don't know what sincerity is. You have to let go of the past and let yourself go. You are a good girl, and someone will protect you forever. Just don't focus on how to love others and how to be loved. Love yourself, so that you can achieve your ultimate goal. Love yourself is the most important thing. You have to believe that you are the most precious. "

The tears on Linlin's face have dried up, looking at her so haggard. I hope she can let go of herself. After all, life is better.

A year later, I received a message. I'm getting married. Thank you. I am very happy now. He's fine.

? It's good that that silly girl finally met her own happiness.

I often watch the news, because I lost my love and cut my wrist, because I failed in an exam, I collapsed and jumped off the building, and because I failed in starting a business, I was devastated. Because once, because of the first beautiful disillusionment, I gave up countless possibilities in the future and gave up infinite beautiful opportunities in the future.

The first time is just the beginning, and the last time is the end. The days are still long, don't give up the ending just because of the beginning, you will miss many beautiful scenery.

? May you meet the best ending at the beginning of each time. You have to believe that all endings can be better.