I feel that I am trying to persuade others to do the same thing, and when I get to myself, I feel so stupid and incompetent! I don't know what will happen in the future

Actually, don't feel too bad about yourself. What you are experiencing is exactly what many people are experiencing or even going to experience. Everyone will be confused at times in his life, either longer or shorter than others. For your experience, I can only say whether you feel a little inferior or despise your feelings. I am also such a person. I think you must remind yourself of two words when you do things in the future: First, consider everything thoroughly. Second, decisive. When you encounter one thing, you must first consider it thoroughly, and you should not be hot-headed, let alone casually. Never listen to what others say casually, it will make you more and more indecisive. Of course, you should listen to other people's good advice. This requires you to cultivate the ability to choose opinions and distinguish opinions.

You also need to make a decision decisively and quickly on the premise of thorough consideration. This requires courage, and you need to exercise your judgment in daily trivial matters. Do not hesitate. Really, hesitation is the taboo of success.

I venture to ask your age here. If you are in youth or prime of life, you need not feel sorry at all. There are still many things in life waiting for you to experience. You still have a long way to go. You still have time to start over. You don't have to feel that you have made so many wrong decisions, just give up on yourself and think that you can't do anything.

As for finding the other half, I'm really sorry. Excuse me, is your height something you don't want to face? In fact, height is nothing, as long as your heart is kind enough and your personality is good enough, you will definitely find the right partner. I believe you will find your own happiness.

You are still young, and there are many things to look forward to. You must face life and the past positively from now on. Don't always look back, you must look forward. You will always get successful flowers and applause, and your other half will be waiting for you at a turning point in your life. I hope you must believe in yourself.