What happens to winners in life?

"The road of a lifetime is how you come and go, and no one can help you."

"Learn to calculate by yourself."

In the TV series "Do you know if it should be green, fat, red and thin", Sheng Minglan remembered a good word from her grandmother.

Since then, no matter how ups and downs of fate, she has always maintained a bottom line, and she has to explain her life path:

"I came to this world once to live a good life."

Flowers, bright and beautiful, are a gift of fate; Wind, frost, rain and snow, stabbing in the back, is also a gift of fate.

In a prosperous life, there is never a natural good life, only the wisdom and determination to master one's own destiny.

The most direct shortcut for a woman in a feudal family to turn over is to get married.

Ming Lan, of course, understand this.

However, from a humble background, she has no say in her marriage.

My father is a five-grade official, and my mother is a concubine who is not allowed to coquetry. No matter how clever she is, she must be stubborn and can't hide her edge.

It happened that fate sent such good men to her one by one.

Infatuated first love, little grandpa, suitable for He, diamond cut diamond Gu Ershu.

We met and fell in love three times in our life. We onlookers saw it and only thought that this life was enough.

However, in "The Love of the Cardamom", Ming Lan made the most sober choice every time.

For love, Ming Lan has her own measure since she was a child:

"What I really love is not how many smart things he has done, but how many stupid things he has done."

Xiaoye Gong Qiheng did a lot of stupid things for Minglan.

However, the difference in identity doomed their love to be defeated only by the secular.

Ming Lan is very self-aware and tries to resist this feeling.

Qi Heng confessed several times, and Minglan explicitly refused;

Give the expensive brush he sent to Moran and Rulan;

I don't want to meet him in private, and I speak frankly, which will implicate my sister and father.

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Facing the unshakable identity gap, Ming Lan can see through the final outcome at a glance.

She has tried her best to refuse, refused her little heart, refused the silly insistence of the other party, and she didn't want to risk entrusting her life to a family that obviously looked down on her.

But who would have thought that grandpa was perfect like a fallen fairy, but he was so affectionate that he was willing to hunger strike for this ordinary girl.

She was moved after all:

"I know the Longtan of Qijia, and I am willing to throw caution to the wind."

"As long as he doesn't disappoint me, I won't disappoint him."

This is a girl's most solemn commitment to love.

However, it is not easy to marry into a rich family, which is far beyond her imagination.

Qi Heng's love for Ming Lan is beyond doubt, but he underestimated his charm.

It was just an ordinary meeting, and the princess of Jiacheng took a fancy to him, and she would not marry unless she was a young man.

Rong Fei's sister has a crush on him, too. She wants to marry into this family.

What is more terrible than the struggle between two tigers is the struggle between two tigers. What's more, the family forces behind these two people are far less than Sheng Jia.

In the end, Rong Fei's sister was framed by the family of the county owner and ended up committing suicide. She failed completely in this competition.

If it was Ming Lan, the situation would be even worse.

He also underestimated his mother.

She forced Qi Heng to admit that Sheng's daughter was her sister.

Qi Heng went on a hunger strike, but the princess had no choice, so she went out to persuade Lan herself.

Finally, I simply threatened him with the lives of my whole family.

In the wind, a true story, little grandpa was trapped in the same place, but Ming Lan dried his tears and strode forward.

Despite ten thousand reluctance, Qi Heng married the county magistrate.

The old lady loved Ming Lan dearly, so she was betrothed to He Hongwen.

The royal family is well-off, they are well-off, and the grandmother and the old lady are close friends. what do you think? It's a good match

Ming Lan objected at first.

Just as we are getting older and older, our families are urging blind dates.

However, when I met him, I thought this man was actually not bad, with the same conditions and matching personality. It seems acceptable to imagine living with him.

Grandma advised her: if you want to find someone, you must find an honest duty. The family has a simple population, and the mother-in-law is kind to people, making you comfortable.

Ming Lan, who has always been more rational than emotional, agreed.

Even if his confidante Cao's cousin jumped out, she didn't care too much: we don't have each other in our hearts, but we can live in harmony and respect each other.

Grandma doesn't want Ming Lan to be wronged like this. What's the use of this marriage if she has no heart and no happiness all her life?

This marriage is over.

Ming Lan himself said: "Being with others will ultimately depend on the lowest point, the lowest point of character."

Eric's literary character is right, but from the lowest point of his character, the seemingly harmless indecision may be the biggest pit of Ming Lan's future life.

When his cousin harassed Ming Lan, Hong Wen didn't know what to do, so he could only be indifferent.

I obviously like Ming Lan in my heart, but I'm going to take my cousin as my concubine.

This cousin Cao was born to her mother-in-law's only sister. As you can imagine, after marriage, her mother-in-law and she must be on the same side, and Ming Lan will only be isolated.

He has a bad temper in Hong Wen. In the end, he is either a swing or a double-sided adhesive.

To make matters worse, like Ming Lan's father Yi Sheng, he favored my concubine, listened to gossip and lived like a cowardly fool all his life.

As noble as Ming Lan, how would you feel?

Leave the wrong to meet the right.

This sentence is perfect for you and Gu.

I once talked about my marriage with He.

Gu Yeting has a headache, Zhu Manniang.

Zhu Manniang threatened Gu with her son and tried to write herself into the family tree. As a result, she was cheated by Ming Lan, only to find that her son Chang Gang had died. Ming Lan has no virgin, so slapping her in the past is a trap to feel avenged.

Even without Zhu Manniang, Gu is not a shining hero.

He is unpopular at home, and he is a prodigal son who has been carrying the pot all the year round; He has a bad reputation outside and is a frequent visitor to Chu Museum.

However, Gu Yeting is probably the person who knows Ming Lan best and loves Ming Lan most besides his grandmother.

His birth mother died unjustly and he was ostracized at home. He knows all about what happened to Ming Lan.

He likes Ming Lan, but he won't tell the world like Qi Heng. He wants people all over the world to know that this will increase the pressure on Ming Lan.

He knows that the most important thing for a girl is her innocent reputation.

Worried about Ming Lan's safety, he followed at a distance to protect her.

Is there a picture like Xiao Bei silently escorting Chen Nian in the movie Young Me?

No matter what age, as long as you really love someone, you will always think of her, not to vent yourself, but for the peace of the other person.

He knew that marrying Ming Lan would meet with resistance, so he went into battle, killed the enemy and begged the emperor to marry him.

The person who really loves you may not be good at rhetoric, but he will try his best to solve the obstacles between them at all costs.

Before marriage, Gu said, Who am I among men and who are you among women?

After the marriage, he completely fulfilled his promise.

On my wedding night, when I heard Ming Lan say that I was hungry, I immediately went out to buy food for my daughter-in-law-I just wanted to let everyone know that my wife could eat anything she wanted.

In order to make Ming Lan comfortable, he slept as long as he wanted in the morning, so he simply separated himself and moved out of Hou Fu.

Get up early and draw slices in front of the mirror, and drink tea and read books at night.

The lives of these two people are simply a large-scale dog food distribution scene.

Without the hardships behind, the couple's life would be easy and satisfactory enough.

But with the hardships of those narrow escapes, we saw the best of love.

Even in the happiest moment, Ming Lan has not forgotten that "no one is the backer of anyone". "If you want to take an official as your boss, you must be conscientious and always count on him. One day he will feel a heavy burden."

She lives a transparent life, first, because her grandmother carefully cultivated her, and second, because she loves reading.

Ming Lan's study is not for the name of "talented woman", nor is it limited to superficial efforts such as calligraphy and poetry.

Among the sisters, Moran, who is regarded as a talented woman, takes reading as a bargaining chip to match her marriage. She is bent on being a big lady in Plutocratic family just to wash her unmarried status.

On the other hand, Ming Lan has studied the Warring States Policy, Shu Wei and Zi Tongzhi Sword ... She spends time learning how to read books, store contracts and even servants' contracts, and she is also interested in research.

Ming Lan learns to reason and solve problems. By the way, she also has the necessary skills to be a mistress.

Life goals are completely different, so they are destined to have different models.

Helping the queen to deal with the Xiao Zou incident is a good example.

The Queen's younger brother, Uncle Shen, married Zhang, the daughter of the Duke, an old British minister.

Uncle Shen's wife Zou died to save the queen. Later, Xiao Zou, the sister of his deceased wife, was taken as his concubine, sheltered by his sister, and was "appointed by the king" as a "concubine". Therefore, he was spoiled and arrogant, often humiliating his wife Zhang, and even led to Zhang's premature birth and almost lost his life.

The infighting caused a fierce dispute between the old and new ministers.

The queen was at a loss and asked Ming Lan.

Ming Lan as cool as a cucumber, told the queen about Cao Cao's haircut and Tang Daizong's accusation against her daughter.

Hearing this, the queen immediately took off her coat and makeup, took off the biggest pearl on the rockhopper, and sent the personal female officer to the British mansion to make amends.

Then personally apologize to the emperor and solve the contradiction between the old ministers;

Then accompany the emperor to make amends with the queen mother, so that the queen mother will lose the opportunity to be held accountable.

Reading widely and using it for one's own use enabled Ming Lan to help the Queen out of trouble.

Familiar with allusions, she can see the world more clearly, and when Gu Er is "in trouble" and fighting alone, she can recover her confidence.

Ming Lan once advised grandpa: "If we look back all our lives, we will not be able to live in this life."

Don't remonstrate with the past, but you can still pursue the future.

Letting go and cherishing may be difficult to do, but it is a magic weapon to get happiness in life.

I hope you and I can be as transparent as Ming Lan, meet all the lovers, and all our hopes will come true.