Marriage. Come in and talk.

I have seen such a case once. You have no mental control over your wife. That's why she said so. Respect her, change yourself, and let her feel your inner change. There is still a chance. You should find her as soon as possible. Otherwise, no matter how big the outside world is, she will meet people who care about her at any time. Once a woman feels that someone is kind to her, she will take root and sprout, which is hard to recover. I hope to adopt.