One year after graduation, everything is the best arrangement.

I returned to Wuhan one year after graduation by taking the opportunity of company training. After two weeks of training, I returned to Xi and started my busy work. But I always feel that something is missing. At this juncture of graduation year, I have some feelings and thoughts. I wanted to speak and write, so I turned on the computer and typed this paragraph.

When I thought of this topic, I was sitting in front of the French window in waiting room B2 of Wuhan Railway Station. I was in a daze with a complicated mood and was attracted by a girl standing in front of the window taking pictures. With her movements, I looked out of the window and saw parallel or crossed tracks. The whistle sounded, the outbound train slowly left, and the inbound train slowly stopped. People come and go, cars come and go, and I look a little stunned. Suddenly I found that the scenery outside the window was beautiful, and the clouds in my heart gradually dissipated and became clear.

Lower your head, open WeChat and see a picture sent by 33 people in your circle of friends. Ugly handwriting (I don't know if she wrote it herself, but it's not very good anyway, so I think so), which says "Everything is the best arrangement". I will write a comment with a smile: "Meeting you is also the best arrangement".

Looking up and looking around, I recall this time a year ago, in this waiting room, I went to work with expectation and anxiety. And a year later, I will start a new journey from here. It's all a coincidence, but it's beautiful. This is the best arrangement.

one

First of all, I want to talk about my work in the past year. After all, I'm here for training, so I'd better get down to business. A month ago, I received a notice to attend the BIM advanced class training in Wuhan, and I was in a panic (please note that the word I used was panic). Friends who know me know that my expansion in the professional field outside the classroom in college is just a structural design competition that I am very interested in (here I named Mr. Bao and Shu Wei, held them in my lap and won the provincial prize). The understanding of BIM is limited to three words: architecture, information and modeling.

At the beginning of March, the management department organized an introductory training, which made me understand the basic operation of Revit and Navisworks, and got a superficial understanding of BIM. At the end of May, the company sent a notice of BIM competition, and after hearing that our project was going to participate, I was very flustered (ah, forgive me for using the word panic again). So I used the simple operation I learned in the training to draw the structural model of the whole project (single super high-rise building, 1 654,38+0,000 square meters) for five days before and after the Dragon Boat Festival, without sleeping (three nights, lying in the chair in the conference room for two or three hours after midnight), turning over books and watching teaching videos. In this way, from zero to one, from scratch, I learned how to model Revit.

It's no use panicking. It's time to come. I bought the information that may be used for training, bought a new computer and prepared to go to Wuhan for training. Two weeks of training didn't disappoint me. The intense curriculum arrangement, taking classes during the day and doing my homework at night have taught me a lot, which is very worthwhile. New fields, new knowledge and new ideas are slowly knocking on a new door. Of course, the ignorant are fearless, and the bigger the circle, the more unknowns there are. A series of negative cognition is another story, let's not talk about it for the time being.

Looking back, one year's work was very colorful. Experienced two projects, internship safety post and technical post, managing the site, making plans, making data, doing experiments, making reports and so on. I have many jobs and participated in several cultural and sports activities, such as tug-of-war, running, playing ball, directing, hosting, giving speeches, writing plays, writing reports and so on. I can't remember how many times I worked overtime or stayed up all night. But after a year, I can obviously feel that I have changed a lot and grown a lot, although I can't say what the specific changes are.

In this year, I washed away the lead, faded my youth, gave up the glitz, took root in the construction line, lowered my head, raised my feet, and moved forward step by step, which made me have an unprecedented transformation, taught me love and responsibility, and learned to share and take responsibility. Half a year ago, I thought a lot about choosing, accepting and changing. In fact, I have always been an independent and brave person. I choose Civil Engineering, Wuhan University and China Construction Third Bureau, all of which follow my heart and do what I like. The change of this year, the corporate culture of China Construction Third Bureau, striving for the first, three spirits and three responsibilities have gradually been integrated into their bones and blood.

My work is not always smooth sailing, and I don't always drink chicken blood and chicken soup. Practically speaking, the office and living conditions of the project are not good. The construction site is narrow, the office is crowded and the office environment is noisy. There is no standard accommodation, the dormitory space is limited, and bunk beds are used (which has been improved now). In the face of the objective environment, I have complained, but after spitting, I still have to face the reality. If I can't change the environment, I will change myself and choose to accept it (later I didn't live in a dormitory and rented a house with my sister).

Work on the construction site can easily get boring. When I was confused at work and didn't know what to do, I forced myself to read the instructions, follow the company's instructions and adopt the catalogue one by one. Although I forget it after reading it, this process can make my heart sink. A year ago, I always felt that I didn't learn solid professional knowledge in college and I was not confident in my professional ability. But now, I have confidence in myself.

Usually, I always joke that with the money to sell cabbage, I have the heart to sell white powder (in the words of the three bureaus, I have the salary of five posts and the heart of three posts). We just entered the workplace, eager for independence and responsibility, but helpless ability is not worthy of our dreams. All kinds of contradictions, all kinds of confusion, all kinds of discomfort, we have to adapt and break through ourselves. Recognize the environment, recognize yourself, choose, accept, change and grow.

Fortunately, one year after graduation, I didn't become what I didn't like. Generally speaking, when I grow up, I know how to share and take responsibility, and learn love and responsibility. When sharing the first salary with relatives, parents, grandfather and sister; When sharing my thoughts and gains with friends who need them most; When you can donate the money you earn to people in need; When your work is needed and recognized by society and others; When you create the future with your own hands … don't mention how happy you are.

two

Every time I talk about going to Wuhan, I use the verb "Hui", and its meaning is probably understood by my friends (name the people who told me to come back to yoga to see cherry blossoms here). The time to go back to Wuhan for training is very special and appropriate. At the right time, I met many suitable people (unfortunately, some didn't), and then I want to talk about some people I met this time.

The first one must say Mr. Xiao, the most grateful person in the university (I may have spoken the voice of my classmates in the whole grade, haha). After I arrived in Wuhan, I made an appointment with Mr. Xiao, Mr. Bao, Mr. Shaolin, Ms. Xue and Mr. Xue. They gave me a lot of support and help in the university. It is very kind to meet and chat. I have the impression that Mr. Xiao hasn't given me any advice since my internship in Inner Mongolia in Grade Two. In my later work, she trusted me and supported me. In my junior year, I partnered with Zhiguo (here @ Zhiguo). She trusts us very much and likes to tease us the most. In my senior year, I retired from the Youth League Committee and wanted to do something for my classmates. Teacher Xiao also recommended me as the director of the Committee, and I got my wish. In private, the students secretly called Mr Xiao "Ma Xian". I really think "Ma Xian" is the patron saint of our university for four years.

In my impression, Secretary Xie has always been a pragmatic, meticulous and extremely serious teacher. On this visit, I was surprised that he talked to me about my dreams and quoted the classic words of Lei Jun's alumni-"Dreams still have to be there." Secretary Xie shared with me the good development trend of the college, asked me about my own work and the work of some people in the same grade, and told me some methods and skills of being a man and doing things. Unfortunately, because he was going on a business trip, we only talked for half an hour, but what he said inspired me a lot.

Besides, Sister Shu. In fact, I got to know Shu Jie relatively late. My first impression of her was what 33 told me. The original words were probably "My sister said, is Chen Min the handsome boy?" At that time, I laughed for a long time and talked for two years. Sister Shu is a special class teacher, and one of the few class teachers who can care about everyone in college and worry after graduation. Some time ago, she wrote a long article, 27 16 words, entitled "If we understand that everything that happens to us is designed by God and its purpose is to guide us to holiness, then we will always be invincible", encouraging everyone to get out of confusion and confusion. I was lucky enough to read it, and it was very useful. Sister Shu gave me a lot of help and support when I was looking for a job, but it's a pity that this good class teacher who is hard to find with lanterns belongs to someone else's family, haha.

Let's talk about prosperity and saving flowers first. To say boom, I want to laugh a little, this warm man who is so kind to others (note that the pronunciation of warm man is Lu' an, three tones). When I said I was going back to Wuhan, he was at home, took an early rest and came to see me at school. Coincidentally, on his way back to school from fujiapo, he met a senior who helped me carry my suitcase to Wuhan Station, just when I arrived at the station to take me to school (but not so coincidentally, I suspect that he came to pick me up on purpose, and he may have a crush on me). Boom brought two melons from home, saying they were picked from a neighbor's field (probably stolen, haha). We ate one on the road, rode a yellow car to cherry blossoms all the way and gave the other one to Huasheng who worked overtime (I hate to say this, but I have to say that Huasheng's current temperament teaches the director Fan Er). Later, the three of us got together again. At the steakhouse where we went to eat at different times last year, we talked about the closing of the store, turned around and talked about too many things (I can't remember it anyway, but I still want to say that the meeting was very successful and we reached an understanding on the topic of XX), looking forward to our next meeting.

Look at 33 mainly because of luck, this future female doctor and scientist. I was going to go back to Wuhan at the weekend, but when I went to ask for leave, the little boss said that I would go back early while the big boss was away, so we would have a chance to meet (I didn't expect to meet at first, so I made an appointment with Shu Jie and 33 to have dinner in the store last year, but I missed it by the way, and the result was in vain). We also talked a lot about the student work we did together and the changes and growth that the student work brought to us.

When it comes to student work, I have to say that it is the Youth League Committee of the College. I sent a photo of the last six sessions in my circle of friends, actually more than six sessions. I feel very lucky. Shi Guo and I are in the 30th session, which coincides with the 30th anniversary of the establishment of the College. The scene of drinking together in the fourth canteen is vivid. At that time, we were the youngest, and we punished ourselves for being late. That was the first time I saw everyone get together so neatly. Later, this inheritance and affection continued to the present level of 15. This reunion is also very rare, just as the Shaolin brothers and Xiao Pi graduated. I hope that Senior Martial Brothers Shaolin and Xiao will take up their jobs as soon as possible, and that Senior Martial Sisters Xue and Xiao will have a smooth internship and go to their favorite companies. I hope that the beautiful women who are studying abroad and going abroad will continue to be excellent, and I hope that Friends Xiao of 15 will continue to shine and shine based on their student posts, and pass on our enthusiasm and mind to more students and serve more students.

Besides, brother Su Yan, we are too affectionate, so talk less. Su Yan is the only one of my college classmates who has been to each other's home. At his house, I ate the shrimp cooked by my uncle (the best shrimp I have ever eaten), drank the wine brewed by my uncle and listened to my uncle play the guitar and sing (I couldn't be more handsome, so my aunt may have been chased in those years, and Su Yan is absolutely hereditary). I was lucky to meet my sister-in-law this time. I have nothing to say. I just hope we can go on happily. I will definitely go when I get married.

Master Zhu in room 10 often goes to talk to him at school and asks him to say goodbye when he graduates. I went to see him this time, but I didn't expect him to recognize me. He is 60 years old and hasn't retired yet. He started working in Wuhan University from 1994 and will not retire until he is 63 years old. He said that he is old, his heart is not old, and he likes to deal with students and communicate with young people. He also asked me if my work was going well and when I would get married. I said everything was fine, and he said happily that it would be fine. I still remember when I was a freshman, my father was going to stay overnight. He warmly brought us mats and pillows and arranged accommodation.

Li Shifu, who works in the engineering department, pushed open the door and immediately called out my name. I am grateful to him, too. I remember that one night after 1 1, I had something urgent to go to Zhongnan Hospital. It rained heavily, so I couldn't get a taxi. He took me in an electric car in the rain. There was a lack of audio equipment in previous activities. Many times, Li Shifu rode a small electric car to save the scene. I like to see him every time I pass by, even if it's only for a few minutes.

Ah, there are too many people to meet. I can't list them all. I met my aunt who traveled around the world and received Sahara sand (read sa). I met condoms and Xiaoyi who worked for Wuhan Vanke (even if I saw them this morning), Afu and Xinrong, all the beautiful women in the class (others will be jealous if their names are listed too much), Hui Zhi, Xiaoyu and Xiaofeng, Mei Xin and Xintong, Daxinjie, Hanfei Feng and Shu Wei, Fan Qin, Tianyu and Zijia ... and I also have regrets.

It's hard to know each other, but it's even harder to know each other. People who know each other are good, but always comfortable. Four years of Wu Da, so many teachers and friends, you are my most unforgettable memory forever. Because of you, I won't change much when I return to Wuhan University. And this feeling, like the light, Wan Li, an old friend, has returned to the shadows.

three

The collision of different horizons and thinking will always bring some gains. From small to large, from study to work, I met many excellent people, which made me keep thinking. I can learn too much from these excellent people, so let me briefly talk about my understanding of multidimensional life.

The first dimension: width. Many people have said that the pattern of being a man should be large, and width is the pattern of a person. When entering the society for the first time, we need to let go of impetuousness, empty our minds that can't resist temptation, broaden our horizons, settle down and do what we should do, start from small things and build a big pattern from a small angle.

The second dimension: depth. There is a saying in war that strategic depth is a person's depth. Be a man and do things, look down on gains and losses, and look down on honor and disgrace. Just like a war, it is not limited to one city and one place. Personal development should be considered in the long run and stand the test of time and history.

The third dimension: thickness. Thickness lies in accumulation, and it is a person's thought that determines the thickness of life. Thought comes from knowledge learning and rich experience. No matter where you are or what you do, you should keep learning knowledge and enrich your experience. Read thousands of books, take Wan Li Road, and precipitate the thickness of life.

The fourth dimension: height. The height lies in climbing, in struggle, and is an achievement in one's career. To some extent, height is positively correlated with the first three dimensions. Give coefficients to the first three dimensions respectively. Height is their function, and this coefficient depends on persistence and struggle.

final result

When I graduated last year, the video in a tweet in my circle of friends was very popular. The title is "Graduation Year, Face the Reality Naked", which lasts for 6 minutes and 49 seconds. I interviewed some people who graduated a year ago. Everyone's one-year experience is full of bitterness, but so is * * *. No matter how bitter and tired, they are gritting their teeth and unwilling to give up. Some people are lonely, some are rebellious, some are responsible, some compete with themselves, some give themselves time, and some are pushed away by society. ...

The tweet said that the most terrible thing about graduating for one year is that everyone around you is an upgraded version, but he is still 1.0. We are more or less dissatisfied with the status quo, but fortunately, we have only graduated for one year and have the opportunity to seize the time to make ourselves more confident. Looking back on the past, you are unwilling, so face the future and go all out.

Everyone has different feelings at each stage and different things to do.

When I returned to Wuhan three months after graduation, I shared a feeling of "don't think about it, just do it". At that time, many things were confused. In the workplace, you are still an apprentice. When your eyes are full of fog and you can't see the direction clearly, just lower your head and do what you are doing. Don't think about it, just do it.

Six months after graduation, my key word is change. At this time, I have a certain understanding of my work and some vague ideas about the future. What I need to do is to change my role compared with the past. After recognizing the difference between people in the workplace and students, change yourself, adapt to the environment and do a good job.

One year after graduation, I want to talk more about growth. At this time, you are familiar with your work and can basically control it. What you need is all-round growth. Learn to read and speak, pay attention to etiquette, know how people are warm and cold, and know the hidden rules of the workplace. Knowing the world, not worldly, is growth.

Finally, may you, me and everyone be treated well by the world.

Chen Minmin

Written in Xi on the evening of July 6th, 20 17.