What personal experiences make you feel that "the poor must have something hateful" is reasonable?

A person's nature always has two sides, which is the existence of essence. Coupled with all kinds of desires throughout life, a person unconsciously embarked on the road of paranoia and has a tendency to be selfish. For this benefit, one also has unbalanced thoughts and actions about everything.

There must be something hateful about the poor. What they say is a one-sided judgment of people who have experienced in life.

What is this based on? There is no certainty and objectivity. It is just a statement between people and an expression in life.

Who will meet, who can't say clearly, but everyone stands from different angles and sees the problem from different angles. No one is right or wrong, sometimes there are mistakes in the right place, and there are also right remarks in the wrong side.

This is also caused by a person's living habits. How difficult it is to change a person, and changing yourself can only be the exact truth. People only play the role of driving and influencing, but they are not omnipotent. A person with great energy will only affect others, but never change them.

I remember when I was a child, my family was poor, and the living conditions for eating a meal of white flour were not bad, only on holidays. Usually there are only corn steamed bread and pickles, which were our snacks at that time.

Whoever eats white flour steamed bread every day has absolutely superior conditions. Remember to put a lot of water when eating noodles. There are only a few bowls of noodles in the pot, which are called noodle soup. At that time, every household had it.

It's just me and my brother at home, and my mother is a little biased. I always leave something delicious for my brother. I'm used to it. Often let my brother go, my brother will get used to it and become the focus of the family. Everything depends on him, which also makes him lazy.

When I got home, I was in trouble. My mother bought noodles, so I can't eat them until after the holiday. However, as soon as my brother saw it, he began to pretend to be sick. At that time, the children at home were sick and didn't go to the hospital because they were far from the hospital. My brother caught this and knew he wouldn't go to the hospital. As long as his mother cooks food, he will be fine. As a result, just cook some noodles and lie down and eat an egg. As a result, this indulgence will lead to long-term dependence, once the mother is ill. I cooked something delicious for my brother, and he ate it all, regardless of whether my mother ate it or not. My mother secretly said that he only gave it to me, that is, she formed her usual habit in her fucking doting. He never considers other people's feelings, only cares about himself. What others do for him is taken for granted, and he never appreciates it.

Until now, I still go my own way. I'm afraid it doesn't matter to him whatever difficulties his parents encounter. It's even difficult to eat by yourself now. Everyone said that my parents left again. Now there are only brothers and sisters, and my brother is so poor. Can I leave him alone? But he always felt that others owed him for so many years, and he didn't go to work. Anyway, as long as he is free, he will find many excuses to let him work or pretend to be ill.

If you look at him piteously, help him fix it. Sometimes he has to see what he has done to his taste. If he doesn't eat, he won't eat. He is also very picky about what he eats. After you finish eating, he will be angry if he doesn't eat, but sometimes he will feel sorry if he doesn't eat for a day.

Don't people say that the poor must hate it?

There must be something hateful about the poor. This personal experience is all the little things in life.

When you meet it, you feel regret and hatred. There are many such things around you. At that time, sometimes I had to work overtime because of busy business. At that time, your sleep quality declined, you often suffered from insomnia, and sometimes you stayed up all night.

Our unit is electrical appliances, engineering and sales department. We are the sales department. Electrical appliances have been updated quickly, and gradually changed from digital cameras to mobile phones for everyone. Moreover, there are still many functions. You can satisfy yourself as long as you need it according to your own conditions.

The market competitiveness is also great. At that time, the profit of almost a camera was only about 10 yuan, which was really meager. Many people or enterprises have slowly changed their careers. At that time, our leader was in the field, and the unit had a sales manager. If he looks at you, you won't think he is looking at you, but staring at other places. That's such a person. If the leader has pity on him, put him in the unit, and people can bear hardships.

When this person's leader comes, he can show himself well. When the leader leaves, he pretends to be poor. Today, he has a stomachache and needs infusion. Tomorrow he has something at home, so we will watch him and keep accommodating him. This is not an exaggeration. The more you do this, the better he feels and gradually becomes a habit. The leader is back, full of energy. Not to mention, he also reported to the leader that everyone's work was not good.

You said that such a person was pitiful for a long time and finally gave you a knife. Do you feel hateful? Is there anything hateful about this poor man?

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Everyone will meet such people, which once made people feel very pitiful and hateful. In the future, you should stay away from such people or things. What happens to a person is self-inflicted. What we think of as pity is unnecessary, and everything is over. I hope everyone is healthy, safe, happy and go their own way.

Tell me about my father-in-law: I fell in love with my wife and got married. My father-in-law didn't agree and didn't even attend the wedding. My parents-in-law and I work in the same state-owned enterprise and live not far away. My son, the grandson, has never stayed at my grandparents' house for one night. My husband and wife work shifts and are young. It's really hard to take care of children.

My father-in-law looks down on me as a son-in-law in his bones. His father-in-law is a small purchasing leader and a foreman. He never gives me a pack of cigarettes because others can't finish them.

My parents-in-law have two children and a daughter. Since I got married, I have been spending the New Year at my parents-in-law's house. I bought all the food, paid for it and had to burn it. So, it's been more than twenty years. My brother-in-law went to visit his parents, that is, my father-in-law. He ate and lived in my house. My brother-in-law works as a teacher in Shanghai and visits his father during the winter and summer vacations. He ate and lived in my house for a month, and my father-in-law also ate at my house, without giving a penny for living expenses.

Twenty-three years ago, my mother-in-law left home and became a nun with her pension. My father-in-law told me that he had a retirement salary. He lived with me for seventeen years and never gave me any living expenses. Until June of 20 15, I bought a house for my son in Guangzhou, and my grandfather didn't give me any money. I am very angry. I have raised my father-in-law for seventeen years and spent at least one hundred thousand. My grandson bought a house, and my grandfather didn't give me a penny. After buying a house for my son, I told my wife that your father has a retirement salary and two sons, so don't come to my house for dinner in the future. When your brother comes back from Shanghai and your brother comes back to see his father, don't eat and live in my house.

20 16 years, my wife retired, my mother-in-law became a nun, and my father-in-law lived alone at the age of 78. I told my wife that you should take care of dad, wash clothes, buy food and cook, which means nanny. Take good care of your father, we will contribute, and your brother will give you living expenses. Brother-in-law can't tell. My grandfather pointed to my forehead and said, I want money. I want his money ... just to take care of his living expenses and my daughter's. I can't be a nanny and get paid, and my brother-in-law doesn't care about anything. As a result, my father-in-law ate and lived alone. ...

In 20 16, my brother-in-law drove and took my father-in-law and my wife to his house for a trip. My brother-in-law gave birth to a child, and my parents-in-law took care of him until he went to college and then lived with him. My brother-in-law's father-in-law is crazy and can't walk. My brother-in-law's mother-in-law has cancer. The father-in-law took his brother-in-law and daughter to travel to the place where his youngest son lived, instead of visiting his in-laws. Even when he learned that his friend was ill, his neighbors for many years would visit him. No humanity.

Last year, my father-in-law had a cerebral infarction and dementia in June and February of 5438. In July this year, he had another cerebral infarction.

My daughter-in-law never visits her father-in-law, and neither do I.

The father-in-law and mother-in-law are at odds, the mother-in-law runs away from home, and the three children are at odds with her husband. Strange bedfellows is just too old to get a divorce ... The main responsibility lies with my father-in-law. Among my father-in-law and his three children, only my parents, brothers and sisters are relatives, and the others are outsiders.

Many people advised me to be nice to my father-in-law. People are old and don't care.

Bad people will not become good people when they are old. Bad guys are always bad guys, farmers and snakes. Now the Japanese didn't kill my father or do anything bad to me, but I think the Japanese are very bad. This is the enemy of the country.

People cannot forget history.

People should stick to principles.

No bottom line, no principled understanding, is the greatest evil.

Alas, now my daughter-in-law is pregnant for three months and won't go home in Guangzhou. She can't cook and eat takeout every day. In-laws are in poor health, diabetes, hypertension, and B gland was hospitalized some time ago. My mother went to take care of her daughter, and she was worried at both ends. The responsibility for handling this matter lies with me. According to custom, this is of course the mother-in-law's business, but my father-in-law has a cerebral infarction and Alzheimer's disease. I said to my wife: I don't care about your father. You three brothers and sisters should discuss it carefully, arrange your father properly, get your brother's understanding and take good care of your daughter-in-law. Daughter-in-law's belly is the next generation and the continuation of our life. We should take good care of it and remember it all our lives. If the fetus is malnourished because of malnutrition, it will endanger the child's life and the son's life. My wife wouldn't listen and said, there is only one father. If my father dies, it won't happen again. I have to be filial and take moral kidnapping. Can I say I won't care? The son can't say that he can't take care of his grandfather ... three brothers and sisters, not just a daughter.

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Conclusion: The above description is the reason why my father-in-law made an enemy. His father-in-law's family is only related by blood, but to his parents, brothers and sisters, others are outsiders.

Now my father-in-law has a cerebral infarction and has become Alzheimer's disease. As a son-in-law, I don't care or ask.

On summer nights, people in the community like to sit on the fitness Little Square. The children are running and jumping, and the adults are talking and laughing. At this time of day, there is a harmonious and happy atmosphere here.

However, a sharp cry suddenly came from upstairs, breaking the peace of summer, and then pots and pans, watermelons and apples, beer bottles, brooms and dustpans fell from the sky. ...

Needless to say, even the third floor of Unit 4 will make my daughter in her thirties suffer from mental illness again. After a while, a big man stormed out of the unit building and disappeared from people's sight at the same speed as the wind.

The mentally ill woman is in her thirties. Originally, her family was very happy. Her parents are almost 70 years old. Before she retired, her mother was a chemist in a pharmaceutical group and her father was a researcher in a research institute. And the man graduated from Tsinghua, one of the few people in their time. That's right, Tsinghua University! They only have an only child. In the dormitory of this factory, it is reasonable to say that their family should be enviable, but their life has become extremely miserable because their only daughter suffered from schizophrenia when she was less than 20 years old!

Looking at a manic psychopath, the couple have no hope and no hope. The cocky primitive life is not only deeply inferior, but also deeply chaotic. The family is often smashed by patients, two people are often injured, and occasionally the injured innocent people have to be compensated! Look at someone else's daughter. She's over forty. The old couple can enjoy their daughter's blessing, travel and take a bath. Even if you are tired for your daughter, you can enjoy family happiness. But they didn't, just nervous and sleepless nights!

It's really pitiful to see the present situation of this family. But knowing the reason makes people unable to sympathize!

All this is caused by the mistress of this family!

Although the hostess was ordinary when she was young, she was an only child. My father is also a unit leader, close to the advantage. After graduating from high school, the woman just entered the factory research institute that everyone yearns for and became a chemist. Then the woman will not marry those who graduated from non-key universities, not 1.80 meters. In this way, the woman waited until she was in her thirties, and then waited for an excellent man who met the requirements. The man graduated from Tsinghua,1.82m.. The fly in the ointment is that my family is in the countryside and I am introverted! This is not a problem. The woman's father helped solve the house, and then the son-in-law came to the door.

Although the hostess was an older woman and was pregnant when she got married, it should have been a happy event, but the hostess said that the man did not quit smoking and did it! The next one said that the host drank it and came again. I was ready this time, but the child didn't come. The woman began to seek medical advice and medicine, praying to God and worshiping Buddha, and finally got pregnant at the age of 35. This pregnancy, I put the baby at home. Anyway, my father gave me a shelter from the wind and rain. When the baby was about to be born, there was no suitable hospital in such a big Shenyang, so she went to the hospital where aunt Anshan was born. As a result, the baby is a girl. It was a coincidence that she was born, and the power went out for a while at the critical moment, so that the baby was still pulled back to Shenyang for rescue. The woman's mother came not far from Wan Li to take care of her, but she abandoned her mother-in-law in the countryside and broke up in discord. The hostess's mother has a heart attack and can't take care of it. The hostess couldn't bear the pain, so she sent her children to relatives for foster care.

When the children can be sent back from kindergarten, I found that children often pee in their pants without saying hello. When I was old, I found my child stupid. After school, the child has not changed. I beat the wolf in class!

The hostess didn't believe the child's intelligence was so ordinary, so she sent the child to another relative's house for adoption, because that relative was a key primary school teacher!

But none of this can change a girl's IQ. When I was in middle school, I didn't want to say that key middle schools didn't do well. Even the most ordinary middle school advised me to drop out of school. Just come and get my diploma then.

As a result, the hostess spent a lot of money to send her children to a closed private school. As a result, she never graduated. She was told that her daughter was bullied and pregnant! The school can't ask, I hope parents will cooperate!

The hostess didn't wait for the child to come home. On the way, I dragged my child to the police station and began to beat, scold and extort confessions in front of the police, wondering who made the crime. As a result, the child suddenly collapsed and went crazy on the spot …

That year, the girl 16 years old. Because of fear of shame, the hostess did not send her children to formal treatment, so she had to retire early and look after them at home. Once in a while, when the child gets better, the hostess takes her to do the cleaning. Wear a helmet and wrestle with children when you are sick!

The father of the child finally couldn't bear it, and ran away before he retired! Occasionally, if you can't let go, you can't say three words, and the family becomes a three-person mixed fight. In the end, that person will be defeated and flee. Gradually, the host did not appear! The rest of the hostess looked at the girls in the yard getting married one by one!

If she is not so melodramatic, the first child will stay. If she is not so melodramatic, give birth to a child in Shenyang. If she is not so melodramatic, the child will be brought up by her grandmother. If she is not so melodramatic and recognizes ordinary children, can this be rewritten together? ...

This is: the poor must have something hateful!