What if the child is weak and easy to be bullied?

(If you just want to know about parents and children, you can skip to the end. )

You can show or talk to your child about the following:

Accept:

People with weak personalities are unlikely to be strong, and getting along with others will not cause pressure. Many cowardly people are easy-going and easy to get along with.

Analysis:

Family education is too harsh, which produces a cowardly character in this demanding and criticized environment. Insufficient congenital conditions, physical illness, short stature, and some will lead to self-confidence. Or being bullied and isolated, without timely emotional counseling, will also cause the characteristics of cowardice and inferiority.

Cowardly people give priority to other people's feelings, afraid of offending others and making them angry.

Cowardly personality will be manifested in self-doubt, feeling that they are not good enough and that others are better than themselves.

Attitude:

Don't look down on cowards and don't hit them. They also need love and encouragement very much. Give them courage and make them more confident.

Cowardice can be cowardice in character, but it can also be very capable. Everyone is equal, and cowards have their own way of life, not only the strong can survive. If everyone is strong, the world will become unbalanced and unsustainable.

Remember, you can lose your temper and be weak, but you must have principles and your own bottom line. You don't have to lose your temper in small things. When it threatens your relatives or concerns your dignity, you should be tough.

Method:

Enhance self-confidence by exercising.

Experience more things, try more, and interact with more people.

Do what you are good at and see your ability.

Learn to be independent.

Take part in more group activities and exercise your courage.

Learn from the strong.

Parenting education:

1. Learn to let go and cultivate children's independent personality.

2. Don't be too strong.

3. Manage your emotions.

4. Encourage more, don't beat and scold.

5. Take part in outdoor activities and summer camps, and take more interest classes.

6. Always give support and love to children when they need it.