If you treat your wife badly, everything will go wrong丨Master Dong said

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Many people say that if I don’t get rich, I will be unlucky.

I said: "You have lost Sanhe."

He said: "What is Sanhe?"

I said: "The first family If you are not harmonious, everything will be ruined; secondly, harmony will bring wealth, and you are not harmonious now, so you have no wealth; thirdly, if harmony is precious, your noble heart will be lost if you are not harmonious."

He thought, It's true. If you can't make a fortune or meet a noble person, it's all because of the lack of harmony.

The discord in the family does not lie with the parents, but with the husband and wife.

I have met many famous people, including some celebrities. They became famous after singing a song, but why did they not become famous again later? I told him that the waistband of his pants was too loose, singing songs to attract some fans, sleeping with others, and not knowing how to keep oneself clean was also called disharmony.

Some people are very talented, but their careers are not prosperous, all because of their wives. I remember I said that everything went wrong because of my wife. Unfortunately, many people still don’t understand.

Otherwise, I would be very proud until now. I am an illiterate, but my wife has made me so prosperous. There is a reason. I dare not say that we have achieved all three, but we are working hard. Live like lovers, treat each other like guests, and have a relationship like close friends.

Other people say that couples have nothing to say, but we talk a lot. I'm on a business trip and we can both talk on the phone. When a person is gone, the heart is still there, and when the person is alive, the heart is still there. You have to let her feel this way. This is in line with the principle of yin and yang, which is the source of all things.

Many people lose in this place, lose their luck in this place, lose their official positions in this place, and go bankrupt in this place. Therefore, the discord and distrust between husband and wife is very terrible. of.

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In the Five Elements theory, men control the fire level in the south, and women control the water level in the north. The wood position in the east is for the eldest son and daughter, the metal position in the west is for the youngest son and daughter, and the earth position in the center is for the four old people.

If the husband and wife are harmonious and can combine water and fire, for example, put a pot on the fire to boil water, the fire will be strong because of the water, and the water will be warm because of the fire, the family will be very happy. Otherwise, if a couple quarrels, water and fire will counteract each other. If the water goes directly to the fire level in the south, the fire will be extinguished; if the fire goes directly to the water level in the north, the water will burn out, and both parties will suffer.

When the fire reaches the water level in the north, the water will run to the wood position in the east to avoid the fire, which will kill the eldest son and daughter, which can be fatal.

When the water level rushes to the fire position in the south, the fire will run to the gold position in the west to avoid water. When metal encounters fire, it turns into water. The gold position in the west is the second son and second daughter, and the youngest son and The younger daughter will become seriously ill and die.

When a husband and wife are in conflict with each other, and the parents are worried about their children quarreling and become uneasy, the central soil position where they are located will be directly suppressed. If the soil position is uneasy, the family will break up.

The restraint of the five elements is different from the restraint of numerology, and is caused by human beings.

Originally, water can grow with the help of earth, and fire can grow with the help of earth. The prosperous energy goes to the east, and the eldest son and eldest daughter in the east are prosperous. You see, some family bosses are very good and wealthy, go to school very well, and do very well in business. It must be the three positions of fire, water and earth, which are directly caused by the exaltation of the east wood position.

If the water runs alone to the eastern wood position and the water is too strong, the wood will be drowned by the water. I often say that the sea water is very strong, but there is not a single piece of wood in the sea.

However, wood cannot live without water. It also needs soil to absorb water components so that wood can grow. If wood wants to flourish, be burned into charcoal, and become a pillar, it must be burned by fire.

The fire must be on the earth to burn the wood, so that the wood can flourish. Fire cannot be made in the air. In addition, the seeds of fire must come from wood.

Among the five elements, the fire level in the south and the water level in the north, that is, the two positions of husband and wife, are the main elements among the five elements. They must be coordinated to develop, so that the five elements of the family can be pushed forward; if the husband and wife are restrained, then the Yin and Yang are in conflict, the family declines, and the children have nowhere to hide.

Yin and Yang are the fundamentals. If you often quarrel and complain and blame each other, the upper will affect the four old people in the earth position in the center, the eldest son and daughter in the wood position will be affected in the east, and the youngest sons and daughters in the west will also be uneasy, fearing that their parents will divorce.

As long as there is a gram of yin and yang, the central earth position will be moved. The wood position in the east and the gold position in the west will also be shaken. If everything goes wrong, it can kill yourself if it is serious. Many families have bad luck because of the presence of Ke bit.