Why are all mother-in-law unreasonable?

Why are all mother-in-law unreasonable?

Not all, but unreasonable mother-in-law mainly has these manifestations:

1. Mother-in-law has a strong personality and wants to master the family power.

In a family, if the mother-in-law is a strong person and has a strong desire to control family power, then she and her daughter-in-law will not get along well.

A mother-in-law with a strong personality will arrange everything at home and want to control the power at home in her own hands. As long as there is something beyond her control, she will feel insecure.

If the husband is Ma Baonan, he will listen to his mother and do everything with her, then you have no right to speak at home, because everything you say will be rejected.

The husband should be the most important balancer to maintain the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but he is regarded as a heavy weight by his mother.

If you meet a weak daughter-in-law, you may be able to tolerate a strong mother-in-law. But if the daughter-in-law is also a powerful figure, then this family will definitely fly like a chicken and jump like a dog, and there will be no peace.

2, traditional thinking, to interfere in everything at home.

It is said that there is a generation gap at the age of three, a generation gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and several generation gaps. Because of the different growth environment and education level, the vision and ability to accept new things are completely different.

At home, I am most afraid of having a mother-in-law who is old-fashioned and imprisoned by traditional thoughts and education.

They are usually influenced by their mother-in-law. When they go from daughter-in-law to mother-in-law, they will pass on their ideas and education to their daughter-in-law, just as traditional ideas are passed down from generation to generation.

Mother-in-law, traditional and conservative, will use decades of experience as a daughter-in-law to educate her daughter-in-law, will be opinionated, and will interfere with her thoughts and things.

At present, women are no longer brought up by traditional ideas, but women with independent thoughts and personalities. They can't agree with their mother-in-law's backward and conservative thoughts, and they will also have contradictions and conflicts with her because of her mother-in-law's forced intervention.

3. Mother-in-law who is always looking for trouble and can direct and play herself.

In some families, the mother-in-law thinks that her son will be lost after her daughter-in-law appears, and she has a strong sense of loss. She felt that her daughter-in-law had robbed her son, and she was even jealous because her son was kind to her daughter-in-law.

Sometimes, in order to compete with their daughter-in-law for favor and gain their son's attention and concern, they will also create some troubles themselves, causing contradictions and conflicts between their son and daughter-in-law.

But in fact, the daughter-in-law didn't do anything wrong at all, just because her mother-in-law directed and acted, causing much ado about nothing, which caused disharmony in the whole family.

Mother-in-law looked at her daughter-in-law who was wronged because of herself, but she was very happy, because her purpose was achieved, that is, to prove that she is the most important in this family and the first in her son's heart.

When choosing a partner, we should not only look at a man's own personality, but also look at his family education and the quality and personality of his parents.