What are the incomprehensible marriage customs?

1. Aunt and sister-in-law can't see the bride off when she leaves home.

In many rural areas, when the bride leaves home, her aunt and sister-in-law cannot see her off. Because "Gu" and "Lonely" have the same pronunciation, and "Sister-in-law" and "Sweep" have the same pronunciation, it is unlucky for the couple to bid farewell to their relatives. Although this statement is groundless, people themselves will be careful to avoid it.

Step 2 be happy

Rural areas pay more attention to the choice of "auspicious day", and marriage will choose a good day. This often happens when someone else is getting married, which is called "Xi rushes to Xi". I think this will offset each other's blessings. At this time, I will throw a small object such as a red handkerchief ornament or a coin at each other, and some places will set off firecrackers. Ask the old people in the village to know that this is mutual congratulations.

3. Pregnant women don't attend the wedding

In rural areas, pregnant women are generally forbidden to attend weddings, and even in some places there is a saying that "the bride will not be successful in her life when she meets her pregnant mother". In fact, this statement is for the sake of pregnant women The wedding scene is chaotic, and it is dangerous to be afraid of pregnant women not paying attention. In addition, children should try to restrain themselves when they get married, and it is also considered unlucky to cry at other people's weddings.

4. Go back to the door

On the third day after marriage, the bride and groom return to their parents' home, commonly known as "returning to the door", but they are not allowed to spend the night at their parents' home, and they will return to their in-laws' home on the same day.

Things to prepare for marriage

The groom should prepare:

Fu-catching coins (used when taking them to the woman's house to pick up the bride) are generally prepared for 200 yuan -300 yuan 50 points. For the money for pressing the bed, prepare four red envelopes, each of which can put 20 yuan, which means slow and steady. Small red envelopes are for girls sitting on the bed and friends and relatives standing outside the door. The general number is around 40. Each red envelope can be put into the scratch lottery or RMB 1 yuan in the red envelopes of 2 yuan, 6 yuan and 8 yuan, thus achieving the effect of setting off the atmosphere at the scene.

According to tradition, the man also needs to prepare: the meat (four ribs with skin), four vermicelli, four pairs of chopsticks and four green onions sent by his mother are wrapped in red paper, and half of them are left when the woman gets married and taken back. 8 It is not recommended to hold fireworks during the ceremony (4 when getting off outside the hotel). Red dates, peanuts, longan and lotus seeds are placed on the bed of the new house, which means early birth.

The bride should prepare:

Prepare a red handkerchief. In order to make the wedding of the couple go smoothly, we will also give the following tips on the items that the couple may need to use on the wedding day:

Brides and bridesmaids can prepare:

Snacks and water, small mirrors, straws, painkillers, digestive AIDS, spare stockings, hair styling spray, lipstick, foundation, mobile phone and spare, red envelopes, safety pins, nail polish, eye drops, spare contact lenses and care products, spare jewelry, hair clips, oil-absorbing paper, mouthwash, breath freshener, dental floss, contact list of wedding planners, sewing bag and scissors, maker.

The groom and the best man can prepare:

Spare shirts, spare bow ties or ties, spare socks, shoeshine tools, spare shoelaces, medical gauze, handkerchiefs, paper towels, razors and shaving liquid, nail clippers, spare cuff links and buttons, watches, mobile phones and spare batteries.