"Breaking up every year, urging marriage every year." After 10 years of dating, why didn't Du Haitao marry her?

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Editor | Chaofang

On February 5, 2022, netizens suddenly discovered the "careful plan" of Du Haitao and Shen Mengchen.

Today is the fifth day of the Lunar New Year. Shen Mengchen posted a video online. In the video, she transformed into a "eating and broadcasting blogger" and shared the "food" of her hometown with netizens.

Some sharp-eyed netizens discovered that Du Haitao, who was wearing a white down jacket, was eating at the same table as Shen Mengchen’s family. What was even more surprising was that Du Haitao’s parents also appeared here, and Du Haitao’s mother was still sitting next to Shen Mengchen. Next to grandma, we had the reunion dinner together.

This discovery made netizens uneasy. Everyone asked:

Why do netizens sigh like this?

As of 2022, Shen Mengchen and Du Haitao have been in a long-distance relationship for nearly 10 years. It’s no wonder that netizens are anxious for them.

Can a ten-year love have a happy ending? Today let’s talk about the story of Shen Mengchen and Du Haitao.

Shen Mengchen was born in an ordinary Tujia family in Hunan Province in 1989.

Since childhood, her parents have doted on the lively and smart Shen Mengchen. Shen Mengchen has never lacked anything that others have, so Shen Mengchen has spent a carefree childhood.

When Shen Mengchen was a child, she didn't like studying. She was a "Tujia girl" who hung out with children all day long.

At the age of 16, Shen Mengchen fell in love early and fell in love with a young brother from the Central Conservatory of Music.

This little brother had no resistance to the young and lively Shen Mengchen, and the two started a sweet campus love.

Not only did they throw shit around the school, they also vowed to each other to get married as soon as possible and be together forever.

The excited little brother took Shen Mengchen home with him on the same day as he swore to let his parents meet his daughter-in-law who was "about to marry".

Who would have known that as soon as the two entered the door, the flames of marriage were extinguished by the boy's parents with a basin of cold water.

After the boy's parents asked Shen Mengchen to sit down, they started chatting with her. They asked Shen Mengchen about her grades and what her future aspirations were.

These questions opened Shen Mengchen's mouth. From her hesitant answers, the boy's parents also learned about Shen Mengchen's poor grades, and their expressions unconsciously showed Some contempt.

This made Shen Mengchen very sad. She didn't know how she got out of the boy's house later. She only remembered the contemptuous eyes of the boy's parents, which made her feel on pins and needles.

The vow of youth could not be fulfilled. Shen Mengchen, who could not bear being looked down upon, soon broke up with her and put all her energy into her studies. Her grades quickly improved like a broken bamboo. Shen Mengchen's parents were so happy that they couldn't open their mouths from ear to ear.

In 2006, Shen Mengchen was admitted to the Performance Department of Hunan University with excellent results.

On the university campus, she still worked very hard. In 2007, she represented Hunan University in the "College Edition Challenge Host" column organized by CCTV. Her outstanding performance won the recognition of many people. recognized.

In 2008, Shen Mengchen participated in the "Star Sister Election" held by Hunan TV Station, and stood out in it, winning the Best Photogenic Award in one fell swoop.

In 2010, Shen Mengchen joined Hunan TV and made frequent appearances in variety shows such as "Good Woman", "Xiaoxiang Fashion Ceremony", "Happy Boys", etc. It can be said that it has gone smoothly and he has become a small celebrity. Famous host.

On the other side, Du Haitao’s debut was smoother.

Du Haitao was born in 1987 in Shenyang, Liaoning.

Du Haitao's family conditions are very favorable, but his academic performance has always been relatively average and he has no ambition.

After graduating from high school, he was admitted to Hunan Vocational and Technical College of Mass Media.

In 2005, Hunan Satellite TV held the "Sparkling New Anchor" to recruit the hosts of Happy Family.

Seeing that the students around him were eager to prepare, Du Haitao also participated. Unexpectedly, Du Haitao was successfully shortlisted all the way, successfully entered the finals, and finally won the A champion.

In this way, he successfully joined "Happy Camp" as the host, along with Wu Xin.

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But Shen Mengchen didn't care about this. At this moment, she met Du Haitao.

Before they met, Shen Mengchen's impression of Du Haitao was the same as everyone else's, that is, the fat and round guy on TV, who was always slow to respond and allowed others to make fun of him.

After meeting Du Haitao backstage at the recording program, Shen Mengchen discovered that in private Du Haitao was very responsive, humorous and interesting. When he was around, everyone was very happy.

Shen Mengchen, who had a good impression of Du Haitao, organized a dinner party with his friends. Du Haitao's move immediately captured Shen Mengchen's heart. During the meal, he thoughtfully helped with the cooked shrimps. Shen Mengchen is done peeling it off.

Shen Mengchen's heart was captured.

In fact, she didn't know that Du Haitao had already noticed Shen Mengchen.

The incident happened one night when the two of them were walking home together after finishing the recording of "I Am a Singer". Under the moonlight, Shen Mengchen's cheeks showed a charming luster, which made Du Haitao momentarily I was a little dazed, and my heartbeat just happened.

Afterwards, Du Haitao joked: "The main reason is that she looked not so dark that night, and her bangs were not so thick!"

Shen Mengchen, who did not know the truth, was a Absolutely powerful, she firmly believed that happiness was in her own hands, so she began to approach Du Haitao quietly, frequently making "secret glances", but unexpectedly, Du Haitao took the lead.

On June 13, 2013, Shen Mengchen’s 24th birthday, Du Haitao prepared fireworks and gifts and confessed his love to Shen Mengchen, which made Shen Mengchen scream "Wow" with joy.

At this time, Shen Mengchen was probably extremely happy. The person he liked suddenly confessed to him. Who could resist it?

Shen Mengchen, who accepted Du Haitao's confession, probably never dreamed that he would encounter countless storms in the future. He has not yet entered into marriage after being in love for 10 years. However, this is all a story for another day.

Many people who know Shen Mengchen and Du Haitao said that they would not believe that they were together if they had not seen them sitting together with their own eyes.

In 2015, Du Haitao went to the summit of "I Am a Singer" to help Shen Mengchen. He was booed by Han Hong and Huang Qishan on the stage. He was also photographed sitting in the audience. This paragraph The love affair was revealed.

However, when Du Haitao faced the infatuated Shen Mengchen, he acted very ignorant and did not even have a happy expression, making the scene very embarrassing.

Because of Du Haitao's performance, Shen Mengchen quickly fell into the spotlight. Many netizens did not believe that Shen Mengchen really liked Du Haitao, and felt that she wanted to use Du Haitao to gain attention. Suddenly, Shen Mengchen became the target of netizens' attacks. object.

Faced with such an Internet storm, Shen Mengchen was very sad, but Du Haitao remained silent and showed no reaction.

Not only that, he actually cut off contact with Shen Mengchen. No matter what Shen Mengchen said, he always looked indifferent.

Shen Mengchen endured such days for three months. During these three months, she lost weight rapidly. She was 1.72 meters tall and weighed less than 90 kilograms.

This is probably the most difficult period of time for Shen Mengchen.

But even so, she did not want to give up this relationship. In order to reconcile, she waited alone at the door of Du Haitao's house. Seeing Shen Mengchen like this, Du Haitao finally stopped responding indifferently, and the two of them Get back together.

Maybe many people don't understand what exactly Shen Mengchen likes about Du Haitao. The answer may be revealed in "Daughters' Love".

This program truly records the details of the love between Shen Mengchen and Du Haitao. Du Haitao, who has always been indifferent to Shen Mengchen, turned out to be an "all-round warm man" in private.

He would bring prepared warm water to Shen Mengchen in the early morning, and a hot water bottle to Shen Mengchen who felt uncomfortable at midnight. The two of them would go shopping, cook, and even do the ordinary things of popping pimples. The little things are so sweet that they can kill you.

Once, Du Haitao drank too much. He rarely confided in his heart, saying that his biggest wish was that everyone would treat Shen Mengchen better.

They turned love into a real-life "idol drama", making everyone watch it with gusto in front of the screen.

Many netizens instantly became fans of them, and some even said: "The biggest surprise in my life is that I can become fans of Du Haitao and Shen Mengchen."

And such heart-warming Du Haitao is probably the reason why Shen Mengchen has been in love for many years without any regrets.

In 2018, Shen Mengchen posted a wedding photo with the caption "Bride Chen". Just when everyone thought that something good was about to happen for them, Du Haitao came out to refute the rumor and said: This is Shen Mengchen's wedding photo. The way they looked on the show was not because they were going to have a wedding.

Since then, Du Haitao's actions have been even more confusing: while refuting rumors, he has frequently made the topic of marriage a hot topic.

In October 2020, Du Haitao announced that they were seriously preparing for their wedding, but now it is 2022, and their wedding has not yet been implemented.

Shen Mengchen’s marriage has become a concern among netizens, and countless people often go to Du Haitao’s social platform to urge her to get married.

Du Haitao, on the one hand, said affectionately that he would not marry Shen Mengchen, but on the other hand, he did nothing about it. Such behavior really makes people wonder, is he continuing to get married to help himself increase his popularity?

In a variety show, Du Haitao once complained that he felt that Shen Mengchen was too busy now and could not see her more than a few times a year. However, his ideal state was to hope that Shen Mengchen would become a housewife. I don’t know. Has this become the reason that prevents them from entering into marriage?

In fact, as a celebrity, you will be deeply involved in public opinion and will be very busy, but this cannot be a reason or excuse not to get married.

Du Haitao’s behavior of only falling in love but not getting married is really puzzling.

Because of this, news of their marriage or breakup was frequently exposed, and their love affair also broke everyone's heart.

During the Spring Festival of 2022, Du Haitao and his family celebrated the New Year with Shen Mengchen’s family, and it once again became a hot topic. Everyone is speculating, this time, will their good deeds really come true?

There is a saying: "Any relationship that is not for the purpose of marriage is just a hooliganism." People who truly love each other will always hope that this relationship will belong to them, and I believe that the same is true for Shen Mengchen.

The two have been in love for 10 years. For Shen Mengchen who is so devoted, Du Haitao really should give her a perfect explanation.

I hope to hear the good news about Du Haitao and Shen Mengchen in 2022, and let the public realize their dream.