Calm of the elderly: providing for the aged has nothing to do with children. You have food in your hand, but you don't panic. what do you think?

Why did you spend your old age? Raising children for old age? I have food in my hand, but my heart is not practical. Money is the last word, and with the growth of age, this view should become clearer and clearer. The 74-year-old man is calm: old-age care has nothing to do with children, and money is king.

I'm 74-year-old Zheng Xiao.

I prefer icing on the cake and giving timely help. Have a son and a daughter. The son and daughter work in other provinces. Daughter married in the city. Grandson is with his parents. My wife walks very fast. I am usually at home.

The children come back to see me in the first month or on holidays, help me with my luggage and send red envelopes. I am also very filial in my mood. This is the icing on the cake.

I was recently hospitalized and had an operation. Many old people suffer from cataracts. But I went too far. Need surgery. Or you'll be blind.

This incident made me understand a truth. Pension has nothing to do with children, but money is king. If you have food in your hand, you won't panic. Money is the last word.

I covered my eyes for a few days for the operation. People who need to take care of me because they can't see anything. In other words, just like blind people nowadays, people who walk will help you. How do blind people live?

I think this is a minor operation, children. I don't need my life. There is no need to toss and turn. Please let me handle things by myself and then go to work.

However, at this point, if a person can't see anything, he will find how troublesome and sad it is. At that time, no one knew how I came. I asked the nurse, so please don't be responsible. Because there are three meals a day, no one. I didn't go to the toilet all day because I couldn't see the way clearly. Until the evening, he said that if he came to dinner, he would take me to the bathroom. I feel so depressed for the first time in my life. It doesn't matter if you don't see it. Don't even care about your own children. If you think you can't die, you can't come.

After a week, you can take off the blindfold and see something. Thank you. I finally saw the world. Really feel how hard it is to be blind. However, through this incident, I saw the child more clearly. Not with your eyes, but with your heart.

Nowadays, young people are just icing on the cake, and they can't give charcoal in the snow. The icing on the cake is filial piety. Although not filial, but not filial. You can do anything to be reasonable. You can't see him when you need him most. See the big from the small. As long as you don't die, they will ignore you.

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If you really can only rely on them, will they spend more? I wonder if it fell out of the well. Old people should not only rely on their children, but also rely mainly on themselves. You really have no choice but to rely on children. I have food in my hand, but my heart is not practical. Money makes sense.

Children have children's world. Old people can't integrate into their world. If you always rely on him, it will bring them burden and trouble. I am in pain myself.

Old people must save their own money. You can rely on yourself when you are old. I can only reach out and wait for the child to eat. If only children were filial to their parents. How sad will it be for a child to be unfilial?