Let me tell you about the embarrassing incident of going on a blind date for the first time today. Today is a blind date. Most of the parents of both parties are here, as well as my aunt and the matc

Let me tell you about the embarrassing incident of going on a blind date for the first time today. Today is a blind date. Most of the parents of both parties are here, as well as my aunt and the matchmaker. We are all relatively strangers and we meet each other.

This situation is caused by, on the one hand, the adults in your family not knowing how to advance or retreat, and on the other hand, you, the matchmaker, have no clue.

1. If the other party refuses to eat and refuses to eat once or twice, it is polite. If the other party refuses many times, it is obvious that he really does not want to stay for dinner. In this case, even if you decide to have a banquet, you should not try to persuade him to stay. You can Your family can eat it together with the matchmaker or you can take it home so it won’t go to waste. < /p>

3. If you ask her to go out alone, if she refuses once, you must not bring it up a second time. The beginning is already bad, and if she persists at this time, she will not wink.

I don’t know if the first blind date there requires such a big scene. In fact, it’s really not necessary. For the first time, the two of you can meet in a park or a coffee shop. If the two of you feel good, let the parents get involved and have a banquet to meet and chat. If the two of you don't feel the same, why should the parents get involved? Besides, under the gaze of so many pairs of eyes, how can two people be in the mood to communicate and examine each other?