No pressure to have two daughters? After 20 years, it is useless to envy these things. You know what you have to put up with.

Guide: There is no pressure to have two daughters? After 20 years, it is useless to envy these things. You know what you have to put up with.

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Many people think that having a daughter is less stressful and having a child is more stressful, so the first child is a son. They generally don't want a second child. The first child is a daughter, and many people will ask for another one. If you have a son, you will have two children. If there is another daughter, both daughters will be fine.

It is true that the pressure of having two daughters is less, but after 20 years, for these reasons, I know myself.

1. I'm worried that I can't find my daughter.

As the saying goes, "big men should get married, big men should get married." The family belongs to the son. It's better to talk about marrying a wife. At least my son is seldom wronged, but marrying my daughter is different. I feel sorry for her. In the future, her mother-in-law will bully her. Do you have any difficult sisters? After her daughter got married, she spent most of her time at her in-laws' house. If it is better to meet a good mother-in-law or a selfish mother-in-law, she will always feel angry.

This is the case with my colleague Zhang Na. She gave birth to two daughters in succession. Her parents-in-law are patriarchal and willing to help her take care of her granddaughter, so she had to resign. It is difficult for her daughter to take home.

During the Lunar New Year, the house is empty.

During the Lunar New Year in China, many families with many daughters will feel very desolate. Because our tradition in China is that our daughter will spend the New Year at her in-laws' home after marriage, we seldom ask her to go home unless there are contradictions or special circumstances.

This is the case with my neighbor Aunt Li. She gave birth to three daughters. When she was a child, her family was very active, but then she went to school, worked, worked and finally got married. On New Year's Day and New Year's Day, the home is always empty on New Year's Eve. She is lonely and envious of her family with a son. The whole family had a good time together.

Of course, although people who have daughters regret it, the benefits of daughters are obvious: daughters will take care of their parents and be considerate of them. In the future, when they have nothing to do, they will call home and buy things. They will also help, and their parents will share this, which is unmatched by their sons. So we can only say that everyone has his own advantages, so don't envy each other too much.

Dear mom, is your son or daughter at home?

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