Couples lose their love, can marriage go on?

Love is like a fleeting trace in marriage, a love, which is a fleeting time for two people. There is both romance in dreams and desolation when you wake up. Sometimes love can consume a person's youth and pride, and sometimes it can witness two unswerving hearts.

Every marriage is a great fate. Husband and wife are unrelated strangers and know each other because they know each other. From a familiar person to a lover, from a lover to a husband and wife, every step is not easy. From the wedding day, the word "love" means a heavier sense of responsibility, and the word "I love you" means that two people will be together for life.

For many years to come, no matter how far the dream is, no matter how dull love becomes, husband and wife can live up to this fate by walking together.

A happy marriage means simply getting along, facing ups and downs, and living happily ever after.

obviously, many marriages are not that simple. Because of the lack of the word "love", many people are confused about marriage.

First, the biggest sorrow of married women is that they can only admire themselves in front of the mirror

In many marriages, when a woman is not valued by her husband and can only enjoy her beauty alone in front of the mirror, it is often the most helpless moment for a woman.

When a woman accidentally sees her face that seems to be getting old in the mirror, if the marriage is not smooth, it often reminds her of some grievances in the marriage. It's right to love someone, but it's a pity that love is gone if you live it. The rest of my life is still long, and no one is enthusiastic about myself anymore.

I met a lady who told me about her helplessness and grievances in marriage and her deep confusion about the future. She suspected that she had fallen in love with the wrong person and didn't know what the meaning of this marriage was.

In marriage, there is no enthusiasm, only indifference, no emotion, only making do.

her husband doesn't want to touch her, because she is annoying and has too many things to do. Even if she dresses beautifully, her husband doesn't care. She can only admire herself in front of the mirror.

after ten years of marriage, she and her husband gradually lost the feeling of love. Someone is pursuing her, and she dare not accept it for the sake of marriage.

every time she faces the pursuit of others, she feels that she loves the wrong husband. If the time could be repeated, she said that she would not choose her husband. Not because I fell in love with someone else, but because this marriage is only about making do and suffering.

Second, love is a luxury for many married couples

Tell me about this lady's experience. Liu Xiao, a 32-year-old girl, used to be naive about love. After several times of lovelorn pain, she became stable. She believes that love is to find a suitable person, and marriage is to live a lifetime.

at the age of p>21, Liu Xiao met a suitable man, Xiao Wang. Xiao Wang's experience is similar to Liu Xiao's, and he has been lovelorn many times, knowing that it is not easy to find a suitable person.

At the beginning, Liu Xiao didn't love Xiao Wang very much, and Xiao Wang didn't have much interest in her. But two people can find a sincere feeling from each other, just like a sense of security, which is a "suitable" feeling. After several months of contact, Liu Xiao and Xiao Wang fell in love, and they made a lifelong commitment.

A beautiful fate was on the right track. At the age of 22, Liu Xiao married Xiao Wang.

At the beginning of marriage, both of them vowed to love each other for life and treat each other as treasures forever. Similar love experiences and similar family conditions make the couple have more * * * in common language. There are always endless words when two people are together, and they will miss them especially when they are not together.

A few years before the marriage, the couple were very loving, and no one thought that with the passage of time, there were so many troubles in the marriage. It seems that by living, love is far away from life and marriage. Husband and wife used to talk about everything together, but later they didn't want to be together. When they talked, they quarreled.

after ten years of marriage, we became attached to each other because of love. Later, we lost love, but we still have to go on, and we will do it to the end. For Liu Xiao, the so-called love has become a luxury in marriage.

Just like many couples, they once said that love lasts forever, but later, when there is no wasteland, love is gone.

Third, many married women are confused about marriage because they can't find love.

Like many women with dull marriages, Liu Xiao is confused about marriage and extremely disappointed with her husband.

Being under the same roof, eating the same pot of rice and raising the same child, is becoming less and less like a family. Go to different classes during the day and sleep in different rooms at night. The couple take turns to pick up and drop off their children to school and take turns to help them with their homework. The communication between the two people is getting less and less, and even the opportunity to hold hands is getting less and less, let alone hug.

Sometimes I talk a lot, but it's no longer because of love, let alone being moved, but for quarreling and venting my increasingly grumpy temper.

once, when the couple quarreled, her husband always let her. Later, before they quarreled, her husband wanted to find trouble. Once, my mother-in-law loved Liu Xiao as much as her own daughter. Later, she turned to her son everywhere and liked to go looking for trouble.

On the 1th anniversary of the wedding, Liu Xiao urged her many times before her husband reluctantly took 3 commemorative photos with her. After she came back, she was blamed by her mother-in-law, saying that she couldn't live, and she abruptly reduced thirty to ten!

Liu Xiao cried all night that day, but her husband still didn't speak for her. Women love beauty. Even after ten years of marriage, Liu Xiao has a heart for beauty and wants to record the beautiful moments. But for the sake of family harmony, Liu Xiao compromised and listened to her mother-in-law.

Liu Xiao at work is a very strong woman, and no one knows that Liu Xiao in marriage is just a wronged woman. Liu Xiao longs for love, but her husband cares less and less about her. No matter how hard she works, her husband doesn't care about her. She doesn't know how far the marriage can go.

If it's just the trivial matters in the marriage, Liu Xiao is not too confused, but can still get on with it.

The most confusing thing for her is that she accidentally found a feeling of deja vu love. That man is her newly transferred colleague, and that man is very kind to her. Liu Xiao can see the longing in the man's eyes, and that longing is the feeling of her long-awaited love.

Fourth, in a dull marriage, people who divorce voluntarily often regret

Liu Xiao looks forward to a new love and a new marriage without grievances. That man is not married, which gives Liu Xiao room for further imagination.

Liu Xiao thinks that there is nothing wrong with her, it is all her husband's fault. Now some people care about themselves, but they don't know how to choose.

There is only one thing left in marriage. Can it really go on like this?

This is a question that Liu Xiao once asked.

At that time, I told her that in fact, many marriages have similar development trajectories. Women, in particular, are most likely to fantasize because of their dull feelings. I always think that marriage has failed me, and I always think that love is far away from me.

Although men prefer daydreaming, generally speaking, men dare to take it and let it go, but most women often don't have the courage. In the end, women often suffer more than men when they regret their emotional mistakes.

Now that you have children, don't think too much about it without too much emotional turmoil. Live your life well and you won't regret it.

Liu Xiao's last sentence is: I hope so. If my husband still treats me like that, I will get a divorce.

Later, Liu Xiao never came. She was divorced when she came to see me again.

Liu Xiao's divorce process is very simple. She thinks that her husband continues to put on a long face and her mother-in-law continues to care about her.

when Liu Xiao really decided to divorce, her husband realized that his wife had changed her mind. Even if her husband is unwilling to divorce, Liu Xiao can't turn back even if her husband says he will correct his mistakes. Liu Xiao has become the woman of that colleague and is going to marry him.

Unfortunately, Liu Xiaotai is too wishful thinking. After the divorce, her boyfriend didn't love her. Every time, they quarreled and fought because of Liu Xiao's children.

After all, it is unrealistic for a divorced woman to never see her children after having children. Liu Xiao couldn't stand her boyfriend's temper and slowly regretted her waywardness.

5. There is sincere love in a plain marriage

The teacher once said: Everything is simple and profound, and profound to the extreme is simple.

Love also has this feature. Simple to the extreme is actually the deepest affection. Only the most sincere heart can find that kind of emotion hidden in the depths of marriage.

Liu Xiao and her boyfriend have had a hard time, and they no longer believe that her boyfriend loves her. She wants to go back to her original family and misses her children. But she didn't have the courage to look back, fearing that her husband wouldn't forgive her.

Liu Xiao follows her boyfriend and lives in a simple rented house. There is no material life like before. Every time I cry alone, I can understand that my marriage has always been very happy. I only blame myself for finding it too late and asking too much for love. She has talked to many people, and it seems that many women come here like this.

what's the best in marriage? Without too much wind and waves, it is a simple happiness in itself, and behind the simple happiness, there are the deepest true feelings.

When Liu Xiao said goodbye in a circle of friends in sadness and despair, her boyfriend scolded her for looking for trouble, but her ex-husband found her with the children. Fortunately, it came in time and let her really understand who cares about herself. Two people cried into a ball, and a family of three started a new life.

The past is hard to remember, but it always bears a deep imprint. This experience is very profound, which makes Liu Xiao understand what marriage is, what affection is and what love is.

6. Marriage doesn't need grandiloquence, and it's a good couple who can live a dull life.

I've seen hundreds of marriage cases similar to Liu Xiao's, which always point out the core truth in marriage at the last moment.

True love doesn't have to be talked about all the time. Everyone has a temper, even couples have a temper. When you always blame the other person for not loving you or hurting you, the other person will often be angry with you and even complain more than you. This is a process of continuous indifference, and many couples are so entangled.

A really good couple doesn't always call them love and affection, but they do know what "a friend in need is a friend indeed". Most people's marriages are like this. On the surface, the more they cross, the less they feel love. But love has always been there, and it has been maintaining the positive development of marriage.

sometimes, some people don't give you the cold shoulder, or you are too demanding. Marriage is a life, and people who can live a dull life often don't regret it.