Should I talk to him?

First of all, I can see that his family, especially his parents' divorce, has a great influence on him. Generally, children from single-parent families or divorced families are a little introverted, self-respecting and inferior. Judging from the situation you described, he has the same situation. Therefore, if you want to know him, you must start from his heart.

You said you couldn't forget him and still loved him. I wonder what attracted you. How did you meet and fall in love?

* * * If you don't love him or he has nothing to attract you, I advise you to let go. Sometimes letting go is a relief. Take a step back and put it down, and Wan Li will understand.

* * * If you really still love him and want to make some efforts to save him, try to get to know him first.

First, he should have no confidence in interpersonal relationships, be introverted and feel inferior. It may be that his parents' divorce has affected him, making him feel that his interpersonal relationship is very bad and not so sincere, and because his parents are particularly afraid of other people's eyes, he doesn't want to hold a wedding because he is afraid of meeting people with different eyes. I feel bad about the wedding; Even more reluctant to invite relatives, so you have to understand him. To some extent, he is a frightened deer. You should be patient and warm enough to influence him a little, and be careful in your words and manners, so as not to stimulate his sensitive nerves.

Second, he should not love you enough, so he wants you to pay more. Judging from what you said, there is a person who is wary of you and won't tell you the address and salary of the house. The possible situation is 1. He doesn't love you at all. He has the intention of divorce. He is having an affair. He has other secrets or doesn't want you to know. Second, he is a narrow-minded, haggle over every ounce, and takes material things too seriously, as can be seen from his divorce agreement and not telling you the salary of the house.

Third, because of his sensitivity, your determination to divorce broke his heart, and he has despaired of you, which is not easy to recover.

In view of the above analysis, I think you should not be too optimistic or too persistent. If you really want to save it, you might as well make a plan, or give up completely if you don't succeed. My suggestion is:

1. It is necessary to talk openly once, but don't be modest, don't give him the feeling that you want something from him and want to remember his property, but at the same time be sincere and don't be pretentious.

2. Looking back on the sweet moments in the past, say that you can't figure out how two people who love each other got to this point, just say that you just want to know the reason and analyze it with him. First, admit that you didn't know him well enough and didn't give him enough understanding and support, saying that divorce was too impulsive, but you broke up because you thought he didn't love you. Now I really want to find out why.

After serious talk, if the effect is good, you can invite him to go to the movies, take a walk, or have an outing or something.

Don't be too eager for success. If time permits, you can make more appointments and listen to his voice.

5. Make a timetable. For example, if he doesn't refuse you in one month, he can communicate with you well and start a relationship again in two months. If the actual situation is not as you wish, cut the gordian knot quickly, break it and leave him completely.

Simply analyze these, and finally wish you happiness.