Why did I quarrel with my boyfriend and he would scold me in all the messages he sent? He would insult me ??through messages and he would say a lot of hateful things. My heart hurts when he scolds me.

Domestic verbal violence is as serious as physical violence. I scolded my sister once 2 years ago and just said XNM. I regret it to this day and it makes me feel uncomfortable when I think about it. If this is just one time, just watch his reaction afterwards. If he knows that he is wrong, He will be more considerate to you. If you don't feel that you are wrong, you can consider a relationship with him. If this happens more than once, break up with him decisively. It means he doesn't care at all whether you love you or not. If I love you, I will feel distressed even if I scold you